u/KingBowser24

So I was talking to a woman for a couple days, and for most of that, chemistry felt strong and we seemed to be getting along very well. We eventually planned a date and spoke about other plans if we continue to get along too. She herself was very flirty with me, showering me with compliments and such, which is something I wasn't very accustomed to, being an average looking autistic nerdy guy lol

Well eventually, she asked me about my last relationship and how it ended. I just told her that nothing bad happened, our lifestyles just didn't line up, and we parted on good terms. We're still friends today. And for some reason this made her completely flip the script. She initially accused me of still having feelings for my ex- I responded with "I respect her but I'm not hung up on her, we broke up years ago." Then she started going off about how it's "trashy" to still be friends with your ex, and insisted that I needed to just cut her out of my life. My next response was along the lines of "You know not all relationships end badly, right? Some people just work better as friends". Atp she totally flipped and started hurling some personal, and honestly quite hurtful, insults at me that were completely unrelated to the discussion. After that I basically just said "well if thats how you feel, alright." and stopped talking to her. For some reason she was all like "Oh but we can still be friends!" but I ignored her after that, and she eventually unfriended me on social media. I was dumbfounded for a while, I thought if anything she might've taken that as a good sign that I don't hate on or hold grudges against my exes but I guess not.

Honestly my only hangup on that now is that she was recently divorced from a (supposedly) abusive ex, so I'm wondering if something about the ex conversation just set her off. I dunno. Like I mentioned I'm autistic and I'm not always good at judging these things and tend to speak very directly so maybe I just came off as insensitive towards her situation or something.