MBTI e ajuda com personagens

Postei isso originalmente no subreddit de MBTI em inglês, mas fui ignorada magistralmente. Então vou postar aqui, onde as pessoas se importam um pouco mais com escrita (ou ao menos assim espero). O motivo pelo qual eu gosto de tipar meus personagens com o MBTI é porque estabelecer arquétipos pode ajudar na escrita. Não é uma coisa que eu levaria muito à sério na vida real, e se você não entende de MBTI, pode apenas ignorar essa parte. Enfim...

Estou escrevendo um BL de fantasia medieval entre dois personagens que pertencem a povos diferentes e não têm nenhum idioma em comum. Um deles foi exilado de seu povo por se opor à guerra e agora vive sozinho em uma cabana, em um vale. O outro é um guerreiro que perdeu a memória e foi salvo pelo primeiro personagem enquanto estava desacordado. Agora eles estão morando juntos enquanto o guerreiro se recupera, mas não têm como se comunicar, exceto pela linguagem corporal — pelo menos no início. Mais para frente, a ideia é que aprendam a se comunicar, começando com frases mais simples e ficando mais complexo.

O exilado é um personagem do tipo culto. Ele tem 35 anos, gosta muito de ler e já trabalhou como diplomata. A força motriz de suas ações é sua religião, que o ajudou a superar alguns dos momentos mais difíceis de sua vida. Ele acredita que a vontade de sua deusa é que ele ajude o guerreiro, então é isso que ele faz. (Na verdade, a crença dele serve para potencializar a bondade dele, porque ele fez isso porque quis, não por obrigação). Ele encara o exílio como uma oportunidade de crescimento pessoal e espiritual. Então... acho que tudo nesse personagem grita "INFJ", por isso esse é o MBTI canônico que defini para ele. Ele nem sempre foi uma boa pessoa, mas está se esforçando para ser diferente.

Já o guerreiro era bastante preconceituoso antes de perder a memória, e o personagem INFJ literalmente lhe causa arrepios só por sua aparência (embora o guerreiro ainda não entenda por que se sente assim). Obviamente, ele tem um bom motivo para isso: o povo inimigo invadiu seu país e matou sua esposa e seus filhos. Qualquer um da mesma raça que o outro personagem causaria essa mesma reação visceral de aversão. Ele tem 30 anos e (previsivelmente) sofre de TEPT (Transtorno de Estresse Pós-Traumático). Consigo imaginá-lo com vários MBTIs, mas pensei que ESTP talvez fosse uma boa escolha, pois se encaixa no tema "os opostos se atraem". Isso significa que ele ficaria morrendo de tédio enquanto se recupera na cama. Também significa que ele tem a agilidade mental que se espera de um guerreiro, e que seria uma pessoa divertida, que poderia trazer um pouco de emoção para a vida deles.

Como você acha que eles iam interagir um com o outro? Existe alguma situação engraçada/fofa/interessante que consegue imaginar acontecendo entre eles? Como fazer o leitor não desgrudar os olhos? Você acha que o MBTI que escolhi combina com eles?

Acho que suas respostas podem me ajudar a escrever melhor os personagens.

(A propósito, a ideia é fazer um quadrinho, e pretendo criar línguas fictícias para a história.)

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u/LaisCahill — 4 days ago
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Relationship between INFJ and ESTP characters

I'm writing a romance story between characters who belong to different peoples and don't have any language in common. One of them was exiled from his people because he advocated against war, and lives alone in a valley. The other one is a warrior who lost his memory and was aided by the first character. Now they live together while the warrior recovers, but they don't have any way to communicate except body language, at least in the beginning.

The exiled one is a highly educated type of character. He's 35, he likes reading a lot, and once worked as a diplomat. The driving force behind his actions is his religion, which helped him go through some of the toughest times in his life. He believes his goddess wants him to help the warrior, so that's what he does. He's treating his exile as an opportunity for personal and spiritual growth. So... I think everything about this character screams INFJ, so that's my canonical MBTI for him.

The warrior character was rather racist before losing his memory, and the INFJ character literally causes him chills just because of the way they look, even though the warrior doesn't understand yet why he feels that way. He has a good reason for that, obviously - the enemy people invaded his country and killed his wife and kids. He's 30 and has PTSD lol. I could see him having other MBTI, but I thought maybe ESTP is a good match, because it fits the theme "opposites attract". That means he would be bored to death while he was recovering in bed. It also means he has the quick wit you would expect from a warrior, and he could bring a bit of fun and excitement to their life.

How do you imagine the relationship between these characters evolving? What would their relationship dynamic look like? Who would learn who's language? Why would they fall in love with each other? Do you think the MBTI I chose fits them well? How do INFJ - ESTP relationships usually play out in media?

I think your answers might help me write the characters better.

PS: if there's anything weird about the way I phrase things, it's probably because English is my second language lol. Also the story is going to be a comic book, not a novel.

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u/LaisCahill — 5 days ago

A bittersweet ending, with emphasis on sweet - My thoughts on "Go for it, Nakamura!" finale

After episode 12, Nakamura was left emotionally destroyed. He gave up all hope of having a romantic relationship with Hirose, and had fully accepted in his heart that he couldn't make Hirose happy, and all they could ever be was friends.

