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Might come off as controversial to some people but i just finished the series and came here to express my thoughts:

1. Taggy is the most beautiful woman Ive ever seen, she’s just gorgeous and mesmerising.

2. Declan’s character is so hot, and the type of person he’s been shown in the show is like peak hotness, apart from the way he treated maud obviously.

3. Rupert shouldn’t end up with taggy, he’s just not the kind of person she deserves, i mean its very unlikely someone like him changes in real life, but if he does in the series that will look kinda fake. INSTEAD taggy should end up with Bas, I kinda like his character too and also he’s kinda attractive as well.

4. I do not sympathise with maud on the same level people do, I mean yea she did leave her career and her life to be with declan, but in her own ways she was making it upto it by doing what she wanted.

5. This is kind of like a question, I don’t understand how Tony is so kind with his family and not with the other people, since English is not my first language, and I saw the whole show without subtitles, I kinda probably didn’t get the whole thing, also i haven’t read any books.

This post is an expression of my thoughts, please be respectful in the comments, if you don’t agree, well that’s your choice, if you want to correct something, please do so, one to hearing all your thoughts.

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My friend in Fintech told me the same instructors rechecked the Accounting exam of Fintech and BBA and BA but were instructed to mark the students of Fintech as low as possible, probably so the ragra reputation persists?, but why??

My friends in engineering told me they got a literal A grade at 54 absolutes in their signals course?? Like such a scam man, how does that even happen?
(Edit: I’m trying to insinuate that this was impossible as the average was literally 0 marks)(but guess what right after my post, that night students got their grade and banger an A grade at 54 absolutes?? make it make sense)

And here our result isn’t even out yet fully, transcripts yet to be updated, still they keep insisting to sign up for summers, Bhai result aiga to pata lagega ke summer parhna hai k nai ajeeb bakwass

This is my second post about FAST. I’m in Isb campus but campus doesn’t matter atp, FAST IS SH** OVERALL.

This post might be controversial to FAST lovers but who cares.

Anyone planning to come here, bro I wish I was in your place, I wouldn’t even look at FAST.

When I first came here, I still remember the orientation speech, they make you feel really special, like you’re some gods, they will degrade all the other degrees and make it seem like yours is the perfect one, if you go in CS they will say Engineering is outdated, if you go in Engineering they will say engineering comes first, coding comes second and blah blah.

Then they will induce in you the fact that it is normal to fail in their famous course PF to the point that they will glamorise it, like every other person you meet has failed PF like why?? This damn instructor once told me I will not get a good job if I don’t fail PF like what the actual f***😭😭😭🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Then my friends in engineering said that there’s no scaling there because apparently Pakistan Engineering Council has banned it or something. IF THERE IS NO SCALING HOW IS ONE SUPPOSED TO PASS?? A NORMAL PERSON WOULD SAY OH THEN THE GRADING WOULD BE RELATIVE??
NAH FAST IS NEVER GOING TO LET YOU HAVE A BREATH OF FRESH AIR,
THE GRADING IS STILL THAT ABSOLUTE MARKING WHERE EVERYONE WHO WAS REPEATING THEIR COURSES THIS SEMESTER HAS BEEN FAILED AGAIN.

MY FRIEND LITERALLY TOLD ME ABOUT THEIR COURSE “Signals and Systems” in Engineering, the average marks were 0, like can you believe 0?????

And what did the HOD tell them?? “Summer course offer ho raha hai na, vo otha lo”!!! Dawg wtf??? ATP they just wanna earn money by failing everyone so they can keep on studying the same course and pay the dawg HOD’s gas bills.

I also know some really excelled people here who score really well, but I hate the fact that they credit FAST for it, like bro it’s your own hard work!!! FAST just makes crazy unsolveable papers and in order to crack those exams, these toppers study so much to the point that they sometimes excel in the course or they become relevant in the industry, all because they learned everything on there own.

Another thing i absolutely hate here is that all these instructors talk about how useful we will be for the industry, like straight up making us slaves atp, world class unis literally focus more on research, innovation, and real technology, yahan dekho to bas industry industry lagai hoti hai, they should be teaching us how to become entrepreneurs in the world of software and technology, but why would they, its FAST after all.

I don’t understand how there’s no people raising voice against this, we should be protesting man!!!??

Got my first ever adult slap in the face at 21 y old.

Today I lost my wallet, someone probably stole it because I didn’t even use it in uni, I payed for everything in the cafe with my phone, it had my ID, my easypaisa card, Uni card, and literal 5k😭😭

Now my dad’s saying we have to go to a prison to file a report for the missing ID like that happens too??😭

I’m not even pissed ab the money, it’s the ID thing I’m scared about, wdym prison??😭

Ps: I blocked the easypaisa card too😔

Please pray I find it please pleaseeee.

Took admission in 2023 in FAST with high hopes and let’s just say FAST has ruined every good thing in my life, from being the topper in college to getting warnings every semester, my degree is already 2 years late, I also got put into therapy because of the depression it caused me.

Worst thing is some people still defend its rigorous environment.

3rd year’s last exam was on last Friday, I’m probably going to fail again, so I just applied for the NET 4 series for Public Administration.

