u/LogicMe11

I’ve been keeping cats in a small apartment for a while now, and I thought upgrading their space would make things easier. Instead, it feels like everything I buy just gets ignored.

I tried adding a simple cat house recently, thinking they’d finally have their own spot to relax. But most of the time they either sit on top of it or completely avoid it and go back to random corners or cardboard boxes.

I’ve looked around both local pet shops and a few online listings, including some sellers online but the options are all over the place. Some look really nice in photos, but I’m starting to wonder if design even matters as much as I thought.

What’s confusing me most is how unpredictable it is. One cat might like a covered space, another just refuses anything enclosed at all.

At this point I’m not sure if I should keep trying different styles or just accept that they’ll choose whatever 'spot' they want no matter what I buy.

Has anyone actually found a setup that works consistently, or is this just normal cat behavior I’m overthinking?

For people who have tried it. Did it work out.

For me, not in an offensive was but most reddit men are below average interms of looks. And most aren't as monied as they claim.

Have you ever found love, friendship, or any great relationship with someone on reddit?

Ive been trying to break into exporting hotel uniforms for a few months now and Im honestly a bit stuck on what actually works in real life.

Most of my early attempts were through online listings and while I did get a few inquiries, they mostly faded after pricing or sample discussions.

I also tried reaching out directly through emails and a couple of trade groups, but it still feels like I’m just guessing and not really building anything consistent

What’s confusing me is that some people make it sound straightforward. Although my experience has been more like random conversations that don’t turn into actual orders

Rn I’m trying to figure out what channels actually matter for this niche and whether I should be focusing more on trade fairs, referrals, or something else entirely. Samajh nahi aa raha ki exactly kaunsa approach actually kaam karta hai aur kaunsa bas time waste hai

For those who have already gone through this stage, what actually helped you get your first solid international buyer? and also what would you avoid doing again if you started over?

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I dont think kuna mtu ako nyuma ya SA kwa hii game

When you got your first adulting money after kutarmac. Ulibuy nini that you still have it to date?

Mimi ilikuwa bags za denri. Nikipiga kalea nilikuwa naona watoi wa wadosi wakishuka uber na those bags. I had to buy them just to heal myself. Rn I'm in a better place than i was 4 years ago and I still have the bag. What about you stanger?

I am looking for suppliers of shoes wholesalers in India and I am trying to narrow down options that are actually reliable before I place any sample orders. My main focus is on Delhi and nearby manufacturing hubs cause many sellers claim they can provide casual shoes sports styles and simple everyday footwear in small or medium sized batches. The problem is that many online profiles look identical. Rn am contacting different suppliers through sourcing sites and trade directories. But I am not fully confident about the best verification steps that experienced buyers normally use. I want to understand how people confirm basic things like real stock levels packaging quality available styles production timelines and whether the supplier can maintain regular restocks once orders start moving. I am also trying to figure out how much proof a buyer should request before trusting a new supplier for the first time. I have also been checking shoes listings on eBay, Amazon and Alibaba to get a rough sense of price ranges before speaking directly with Indian wholesalers. For those who have sourced shoes in India. What is the most dependable way to confirm that a wholesaler is legitimate before making your first payment?

I’m in a small flat in the UK and my bedroom gets really warm and stuffy in the evenings during warmer weather. I recently installed a ceiling fan to improve airflow, and while it helps a bit, the room still feels stagnant after sunset once the windows are closed. I already checked the installation, blade direction, and ceiling height, so I don’t think the setup itself is the issue. I’m now wondering if this is just common in smaller UK flats or if there’s a better way to improve circulation without making major changes to the room. I’d prefer to keep electricity usage low. So I’m trying to avoid portable AC unless absolutely necessary. I’ve been considering adding another small fan or changing the placement of furniture to improve airflow around the room. For anyone living in a similar flat setup, what actually worked for you to keep a bedroom cooler and less stuffy during warm evenings?

I want to get my man a msolombo ring that has a vibrator. I see it as something that will spice up our relationship. Has anyone here tried it?

Last weekend I went out with friends and we ended up talking about old 4x4s after spotting a restored truck in a parking lot. That sent me down a path of looking at a 1980s Toyota Land Cruiser Hardtop I found listed nearby. The seller says it runs well. But it clearly needs suspension bushings, brake work and some interior fixes before it feels safe for regular use. So Im trying to understand if this kind of car still makes sense for light weekend driving and occasional rough road trips. Or if it will quickly becomes a constant repair situation. I am not aiming for a full restoration, jus something dependable enough for short adventures outside the city. I checked parts availability and was surprised to see some listings locally. Plus a few aftermarket components online that seem to cover seals, panels and suspension pieces. It got me curious and made me wonder how practical long term ownership really is. Especially if parts take time to arrive or need modification. Some friends I spoke to had mixed views about long term use. Given all of this experience and maintenance context would you still consider a Toyota Land Cruiser Hardtop for light weekend use today practically?

