u/KiameV

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41 [M4F] #Colorado / I-25 corridor - looking for life partner

I've come to a point in my life where my commitment to a successful career is paying off and I am nearing a comfortable early retirement. Now I am ready to fully commit to a life-long partner.

I'm not into daily horoscopes but my birth sign Cancer describes me well:

  • I'm deeply nurturing, loyal, and emotionally intuitive.
  • I desire deep conversations and long-term commitment.
  • I show love through acts of service and affection.
  • I prefer cozy nights in over wild nights out.

About me:

  • 6'4", 195 lbs, average build
  • Live just North of Denver / E-470
  • Enjoy sewing, anime, D&D, board games, fantasy/sci-fi, and programming (what I do for work)
  • Time together is important to me
  • Done my healing and will continue as needed
  • ☕/🍵 ✅
  • Sober (never drank), ok if you do
  • Workout 3-4 times a week
  • Homebody mostly, ok for some hiking and travel to mix things up
  • Organizes regular meetups for friends to hangout and have fun together
  • Liberal
  • LGBTQ+ rights
  • Never Trump
  • Enneagram 2, INFJ

Looking for:

  • Age anywhere from 30s to 40s
  • Preferably lives in the greater Denver area or along I-25
  • No smokers or drug users. I'm ok with some 420 but not for me
  • Enjoys meandering & deep conversations and likes to share their ideas & emotions

Interested?

Feel free to respond here or if you DM me, please tell me a bit about yourself, general location, and a picture.

u/KiameV — 3 days ago

41 [M4F] Colorado / I-25 corridor - looking for life partner

I've come to a point in my life where my commitment to a successful career is paying off and I am nearing a comfortable early retirement. Now I am ready to fully commit to a life-long partner.

I'm not into daily horoscopes but my birth sign Cancer describes me well:

  • I'm deeply nurturing, loyal, and emotionally intuitive.
  • I desire deep conversations, long-term commitment, and feeling loved.
  • I show love through acts of service and affection.
  • I prefer cozy nights in over wild nights out.

About me:

  • 6'4", 195 lbs, average build
  • Live just North of Denver / E-470
  • Enjoy sewing, anime, D&D, board games, fantasy/sci-fi, and programming (what I do for work)
  • Time together is important to me
  • Done my healing and will continue as needed
  • ☕/🍵 ✅
  • Sober (never drank), ok if you do
  • Workout 3-4 times a week
  • Homebody mostly, ok for some hiking and travel to mix things up
  • Organizes regular meetups for friends to hangout and have fun together
  • No & Don't want kids
  • Liberal
  • LGBTQ+ rights
  • Never Trump
  • Enneagram 2, INFJ

Looking for:

  • Age anywhere from 30s to mid 40s
  • Preferably lives along I-25 or I-70 but willing to explore online (USA)
  • No smokers or drug users. I'm ok with some 420 but not for me

Interested?

Feel free to respond here or if you DM me, please tell me a bit about yourself, general location, and a picture.

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u/KiameV — 3 days ago

41M Profile Review

Looking for women in their 30's and 40's, greater Denver, Co, US area, liberal, no smoking.

Please be respectful about my hobby. I know there is a lot of misinformation out there about fursuiting and if anyone does have any questions, I'm happy to answer any here or in DMs.

I did include fursuiting by choice, and this could be the reason for the lack of likes but at least in Colorado and the demographic I'm looking for, I'm surprised this would be an immediate left-swipe. I am willing to hear opinions and be dissuaded on this thought though (again respectfully ❤️)

I did get 2 matches originally and I followed up with a pleasant greeting and an inquiry about something on their profile. One ghosted, the other we had a back and forth, they left for work and ghosted since...

Thank you for your help and understanding my request

u/KiameV — 3 days ago

41 [M4F] [Colorado / USA (maybe)] looking for forever partner (curious locals too)

I've come to a point in my life where my commitment to a successful career is paying off and I am nearing a comfortable early retirement. Now I am ready to fully commit to a life long partner.

While I don't really believe, my zodiac sign (cancer) really does describe me well:

  • I'm deeply nurturing, loyal, and emotionally intuitive.
  • I desire security, deep conversations, and long-term commitment.
  • I show love through acts of service and affection.
  • I prefer cozy nights in over wild nights out.

About me:

  • 6'5", 195 lbs, average build
  • Live just North of Denver / E-470
  • Enjoy sewing, anime, D&D, board games, and programming (what I do for work)
  • Time together is important to me
  • Done my healing and will continue as needed
  • ☕/🍵 ✅
  • Sober (never drank), ok if you do
  • Workout 3-4 times a week
  • Homebody mostly, ok for some hiking and travel
  • Maker of fursuits (hobby)
  • Never married
  • Liberal
  • LGBTQ+ rights!
  • Never Trump

Looking for:

  • Age anywhere from 30s to mid 40s
  • Preferably lives along I-25 or I-70 but willing to explore online (USA/Canada)
  • Prefer to take it slow; I am not looking for hookups
  • Ready to put in the effort
  • No smokers or drug users. I'm ok with some 420 but not for me.
  • Doesn't mind my quirky hobby (fursuiting)

Interested?