Please pray for me, hoping for the best.

Hey all,

I’m thinking to give electrolysis a try as I have some thick masculine hair on my chin, and it’s effecting me a lot.

Please suggest some good doctors/clinics for electrolysis in Islamabad, also mention the price per session etc.

Ps: I have no hormonal problems I got it checked it’s just genetics.

so much crazy shit happening man, either I’m ungrateful or god’s actually testing me.

exams going on, and my anxiety level is on peak, not because of the exams but because i might be too self aware.

i wish people being abusive didn’t affect me that much. i went to my village with such a warm and happy face, i wanted to spend more time there, but yesterday my cousin got abusive and beat his younger brother and no one was doing anything about it, reminded me of the time when my father used to abuse my epileptic brother and we couldn’t do anything but sit in the room locked and waiting for him to calm down. it disturbed me so much, i havent slept since yesterday, my brain is on hyperactive mode and i cannot relax a second.

I thought coming back from the village might help with it, but as soon i stepped in the house, the man living above our floor was shouting at his sons or wife idk, my heart sank, once again i couldn’t breath, and when i told my brother about it, the same brother who once went through all that, said i need to just sit down and mind my own business.

i just want to be rigid and heartless so that these shoutings and fights don’t scare me anymore, even during normal daily life talks, if someone confronts me, my mind literally shuts down, I start shivering at the thought of someone getting abused.

i wish men would just stop, i wish men would act civilised. my mind is still filled with all these thoughts at this hour, i should be studying for my exam, i stay in my head way too much man, i wish this just magically stops effecting me.

saw someone on twitter asking this and it got me thinking, girls if you’re left with only these 2 types of men in the world what would you choose?

growing up with an abusive father made me hyperactive, I was always waiting for something wrong to happen. When I cry to my mom about my dad or when I’m ranting to her about the way he treated all of us, my mother urges that she’s happy atleast my father never cheated on her? according to her a cheater husband is yet more hurting than a man who beats her 7 year old epileptic son? my father would come home and just pick up something to be angry about and beat my brother so much for no apparent reason and my mother couldn’t say a single word. When I talk about any future prospects and mention I don’t want money and looks, I just want a peaceful household where there’s no angry man, no violence, no shouting, because of her counter arguing personality she just belittles my opinions and gives her own instead. According to her I should be thankful my father beat us and atleast didn’t bring in a second wife.

my fuck ass dog of a cousin just came home from god knows where and started slamming doors and cabinets and kept shouting, and his mom was trying to calm him down, me my grandma and his little sister and brother were in our grandmas room(joint family holiday home), he came in and kept on shouting asking for his brother to come with him, mind you he’s just 8 years old, and oh my god I’m crying writing this, he kept asking him to come to his room where he took him and beat him so fucking much oh my god I’m gonna cry, and everyone was just fucking listening to them from outside, and his mom was inside too, and my grandma and his sister and everyone was crying, their family lives here in the village, we are the guests here, my grandma kept crying and said this happens everyday, and god i literally lost it, i was burning with rage and guilt how I couldn’t save that little boy, my grandma also called him nashai, i swear to god i was so fucking scared to death, because of having a traumatic past related to violence in my childhood, I was literally feeling the same as that, his little sister started crying so bad man, she was literally on the ground bawling her eyes out, I could see my little self in her eyes, being an abuse observer everyday, and then he came out and was leaving the house that moment my mouth blurted out “jahil log”, right when he was half way out, and he stopped and came back and said “jisne bola hai samne a k bole”, and at that second when the whole thing was between me and him I suddenly felt so brave and dog if he was to come near me at that time i literally was in the kitchen and was about to hold a knife to him i didn’t care, i genuinely didn’t care at that moment, my mom is saying i entered their fight and i shouldn’t have said that, but i don’t give a fuck man, I fucking hate these shit ass men, I fucking hate violent men, these fucking men, this dog ass like man then telling me why to do?? Nah fucking way in the world, that moment, my dad and Chachu(his dad) were in the bhaitak and when my dad came I told him everything.
I’m just so sad my little cousin had to go through this, and his dog older brother was taking out his nashai fucking anger onto him.

I fucking hate that these men still get respected, I hate that my grandma said that she doesn’t leave the house only for the sake of my chachi and her daughter, what if he does all this to them, my Chachu on the other hand is an extremely narcissistic person who probably found religion yesterday and acts all religious, when he has took over all the lands and businesses of my grandfather, he doesn’t want the “taqseem” of all the assets because he likes having it all in his hands, he probably doesn’t say anything to him I just know it.

Why is it that such men get a free pass for everything they do and control their women, this dog cousin’s nano literally lives like 2 steps away, still his mom(my chachi) never goes to live with her own mother??because the bitch dog is gonna ask for chai and food and my little nappy baby chachu needs his kehwa like fuck you all men, I still remember my other girl cousin wore a jeans and came to village and they still fucking remember that shit and talk about her, but this dog???

my blood is boiling man oh my god.

