u/KurwaDestroyer

I had 2 preteens to start out when I started having babies again.

We were gifted a single child jogger by my husband’s foreman. Totally unexpected but so seriously appreciated. That was nice but then I got pregnant again and it was kind of bulky. So I also got an umbrella stroller for quicker trips.

And then I had that baby. Just babywore. I also had 3 different devices for babywearing…

Pregnant again.

Mind you — I don’t spend money on myself. I just don’t care to. Baby stuff though? 🤪

Wearing a baby and pushing a stroller and going to OB appointments didn’t make any sense because I was pregnant again…

So I found a 2nd hand Joovy Caboose with all the addons. A triple stroller. It was amazing. I would smash my kids into the walls of my OB office on accident. Oops.

And now I’m pregnant again. I just explained to my husband a few days ago that it makes more sense to just purchase a wagon because it’s not 5ft long and easier to navigate. So now I’m getting a 4 seater wagon because I’m pregnant again.

Lmao. 4u4. I have a single jogger, an umbrella, a 3 seater stroller, the 4 seater wagon, and 3 different babywearing devices.

I have a post history you can see. It’s titled “MIL just can’t help herself.” It’s in this subreddit.

I finally had enough and presented my grievances. They travel the US constantly. My FIL was once again diagnosed with cancer for the 3rd time. Eye roll. Call me Satan. That’s fine. My daughter who is not my husbands daughter is here for 6 weeks in the summer. FIL had cancer again. :( Excuse me if I sound cold. I relinquished one of my 4 weekends with my daughter so my husband could go see his dad. Especially for Father’s Day. I did my due diligence. Huge regret. He is so physically healthy he could drive to Kentucky from MI???? But they never try to drive here??? Also wtaf???? Excuse me but WHAT. I’m salty about this. I once again sacrificed for … what?

I sent MIL a very mild list of grievances which were totally fair and I was not aggressive. My husband agreed with that.

It’s been two months. I have had no reciprocity. Nothing. Not a response. I blocked her from socials because ERMMMMMM if you can’t communicate with me, you aren’t able to see my kids. Simple as.

I messaged MIL after I was just DONE.

This was the text I sent her:
“Idk. Jon won't say it so I will. It's incredibly insulting and disappointing when you guys come here and then offer the opportunity to watch the kids and then you guys dip out early. I don't ever feel entitled to your help or offerings until you offer them. And then I'm just again disappointed and annoyed. If you don't mean that and have no intention to follow through - simply don't do it.
Don't offer.
It's also incredibly insulting when you do come here and ignore my boundaries of kissing the kids or throwing on screentime. And then trying to hide it?
These are my kids. These are my rules.
They are SUCH good kids because they're not overexposed to bullshit on a screen.
And then you come here and you brag about traveling 300000000 miles in a few weeks but getting you to establish a memorable relationship with our kids as their grandparents feels impossible.
I would LIKE you guys to be involved. I WANT my kids to have some kind of semblance of grandparents. But honestly
I don't see much point. You pretended to get offended while I accused you of lying about having covid and then you FaceTimed us with people at your house.
And then chose to brag about your grandkids over FaceTime while living a lie that you had Covid. And then I called you out when you had intentions of coming a week later and you asked me "what the hell is wrong with you?" Idk maybe what's wrong with me is that I'm being lied to.
I would so much rather O interaction that weird promises that are being made to make yourself feel better.”

Absolutely nothing. 6 weeks now. Bye. 😭😭✌🏻

Tldr barely legally exist in the state I am in. I got a USPS package mailer of unmarked pills. I’m trying to figure out somewhere to get info about wtf that was. (I did turn them over to police).

I have never in my life had an MC fortunately.

I was legitimately just standing in my kitchen and felt a weird gush. I’m about 10 weeks.

I am sitting on my toilet bleeding and it leaked through my clothes.

My OB is closed. The ER doesn’t give medical advice over the phone. I don’t know wha to do or if I should go in or there’s a point in going in.

Update: I got into contact with my OB and I’m on my way right now. Thank you guys.

I will have 4 under 4 by the end of the year and 2 teenagers. Wooooohoooo. Lmao.

I have Unmedicated ADHD so organization and routine and fluidity are insanely important. And I need something BIG. Baby toys. Diapers. Wipes. Bottles. Cups. Snacks. Toddler toys. Changes of clothes. Formula. Water for formula. Wearable pumps. Etc etcetera.

I don’t go much of anywhere but we spend a good chunk out of the house for church and church events with friends so we are gonna need a honky boy.

I’d like to hear any of y’all’s favorites.

Tl;dr I was in an insanely abuse relationship. He has had 85 years total sentenced for me alone — to give you an idea.

TLDR I was a moron and allowed him to sign an AOP in 2019. He beat me once again shortly after that and was sentenced to 25 years. So formally and legally — he is her father.

She knew him for 3-4 weeks at best out of her 13 years.

He ended up marrying someone I guess a few years ago but I only found out bc she contacted me. She wanted pictures of my kid. Lmao.

Well — it turns out that I’m a fucking moron I guess. And my Instagram was feeding to my Facebook publicly. I fixed it. But that’s where this started.

She saw one picture of my daughter and has been reposting it calling my daughter her stepdaughter. Creating AI images of my daughter who she has never met. Mind you — my daughter is just as much her daughter as it would be you, as the reader.

She’s literally printing AI generated photos of my daughter and posting them on her Facebook.

There is no clause for this in our custody/divorce.