My boyfriend and I atm don't leave together. He has always suggested we move in together and build together. But most often I decline. I've grow in a toxic family and my mum I believe didn't leave coz she couldn't make ends meet by herself. So I vowed to do things differently and have my own money.

But my bf is of the idea of building together, combining our finances and stuff. Atm I'm saving up to buy land and invest a bit in stocks. I feel if we move in together, it will slow me down. I'm 28 atm so there's also that fear of not settling down early. So for people who've been here before, what's your take?

Hey everyone, I'm trying to improve how quickly I learn saxophone pieces while keeping practice enjoyable. Rn I can pick up melodies on music sax fairly fast, but timing, articulation, and phrasing take much longer to settle. My current routine is 10 minutes long tones at 60 bpm, 5 minutes articulation drills, and 20 minutes of looping 2 to 4 bar phrases slowly before increasing tempo. I also record myself during sessions to check tone stability and timing accuracy. I even compared different setups and checked online for inexpensive reeds and basic accessories to stay consistent without overspending. What I'm struggling with most is making phrasing feel natural instead of segmented, especially when I try to match recordings. Do you break songs into small sections and master them first, or do you focus on full pieces from the start when learning music sax? And what specific exercises helped you improve phrasing speed and tone control at the same time especially during early stages of learning where consistency feels hard to maintain without losing motivation or sound quality over time. Also how do you structure weekly practice to make progress more measurable and less random so it actually sticks better?

Hey everyone, I’m 21f and setting up a small garage workspace as a first-time homeowner. I’ve been doing light DIY tasks like cutting PVC drain pipes, sanding small furniture pieces and holding materials steady while drilling or filing so I finally decided I need a proper bench vise instead of relying on clamps. I’m specifically looking at 4 to 6 inch cast iron models with a swivel base since that seems like the most practical size for a home setup. My main priorities are stability, strong jaw grip and smooth tightening action because I’ve used cheap ones before that felt gritty and frustrating. I don’t need anything industrial grade just something reliable for occasional plumbing fixes and small repair projects. I also looked at a few options online just to compare specs and pricing but it made me more unsure about what actually matters. For anyone who uses bench vises regularly what size or feature ended up making the biggest difference in real use and would you rec starting with something basic or investing a bit more upfront to avoid replacing it later? I’d really appreciate any bench vises recs.

Hey everyone, I’m looking for advice on a very specific water intrusion issue after a flooring install in my lower level. I recently had a “waterproof” luxury vinyl plank system installed over a concrete slab in a finished basement room. The issue is that after heavy rain (especially 30–60 minutes of sustained rainfall), I’m getting recurring water pooling in the same rear corner near an exterior foundation wall. It doesn’t appear immediately as surface runoff. But gradually shows up a few hours after the rain starts and sometimes continues seeping in even after the rain stops. I’ve already checked exterior drainage: gutters are clear, downspouts extend about 6–8 feet away, and the grading slopes slightly away from the house. Inside, I don’t see visible slab cracks, but there is light efflorescence along the base of that same wall. No sump pump is installed in this section of the basement. I’ve considered adding an interior perimeter drain or a small channel drain along that wall, and also looked into injection sealing products and pump systems. But I’m unsure what actually addresses hydrostatic pressure versus just managing symptoms. I’m trying to avoid quick fixes that trap moisture under the flooring or make future repairs harder. Has anyone dealt with similar slow seepage in a basement corner after rain, and what actually ended up solving it long-term in your case?

Hey everyone I’m posting here as someone currently renting a small 1-bedroom apartment in a typical apartment building setup (thin-ish walls, upstairs/downstairs neighbors) and trying to figure out a simple at-home fitness routine that won’t cause issues with noise, flooring, or my security deposit. I’m a beginner doing light strength training and I’m considering using dumbels for short sessions in the living room since I don’t have space for a full gym setup and I can’t always make it to a gym after work. My main concern is how this works in real rented spaces like apartments, condos, or townhomes. Especially whether dumbels on a rubber mat are usually fine or if even light drops/placing weights down can cause noise complaints or floor damage over time. I’m also unsure what landlords typically care about in practice versus what just sounds risky on paper. I’ve been browsing options for basic setups and even checked Alibaba for compact adjustable dumbels and thick floor mats, plus looked at Amazon and a few local listings, but there’s a lot of variation and I can’t really tell what’s actually necessary versus overkill. I also don’t want to waste money on gear that ends up being too noisy or impractical for a rental. For people who’ve done home workouts in rented apartments, what setup actually worked long-term without complaints or damage issues, and what would you change if you were starting over in the same situation?