That's why Hirose had to be the one to ask Nakamura out, and that's why Nakamura doesn't freak out as much when Hirose does so. He is still nervous, he still really wants to go out with Hirose, but he doesn't allow himself to daydream anymore. He doesn't want to get his hopes up just be let down again. He can't handle another heartbreak.

But, as afraid (and frankly a bit traumatized) as Nakamura is, he realized that, deep down, he still loves Hirose. And he is still willing to let that feeling flourish - cautiously, this time.

By now, Hirose has realized that Nakamura has a massive crush on him, and that he has a crush on Nakamura as well. Hirose's a teenager, and teenagers do dumb shit - I don't even think Hirose had realized he was into Nakamura until he started hanging out with Hana. So it's very forgivable. But, still, I wonder how Hirose would react if he knew just how much his actions hurt Nakamura.

So, now, we have a dynamic that's a bit opposite from the start of the show. In the beginning, Nakamura was trying to make the moves. Now, Hirose is making the moves, and Nakamura is still getting used to the idea that 1- his crush likes him back 2- the SPEED at which it is all moving. Because, when Hirose starts making the moves, you see how incredibly fast things go compared to Nakamura. I think that's due to the fact Hirose is an extravert, and that he does know that Nakamura likes him back, so he's not afraid to be rejected.

In reality, the dynamic between them ends up being totally different from Nakamura's imagination. His fantasies were based on stereotypes from manga, not from real life. Nakamura himself seems to be aware of it to some extent, because at some point he said "I never really expected to be like that with Hirose in real life". But it's not because he and Hirose can't have a relationship, but because, if it did really happen, it wouldn't be like he imagined it to be.

At the end of the series, Hirose and Nakamura are not just "friends" who interact randomly once in a while, but friends who constantly hang out together. At the rate of which things are going, you can clearly see it's only a matter of time until those two start actually dating. And, yeah, I'd like to see how this plays out - but, still, just knowing where they're heading to, it already makes my heart warm.

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u/LaisCahill — 18 days ago

When did Hirose start dating Hana-chan?

I know what you're thinking - she gave him chocolate in Valentine's day and asked him out. But I watched the episode a second time and noticed something. The day after Valentine's day, Nakamura sees him leaving school with Hana. Then Hirose's friends say that he's been dating Hana for a week. How come? When did she ask him out? If she did ask him out earlier, why did Hirose ask Nakamura about the chocolate? It doesn't make sense aaaa

(Unless it took Nakamura several days to ask to go home with Hirose, but it didn't seem that way in the episode!).

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u/LaisCahill — 23 days ago

William Shatner verkis pri la filmado de "Incubus" kaj pri ĝia laŭdira malbeno en Esperanto

Kanada aktoro William Shatner estis la ĉefrolulo de la filmo "Incubus" (1966), filmita tute en Esperanto. La aktoro verkis pri la filmo en sia libro titolita "Shatner Rules" (Shatner regas), publikigita en 2011. Ĝi eĉ inkluzivigas parton en Esperanto, kie li parolas ironie pri la laŭdira "malbeno" de la filmo. Ŝerce, li implicis ke li eskapis la malbenon pro tio ke li ne spektas la filmojn por kiuj li aktoras.

(Mi malkovris tion legante kuriozaĵojn pri la filmo. Ironie, la Esperanta parto ne estis facile trovebla en la reto, nur sia angla traduko. Tial mi elprenis la sekcion pri Inkubus el PDF kaj sendas ĝin tie ĉi.)

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Canadian actor William Shatner starred in the 1966 film "Incubus", filmed entirely in Esperanto. The actor wrote about the film in his book titled "Shatner Rules", published in 2011. It even includes a section in Esperanto, where he talks ironically about the film's alleged "curse". Jokingly, he implied that he escaped the curse because he doesn't watch the films he acts in.

(by the way, the correct sentence would be \"Kiam, kaj kiom multe?\")

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u/LaisCahill — 2 months ago
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I've been having a good experience with Magic Notepad and Infinity Painter so far, but it frustrates me that the app is not detecting three and four finger gestures. That means I can't easily redo actions, change the opacity and size of the brush (instead I have to use buttons). Also I can't easily hide the UI by using 4 fingers.

I've downloaded an app to see how many touches my tablet detects. Apparently it detects up to four touches, but:

1- when I use three fingers, it does detect the initial touch, but it doesn't detect movement, which means I might be unable to change opacity and size with gestures. I should still be able to use redo, though, and I don't know why I can't. (But the app is probably buggy as well, since taking a screenshot by swiping down with three fingers works just fine. I've tried deactivating gesture for screenshots to see if that was causing conflict, but it didn't change anything).

2- Four finger touches can be detected, but it is very buggy and doesn't work everytime (not really a big problem for me, but I thought I should write it either way).

I've tried looking at the tablet and app's settings, but nothing worked, and other posts in Reddit didn't help. Do you guys have any idea on how to fix this problem?

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u/LaisCahill — 2 months ago