Salam Aleykum brothers and sisters,
I’m so close to giving up on myself i sadly fell into the addiction of something i sadly cannot say because the post will get taken down and cannot stop and it’s destroying me i sadly cannot stop this bad disgusting habit, i showered i do it, i can’t stop… Should i give up?
Signs my iman is getting better, so I don’t pray constantly talk to boys and vape but i recently found myself interested more in Islam and have a genuine fear of jahannam and started learning more about the day of judgement and i have fear that my iman is not strong enough i have lately been close to doing a major sin i rather not share here but stopped myself knowing it’s a sin, the guy i’m talking to i’m aware it’s a sin it’s hard to let him go since i got so attached to him i have no idea if this is a sign of strong iman or that allah loves me i have no clue if im going to jahannam. When i think about allah i feel proudness of his mercyness and for being muslim, a bit of fear of upsetting him and i get a bit emotional about many aspects of my religion. so so i’m not a good muslim? my iman is getting stronger? and tbh my family has been going through so many rough patches in life i stopped caring about it and left it to allah because i have a feeling/i know allah has a better plan for us either in this dunya or the Akhira and i have no idea if im a bad muslim or if my iman and faith are weakening…”
Salam!! I just want some honest opinions please!!
Signs my iman is getting better, so I don’t pray constantly talk to boys and vape but i recently found myself interested more in Islam and have a genuine fear of jahannam and started learning more about the day of judgement and i have fear that my iman is not strong enough i have lately been close to doing a major sin i rather not share here but stopped myself knowing it’s a sin, the guy i’m talking to i’m aware it’s a sin it’s hard to let him go since i got so attached to him i have no idea if this is a sign of strong iman or that allah loves me i have no clue if im going to jahannam. When i think about allah i feel proudness of his mercyness and for being muslim, a bit of fear of upsetting him and i get a bit emotional about many aspects of my religion. so so i’m not a good muslim? my iman is getting stronger? and tbh my family has been going through so many rough patches in life i stopped caring about it and left it to allah because i have a feeling/i know allah has a better plan for us either in this dunya or the Akhira and i have no idea if im a bad muslim or if my iman and faith are weakening…
Salam!! I just want some honest opinions please!!
Signs my iman is getting better, so I don’t pray constantly talk to boys and vape but i recently found myself interested more in Islam and have a genuine fear of jahannam and started learning more about the day of judgement and i have fear that my iman is not strong enough i have lately been close to doing a major sin i rather not share here but stopped myself knowing it’s a sin, the guy i’m talking to i’m aware it’s a sin it’s hard to let him go since i got so attached to him i have no idea if this is a sign of strong iman or that allah loves me i have no clue if im going to jahannam. When i think about allah i feel proudness of his mercyness and for being muslim, a bit of fear of upsetting him and i get a bit emotional about many aspects of my religion. so so i’m not a good muslim? my iman is getting stronger? and tbh my family has been going through so many rough patches in life i stopped caring about it and left it to allah because i have a feeling/i know allah has a better plan for us either in this dunya or the Akhira and i have no idea if im a bad muslim or if my iman and faith are weakening…
Signs my iman is getting better, so I don’t pray constantly talk to boys and vape but i recently found myself interested more in Islam and have a genuine fear of jahannam and started learning more about the day of judgement and i have fear that my iman is not strong enough i have lately been close to doing a major sin i rather not share here but stopped myself knowing it’s a sin, the guy i’m talking to i’m aware it’s a sin it’s hard to let him go since i got so attached to him i have no idea if this is a sign of strong iman or that allah loves me i have no clue if im going to jahannam. When i think about allah i feel proudness of his mercyness and for being muslim, a bit of fear of upsetting him and i get a bit emotional about many aspects of my religion. so so i’m not a good muslim? my iman is getting stronger? and tbh my family has been going through so many rough patches in life i stopped caring about it and left it to allah because i have a feeling/i know allah has a better plan for us either in this dunya or the Akhira and i have no idea if im a bad muslim or if my iman and faith are weakening…
I (20F) said something to a guy (also 20s) that I can’t stop thinking about and now I feel really guilty about it.
We were talking and joking around, and at one point I told him something like “if I wasn’t in a relationship, I’d go for you.” I didn’t actually mean it in a serious way and I didn’t have feelings for him, but I think I said it because I liked the attention and wanted him to keep talking to me.
I also occasionally flirted with a friend of mine in a joking way, but again, I didn’t mean anything serious by it.
Now I feel really bad about it and I’m wondering if what I did was misleading or unfair to him, even though I didn’t physically do anything and didn’t intend to start anything real.
AITA?
I (20F) recently ended a relationship with my ex (30M) and I’ve been feeling really guilty and confused about my behavior while we were together. We were in a relationship for a while, but I didn’t feel comfortable or happy in it. There was a big age gap and I often felt uneasy during physical affection and just generally didn’t feel emotionally good in the relationship. At times I honestly felt relieved when he would leave. The main issue I’m struggling with is that while I was still in the relationship, I started talking to other guys my age. I didn’t physically cheat, but I did flirt with one friend “as a joke,” and with another guy I said something like I would go for him if I wasn’t with my boyfriend. I think part of me said it to keep his attention on me even though I didn’t actually have real feelings for him. Looking back, I think I was really unhappy in my relationship and staying partly because I didn’t want to ruin the relationship between our families, not because I was genuinely in love anymore. Now that it’s over, I feel really disgusted with myself and guilty for how I acted. I don’t know if what I did counts as cheating or if I was just emotionally checked out and handled things badly. I’m trying to understand myself better and figure out how to move on from this without hating myself.
Heyy,i know im young and im getting to know a man and its going towards something serious like marriage etc. Hes 10 years older and hes an amazing hes what we call “good on paper” i just dont know if hes my nassib since everything went smoothly with us we’ve been talking/together for 4 months almost he lives in a different country but i cant help a gut feeling that doesnt feel quite right i dont know if its my shaytan or if im too caught up in this dunya but i did istikhara i never really got any signs except once and i woke up being happy then at night we had a huge fight that led us to going in a break and in our i’ve never felt better and ever since me and him started talking me and my mom started having more arguments about me and him because she’s telling i shouldn’t let him go because he has all qualities of a good man i genuinely dont know if hes my nassib or not i dont know what to do, all though his whole family loves me im truly lost