Hey everyone, I’m a 21F in the US and fairly new to alto sax (about 4–5 months in). I’ve been practicing consistently, but I’m hitting a point where my tone feels very inconsistent and I’m not sure what I should actually be focusing on. My current setup is a Yamaha student alto with a Yamaha 5C mouthpiece and Vandoren 2.5 reeds. I work on long tones, basic scales, and simple songs most days. Some sessions feel decent, especially in the middle register, but other days everything feels tight and my sound gets thin or unstable, especially when I move into higher notes. I’m trying to figure out whether this is mainly an embouchure issue, breath support, or just normal beginner fluctuation. I also notice that when I’m a bit tired, my tone falls apart faster even if my fingering is fine, so I might be overthinking things while playing. I’ve been reading and watching different music sax learning resources and comparing basic gear on sites like Reverb, Thomann, Amazon, and even Alibaba, but I’m starting to think I may be focusing too much on equipment instead of fundamentals at this stage. For those of you who remember your early months: what actually helped you stabilize your tone the most, and what should I stop worrying about?

I’m in a 278 sq ft studio n the bed is the one thing I can’t seem to work around. No matter how I arrange the room, it ends up blocking the only useful floor space. I’ve been seriously considering a ceiling-mounted lift bed that raises straight up rather than folding into a wall. The idea sounds perfect on paper. But I’m having trouble finding real experiences from people who actually live with one in a small home. My building has 1970s concrete ceilings, which is where most of my questions come from. Almost every guide I’ve found assumes wood joists or full renovation access, neither of which applies to me. I’m not trying to tear anything apart; I just want something safe that won’t get me in trouble with the landlord. I’ve checked marketplaces like IKEA, Wayfair, Home Depot, Amazon, and even Alibaba to compare hardware options. But most listings don’t explain how these systems hold up with daily use or how they attach securely to concrete. If you’ve installed a ceiling-mounted bed in a small apartment. Especially with concrete ceilings, how did you secure it, and did it actually improve the room enough to justify the effort? Would you do it again?

Kule sub ya Nairobi regime ni strict sana. Nimepost kitu simple huko nikalishwa tofali. Sijui plan yao inakuanga kufukuza kila msee huko ama niaje. Can someone appeal a BAN from a sub?

Najua wengi wetu hapa tumefukuzwa huko

Hey everyone, I’m hoping to get some guidance from people who have more experience with small engine setups. I’ve got a small bike project that starts up easily and idles without any real problems. But once I get it moving and put it under load the performance becomes inconsistent. The throttle response isn’t smooth, and it sometimes feels like it is struggling to deliver steady power when accelerating. It does not completely cut out but it definitely does not feel right compared to how it should ride. So far I’ve already gone through the basic checks. The carburetor has been cleaned, the spark plug replaced, and fuel flow confirmed. I’ve also inspected for obvious air leaks or blockages, but nothing has stood out so far. At this point I am trying to figure out whether the issue is more likely carb jetting, clutch engagement, or possibly a gearing mismatch for this setup. I have also been looking at similar small builds and parts options online just to compare what others are running. But I do not want to start changing parts without a clearer direction. If anyone has dealt with similar symptoms, I would really appreciate suggestions on what to check first or common things that get overlooked in builds like this.

Tried sim2 for the first time and loved that shit. Had douched properly and we used a good lube. Now I'm addicted and feel more dominated by my man. I'm even smiling while writing.

Hey everyone, I’m a 21F and I’m currently trying to buy my first car. I’m not looking for anything fancy at all, just something simple, reliable, and genuinely affordable for daily use. My main goal is to avoid ending up with something that looks cheap upfront but becomes expensive because of hidden costs or unnecessary add-ons. I’ve been checking different listings and comparing prices across dealerships and private sellers, but it feels like the definition of a “cheap car” changes depending on where you look. Some options seem affordable at first, but once you factor in fees, insurance expectations, or maintenance, the total cost becomes less clear. I also did a bit of general browsing and saw some import-style listings on Facebook Marketplace n Alibaba. But I’m not seriously considering that for purchase, it was more just to understand how pricing differs in other markets. For people who have actually managed to get a genuinely budget-friendly car, what did you focus on most during the process? Was it mileage, brand reputation, service history, or just timing and negotiation at the dealership? I’d really appreciate any advice on how to avoid overpaying or getting pushed into extras that don’t add value. Just trying to make a sensible first purchase without stress and learn what actually matters most when shopping on a tight budget.