u/Klaudia_mondta

So I want to do a channel about solving riddles, and I was thinking how does one make a video look not that amateur. I basically don't know anything about social media or editing, I recorded myself with my phone and the screen with my laptop, and tried cutting it together with EasyCut.

One thing I noticed was that without a thumbnail it looks very unprofessional. Also I say way too many uhhh-s. But what else can make a video look well-put-together?

Channel name: KlaudiaRiddles

So my boyfriend said he'll go for a walk and I said nice can I go with you and he said no, he wants to walk alone for mental health. So before he left he was using his instagram on my phone and he said "wait let me log out" and then he went and I've never done this before, but I went through his phone because I was 90% sure he actually wants to meet this girl (idk how I knew, intuiton I guess) and he did and it turns out he was going with her on night walks since like 2 months. And idk, I just felt so betrayed I just packed my stuff and left before he came back and now I'm in a hotel. This happened like 5 hours ago and now I'm reading more of their chat and he called her cute yesterday like 5 times. And he barely texts me nowadays because he says he's very busy but he is telling stuff about his day in such a detail to her and I just don't see how I could continue this relationship.

Hello everyone! 🫪

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So, let's start with the basics: I'm a 21 year old business student from Hungary, I'm pretty busy because I also work alongside university. I live with my boyfriend and a friend of ours.

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I am an ENTP 3w2, also I'm neurodivergent 💫 so sometimes I talk a little super awkward and I like when people are straightforward. I am an aquarius ♒, but I don't really believe in horoscopes (but I do like witchcraft in general 🧙‍♀️).

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So I love nature and animals. 🍀 I also like to read, especially fantasy 🐉 (right now I'm reading Assassin's Apprentice by Robin Hobb). I like to draw, write, cook. I try to live a healthy life. I also like to talk sometimes about hungarian politics. I also like to talk about philosophical and "what-if" questions, and random fun facts. I like sciences, math, history.

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So I'm looking for a penpal because it sounds kind of cool to receive letters and emails besides phone bills and also because I want to extend my social circle a bit more besides my coworkers.

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If you are interested maybe send an introduction please too with your age, gender, hobbies because I would prefer to connect with other women around my age. Also, otherwise I might find out 2 years in that your hobby is stealing candy from children and you know, that would be pretty inconvenient 🫪.

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I’m looking for snail-mail 🐌 or email pen pals. Slow mail sounds really fun, but if we live on opposite sides of the globe, it might get a little too slow, so I’d be happy with a mixed thing too: emails/physical letters.

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For safety/privacy, I’d prefer not to exchange home addresses. If we ever send physical letters or small mail, I’d rather use something like a parcel locker/service such as FoxPost 🦊, or another safe option we both feel comfortable with.

EDIT: I forgot to add: I speak english, german, hungarian and a bit of spanish (but I would love to practice my spanish a bit).

So my great grandmother was well-known for her baby pink cherry compotes but she never told anyone the recipes. Does anyone have an idea why they were baby pink? I would love to try to recreate it.

Fleur is my favourite character! I mean, first of all she's smart, talented (see: triwizard tournament), she cares a lot (for example, her sister), she's loyal, brave I like that she's direct. I mean sometimes she can come off as rude, but she's not hiding her opinion and definitely not fake. She likes glamour, but is that a bad thing? Also she has a bit hard time adjusting, but she's trying, like people can't stand her but she doesn't shrink herself, keeps showing up and she even joins the war and everything. So she has some flaws, but one thing about Harry Potter is that every character has major flaws.

So, I'm 21 and my life has been kinda crazy. So first 18 years was just bad, then I moved accross the country and then I was just very self-destructive for two years. So then a year ago I learned that actually you're not supposed to replay memories in your head and I learned how to let them go. (Ok, it was of course longer and not that easy in practice, but I wanted to summarize it.

I learned some things, like now I'm better at recognizing toxic things, because in the past there were many things I didn't really understand that they are not good or why they are not good. And one thing I realized is that I'm a people-pleaser and I still have troubles with saying no sometimes, especially to my father, but it's way better since then. I mean, I used to things for people I didn't care about all day, and now I'm just living my life basically.

So I have bpd, and I realized I was very toxic and I worked a lot on it and now my symptomps are 95% better. I mean I still have mood swings, but it's not like when you have an existential crisis and then the next moment you just think life is beautiful, but way more calmer. I mean, sometimes it's bad, but not in the way it used to and also I stopped drinking, smoking, SH and many bad habits. Then I got a job and a boyfriend and I'm renting an apartment with him and a friend and I'm starting to go to my uni classes, etc.

So the problem is that sometimes I'm so confused on what healthy people would do. Like, I'm very functional now and I don't have many concrete things that I'm like, I have to fix this, but it's just a general vibe of I have no idea what I'm doing. Like, I don't know how to talk to people properly, kinda confused about wether I'm managing my house correctly (I mean I have a system now so it's usually kinda clean, and there is always food, and there are always clean clothes, took me a bit of time to learn), how to act in my job place, how to think about stuff. Like, I don't know what a healthy person looks like if that makes sense. Because I'm not doing the obviously unhelthy stuff anymore but I would also not call myself healthy.