Feel free to DM me with some details about yourself, including relative area, and a picture 👍

Pictures:

https://preview.redd.it/41-m4f-colorado-rocky-mtns-usa-maybe-nerdy-creative-leader-v0-ouahhs0ydm1h1.jpg?width=960&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5175beb9fe0bc48ee9681da4bc5ac32aa0e7529a
May 2026

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Playing MTG at a local game store. May 2026

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Example of a fursuiting meet I organized. I'm the orange fox in the middle. (Guy Ferrari group had to get a photo with us!)

u/KiameV — 5 days ago
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41 [M4F] [Colorado / Rocky Mtns / USA (maybe)] Nerdy, Creative, Leader Seeking my Forever Partner

Potential Partner,

I've come to a point in my life where my commitment to a successful career is paying off and I am nearing a comfortable early retirement. Now I am ready to fully commit to a life long partner.

While I don't really believe, my zodiac sign (cancer) really does describe me well:

  • I'm deeply nurturing, loyal, and emotionally intuitive.
  • I desire security, deep conversations, and long-term commitment.
  • I show love through acts of service and affection.
  • I prefer cozy nights in over wild nights out.

About me:

  • 6'5", 195 lbs, average build
  • Live just North of Denver / E-470
  • Enjoy Anime, D&D, Gaming (board, pc, console), and Programming (what I do for work)
  • Time together is important to me
  • Always want to help those I care about be it menial chores or solving problems.
  • Done my healing and will continue as needed
  • ☕/🍵 ✅
  • Sober (never drank), ok if you do
  • Workout 3-4 times a week
  • Homebody mostly, ok for some hiking and travel
  • Maker of fursuits (hobby)
  • Never married
  • Liberal
  • LGBTQ+ rights!
  • Never Trump

Looking for:

  • Age anywhere from 30s to mid 40s
  • Preferably lives along I-25 or I-70 but willing to explore online (USA/Canada)
  • Prefer to take it slow; I am not looking for hookups
  • Kind and compassionate
  • No smokers or drug users. I'm ok with some 420 but not for me.
  • Doesn't mind my quirky hobby

Interested?

Feel free to DM me with some details about yourself, including relative area, and a picture 👍

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May 2026

https://preview.redd.it/pgbcq4er7i1h1.jpg?width=762&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ba6765915cf7fe28cec3808cf51c37ab0b9bed0a

Example of a fursuiting meet I organized. I'm the orange fox in the middle. (Guy Ferrari group had to get a photo with us!)

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u/KiameV — 6 days ago
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Looking for honest reviews for a quirky nerd (41M)

I would appreciate some advice on making my profile better.

I am very curious to get opinions around my hobby of fursuiting (please stay respectful ❤️). In the Denver area I have great interactions with the public and it does bring me a ton of joy. I'm also including it to make sure any potential partner is ok with a bit of whimsy/goofiness on my part.

u/KiameV — 7 days ago

41 [M4F] [Colorado/Rocky Mtns] - cozy nerd looking for life-long companion

To a possible future partner,

I’ve put in a lot of hard work over the years to build a successful career, and I am on track to officially retire early in the next few years. With the professional foundation locked in, I'm ready to focus on what actually matters: starting a new chapter centered on a loving relationship, mutual respect, and a partner to enjoy the rest of my life with.

About Me:

  • I’m 6'4" and 195 lbs. I take care of myself and value an organic/mostly veggie diet and regular exercise to make sure I am and stay healthy.
  • I’m an "indoorsy" nerd at heart. My perfect days involve anime, video games, good sci-fi/fantasy (massive Brandon Sanderson fan), and plenty of physical touch once a connection is established and permission is granted. That said, I do love the occasional scenic hike or trip to mix things up.
  • I'm a big believer in putting kindness out into the world. Sometimes that looks like helping a friend move or reaching the top shelf for a stranger. Other times, it means suiting up as an orange fox to spread a little whimsy and joy to passersby. (pfp is my fursuit 😉)
  • I'm liberal, strictly monogamous, and deeply loyal. I’m also someone who is always looking to grow as a person, whether that means working on myself or finding ways to be a better friend or a better partner.

I’m looking for someone who wants to take things slow and build a rock-solid foundation. My ideal first date is just a low-key coffee or tea and if the vibes check, maybe add in a stroll.

To me, a successful relationship requires mutual respect, admiration, and a shared commitment to communication. I’m a huge advocate for proactive relationship health, including regular couples counseling to prevent misunderstandings before they start.

If you're looking for a kind, reliable partner to share a cozy, whimsical life with, please feel free to send me a DM. Tell me about your favorite book or your go-to video game/anime!

Thank you for making it to the end!

P.S. A fair warning: once we reach a point in the relationship that we begin to cuddle, don't be mad at me if I fall asleep against your shoulder. It really means I feel completely safe and content with you. 😊

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u/KiameV — 8 days ago