Since morning my mom kept saying her friend is coming and wouldn’t tell me the reason, she was only telling me to get ready etc. by her behaviour i did get a feeling BUT I DIDNT THINK SHELL DO THIS TO ME RIGHT AFTER THE DAY I TELL HER MY DREAM IS TO DO SOMETHING BIG IN THIS WORLD, I DIDNT THINK SHELL JUST THROUGH ME OUT LIKE THIS😭

Maybe im overreacting but this is the first time omg.

An auntie came with her daughter and after some time sitting with my mom they called me and started asking me questions that are too “me-related” you know and i got the feeling it’s probably SOME RISHTA THING and omg i started freaking out then she asks if i can share my pictures with them😭😭😭 and I lost it.

Please idk how to act in these situations. I’m literally 21F and my mom was 25 when she got married and im still in my 2nd year of uni man i atleast wanna be able to earn someeee.

IM SO SCARED SOMEONE PLEASE SAY SOME NICE HOPEFULLY THINGS TO ME

THE WHOLE POINT OF THIS POST IS TO JUST RANT A BIT AND KINDA LEARN WHAT TO DO NEXT AND MAYBE CAN SOMEONE REMIND ME MY RIGHTS IM JUST FREAKING OUT WAY TOO MUCH OMG

My mom is the biggest believer of any Facebook conspiracy theories. Today she literally said that 5G towers are going to “activate” something inside people who got the covid vaccine and people will start dying. She saw this somewhere on facebook and believes it wholeheartedly😭😭. She even stopped me from going to this 5G seminar at my uni because of this😭😭

Then later she was watching this Facebook guy “Dr. Nabeel Durrani” saying that in 1-2 years money will become useless, people will use cash as tissue paper😭, people will go back to barter systems, and everyone should start buying silver/gold, storing food, buying land, farming, etc.

The thing is, I genuinely try to understand her. I’m open to hearing different opinions and even conspiracy theories sometimes because why not.But I always try to make her understand the importance of research too but she keeps believing whatever pops up, and especially the people who use religion in their talks.

The thing that frustrates me is that she not only believes all the things she sees she also pushes them onto us like they’re undeniable facts.

One of my school friends once said that the food, the cloths and the roof can also be found at Eidi Center, love consideration and affection of your parents are what makes a home different from an orphanage, and seriously it hit me.

When I was little, I feared my father because he physically abused my brother constantly. Not for huge mistakes either sometimes for the smallest things. He expected perfection without ever communicating anything. He would just suddenly start hitting him. I was never the one getting beaten, he once said I’m his favourite when we were very little, but being the abuse observer put me into this shit depression.

I grew up anxious all the time. Hyperaware. Always expecting something bad to happen because that was the atmosphere at home every single day. Fear became normal to me. Eventually that fear turned into hate as I was transitioning to my teenage, I hated him from the bottom of my heart.

Now we’re older, and my father stopped hitting him years ago. Sometimes I think the only reason he stopped is because my brother became old enough to fully understand things and react like a grown man. And that realization is honestly sad in its own way.

What I never thought was that my father would be an actual coward outside of parenting too. He comes from a huge, wealthy family with land, farms, businesses, influence the kind of family everyone in the village knows. Yet he has never taken a stand for himself a single time in his life. Most of the family businesses and opportunities went to my uncles, and he just let it happen.

He’s been working the same job since I was around one year old, stuck at the same rank, watching everyone around him get promoted while he stays exactly where he started. My mother has spent years encouraging him to do more with his life start a business, ask the family for support, apply elsewhere, send his CV somewhere better. She’s always had ideas and ambition. But he either ignores her or gets angry and says he knows what he’s doing, even though nothing ever changes.

I think his self-esteem is so low that he genuinely doesn’t believe he deserves better. So instead of trying, he escapes. He comes home from work and disappears into his phone for hours. Even when people are talking to him, he barely listens. He lives like someone constantly avoiding reality.

Now that I’m seeing him everyday, I feel the resentment even more. Watching him humiliate his wife in front of others, stay silent about his own rights, respect strangers more than his own family, and never fight for a better life it changed the way I saw him.

Today I’m writing this to remind myself in a few years to never end up with a man like my father, because I never want to end up trapped in the kind of life my mother had to live, or tied to someone who lacks both emotional strength and self-respect.

I know our typical Pakistani parents’ mindset usually can’t be changed, especially once they’re in their 40s or 50s. I would genuinely be happy if my kid wanted my opinion on the topics of their interests but eh my mom isn’t.

Today I made the mistake of bringing up “Bahishti Zewar” by Ashraf Ali Thanvi after seeing a tweet about it. We started discussing one passage where it says that if a husband tells his wife to stand all night, she should obey him because obeying the husband pleases God.

“Ashraf Ali Thani was very mukhlis to women(as in more women will go to hell so he wanted to raise their ranks in front of god by making them do things like this) he didn’t want the women to go to hell so he wrote that if a man tells his wife to stand up whole night she should obey him for the sake of god as god said a women must follow what her husband says” is what she said.

She was more fixated on the fact that Thanvi was just being sincere, instead of seeing how saying crap like this actually gives a ticket pass to the husbands to do whatever to their wives and then the wives are expected to stay quiet because obeying the husband is like obeying god.