u/Latter_Show_890

lit hv no one to go with agar kisiko jana hai bata do

I js wanna make sure that I’m currently 18 and I never had a very close male friend or a boyfriend my school is over and vacations going on and I’m going to be in a very diff chapter of my life which is university soon in 2 months I have nothing to do at home rn
I have few male and female friends online but I’m talking abt irl I don’t, I love romantic shows and movies and the idea of dating.
I feel lonely and I want to be loved but I’m scared from the fact I’ve to talk and communicate for that let that person know me deeply and it is scaring me
Men I find attractive im scared to talk w them
Im scared to talk with men in general tbh
I grew up ugly not many boys gave me attention or had crush on me probably but now I feel little better abr myself but I still can’t do it
I think I have a great personality but I js don’t know how to express it in reality
I downloaded hinge and I have no idea why men my age or a year older than me looks so old ? I mean I cannot digest the fact I’m 18 I still feel like a child and doesn’t feel like an adult yet
Men who gives me older vibes I’m scared to talk to them even if they look very attractive
I genuinely don’t know what’s wrong with me

hello.. I’m currently with no friends at all because my school just ended and I don’t wanna talk with my school friends and start fresh I want new friends who’re into fashion music and maybe are little fun to hangout sometimes if any of u are interested we can..try to click I’m looking for friends who’re cool and loves to explore places
I love going on movie hangouts too
and rant anything that comes into my mind..
So if ur interested?

hello.. I’m currently with no friends at all because my school just ended and I don’t wanna talk with my school friends and start fresh I want new friends who’re into fashion music and maybe are little fun to hangout sometimes if any of u are interested we can..try to click I’m looking for friends who’re cool and loves to explore places
I love going on movie hangouts too
and rant anything that comes into my mind..
So if ur interested?

I am completely obsessed with the specific, heavy, hauntingly beautiful atmosphere of these two tracks:

Alice in Chains – Nutshell

Slowdive – Dagger

There is this overwhelming sense of beautiful melancholy, isolation, and raw emotion in both of them. It’s acoustic, slow, and incredibly intimate, but it still feels massive and deeply heavy.

I’m looking for recommendations that hit that exact sweet spot songs that feel like sitting alone in a dark room while it rains outside. It doesn't strictly have to be grunge or shoegaze, as long as it carries that same ghostly, heartbreakingly sad vibe.

I recently joined gym and I found this one guy pretty attractive and he's always alone by the way.. with his earphones plugged in, I would really like to be his friend since I don't have many friends right now but the issue is I'm 17 and if he's older than 19 it's gonna be an issue ... But tbh I don't think he's that old cuz he looks my age pretty much

He's super tall so i really can't tell

And I've heard that guys usually don't approach women because they're scared so I have to make the first move and I'm scared too, but I'll try but how? Also I'm worried what if he end up rejecting me we made eye contact few times😭😭😭

I'm not clearly asking him out I js wanna be his friend

I’ve had friends before, but I don’t think I’ve ever had the kind of friendships where I genuinely felt fully comfortable and connected without constantly feeling out of place or embarrassed. In school we all seem similar enough, but outside of school it feels completely different.

I recently went out with my school friends and the entire time I felt like the odd one out. I enjoy dressing nicely, being a little calmer in public, talking about deeper or more interesting things, and just having a certain vibe. My friends are very loud, childish, and attention-seeking in public, and instead of enjoying the hangout, I just felt drained and irritated.

I feel guilty saying this because I’m not trying to judge or think I’m “better” than anyone. I just crave friendships with people who naturally match my personality, interests, humor, and energy. People I can genuinely admire and feel understood by.

Why does it feel so hard to find friends you truly click with?

I watched countless tutorials and tried every tip I could find, but I’m still struggling so much with using a menstrual cup for the first time 😭 I bought a size S after hearing so much hype around cups, yet it’s been surprisingly painful and frustrating.

I genuinely feel like I’m doing something wrong because I still can’t insert it properly, and I can barely even figure out where the opening is supposed to be. Is it normal for it to hurt this much at first?

And a thought of anything inside me for hours is freaking me out so much....it just feels odd i should've realised this before wasting my money on it

And no ive never inserted anything external large and wide before , i thought menstrual cups won't cause me trouble because I'm used to with fingers ... But when you're dry its like hell.

Also, this might sound irrational, but the thought of it somehow getting “lost” inside is stressing me out 😭

At this point I feel like I wasted my money because I still had to go back to pads. My mom never really explained these things to me, so I’ve been trying to figure everything out on my own.

I got myself a menstrual cup cuz pads used to make me feel dirty and the wet feeling was gross

Also i was running out of pads so i thought let's give menstrual cup a try.. and oh my god even tho it's size S I can't put it in I tried everything it fucking hurts when it unfolds I feel like my skin will strech out and I can't even put it in properly 😭😭😭 r u suppose to feel ur menstrual cup?? I can't even walk properly when it's in, evrrybody said it's more comfortable than pads but I don't see it maybe i didn't put it in properly what do i do im sitting with using socks now Pls help me ..😭😭

I'm genuinely curious how do I get people buy those products it's been 3 days and i got 25 clicks and 1 sales AND IM STARTING TO GIVE UP ON IT ALREADY I don't have big audience in any plateforms i want somebody to tell me how it works for them

I’m curious about what a realistic and healthy life looks like for a 19-year-old woman today.

Not the “perfect Instagram life,” but actual priorities.

Should she be focusing on studies/career, or is it okay to still feel lost and experiment?

How important is:

building independence (financial + emotional)?

friendships vs relationships?

physical health and appearance?

trying new things vs sticking to a clear path?

Also, what are things she shouldn’t stress about yet?

I feel like there’s a lot of pressure to have everything figured out early, but that doesn’t seem realistic. I’d love to hear honest experiences what mattered for you at 19, and what didn’t in the long run?

I'm facing difficulties to sleep early for months.

I always end up sleeping in the morning and wakeup in afternoon and pretty much tired of my life.

I feel like this could be the reason I'm feeling depressed recently...

I'm a person who overthinks alot and this makes me stay awake in the night

It's been a month i started going to the gym and my weight is stuck after i lost 4 pounds even tho I'm doing everything i can't seem to drop more

I wonder if my sleeping schedule is the problem...