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Missed Connection: Kei from Osaka (Met at Departamento on Wednesday night)

Hey everyone,
I’m looking for a guy named Kei who I met this past Wednesday night (August 5th) at Departamento in Roma Norte.

He is from Osaka, Japan, currently living in CDMX for a year-long university study abroad program. He’s quite tall and was super nice to talk to, but we parted ways before swapping contact info or social media handles.

If you are Kei, or if you happen to know a tall Japanese exchange student matching this description who goes by Kei, please shoot me a DM! I'd love to reconnect and grab a drink. 💕
Thank you!

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u/Key-Conversation1304 — 11 days ago
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I want my bf of 4 years back. Advice?

Boyfriend of four years and I broke up about one month ago we lived together for almost 2. He packed a lot of his belongings and moved them into his storage unit and right now we’re proceeding with moving out at the end of June.

The time apart did bring clarity in mistakes that I’ve made and in clarifying how deeply I love him and don’t want to lose him how I could’ve shown up differently how my actions made him feel not safe.

Of course he made mistakes and I’m holding space for those mistakes as well, but I’ve been retrospecting on me a lot. I want him back. I don’t want to lose him. He truly is the love of my life, we love each other so much. It became unhealthy and toxic, and I want to work on those things I want him back and I don’t know what to do. He told me about the book ‘The Body Keeps A Score’ and that his nervous system needs to reset and when I contact him it reverses his healing.

Any advice?

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u/Key-Conversation1304 — 2 months ago
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I want a man’s take on what would make you go back to your Ex?

Let’s say there were a lot of ups and downs and friction in the relationship but a lot of repair as well. He felt unsafe and I was not a great partner at times and dismissive of his needs. I see it now! But before I was blind to it and I want to be better.

After four years you called it quits and moved out after living together for two. What are my options to reconcile and how does a man process this differently than a woman? I want him back our love is special and rare. How do men think about this and is there any possibility of reconciliation?

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u/Key-Conversation1304 — 2 months ago

I want my bf of 4 years back. Advice?

Boyfriend of four years and I broke up about one month ago we lived together for almost 2. He packed a lot of his belongings and moved them into his storage unit and right now we’re proceeding with moving out at the end of June.

The time apart did bring clarity in mistakes that I’ve made and in clarifying how deeply I love him and don’t want to lose him how I could’ve shown up differently how my actions made him feel not safe.

Of course he made mistakes and I’m holding space for those mistakes as well, but I’ve been retrospecting on me a lot. I want him back. I don’t want to lose him. He truly is the love of my life, we love each other so much. It became unhealthy and toxic, and I want to work on those things I want him back and I don’t know what to do. He told me about the book ‘The Body Keeps A Score’ and that his nervous system needs to reset and when I contact him it reverses his healing.

Any advice?

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u/Key-Conversation1304 — 2 months ago