u/Logical-Session5688

I’m not a die hard crumbl connoisseur, but I have gone a good amount of times and I must say this pig cookie might be my favorite crumbl cookie I’ve had so far😭

My twins will be starting kindergarten this fall, and hopefully sports too. I have been separated from their dad for 2.5 years, but our custody battle has just recently started. I have them Sunday morning- Friday morning/afternoon, which has been a mutual agreement- but now that I have brought up child support and him helping pay for school supplies/sports- he wants to fight for more custody.

He still lives with his parents, sister, and new girlfriend. A large issue is that they only live in a 3 bedroom, leaving my two sons, their dad, and his girlfriend to all share a room. My kids have let me know that they only have one bed for all of them, leaving them to have to share a full sized bed whenever they spend the night. Their dad will not enforce bedtime, and he even takes them out fishing with his friends until 1am, which I found pictures on their iPads with the timestamp and location. I have addressed this via text and his response was “who the f*** cares”. He takes them out when they’re sick and does not give them medicine while they are with him, returning back to me even worse than when they left, doesn’t brush their teeth, and they only eat fast food when with him. He works at a college, in the past years he’s given the option to work or have the summer off, which he has always chosen to work, but since the court case has started and child support was brought up he conveniently decided he is not going to work this summer.

He was served over 3 months ago, and has not filled out a single form, our first court hearing was almost 3 weeks ago. He did not show up, and an attorney showed up for him- stating she had just been hired the day before and was requesting an extension- but that I would be served within the week-which never happened. I was originally just wanting our current agreement legally instated, but with all of the incidents and information I have found out- I was wondering what my chance would be of the judge accepting a request for no overnights with their father. I would be allowing day visitations saturday & sunday between 8am-6pm as long as it doesn’t interfere with their sports, and also on alternating holidays. Also, we had done a mediation, came to an agreement and had a written stipulation- all he needed to do was sign it off but once child support was brought up he did not sign it, and told the judge we did not come to an agreement.

So I was upfront and this man came up and asked if we had any dark roast brewing, and I told him yes, 1971. He asked if we had any others, because he didn’t like pike. And I said well 1971 is a dark roast not pike, but I’ll check if we have any other dark roast beans. He said “yeah do that please, like casi cielo maybe?” I was like bro what that’s seasonal, and NOT EVEN A DARK ROAST. but anyways I checked under the cabinet where we store opened bags, and no luck. so i said okay i’ll go check in the back and ask my shift, as i was walking back to check this man said “oh okay well just so you know, I am a gold card member and I asked if you’d be able to make a dark roast pour over for me and customer service said you could” Like I almost laughed in his face because is that really the flex he thinks it is?? And anyways we can only do with what product we have on hand, which varies store to store. Anyways we had nothing, and my shift lead told me to let him know 1971 was the only dark bean we had on hand. So I did, and he stormed off saying he would get it somewhere else. He comes back later with an AMPM COFFEE in hand?? Like how are you going to act like a roast snob and then come back with an ampm coffee😭 But he rudely came up to me and demanded my managers name, and when she’d be in because he was going to let her know of the situation lol