Opinion on not using the correct pronouns on fictional character?

I want to state outright the reason I'm making a post in the first place is specifically because of something someone said

This is the statement: "in that case i would ask them if they are comfortable by being called " he"if they are not i would just call them they."

The post where the statement is from is someone using he/him pronouns on a non-binary character

The statement itself is the OP saying abt real people, which I find pretty problematic

I personally don't see no real harm done with a fictional character, however, the specific case with OP is questionable as it seems they will do the same with real people

Please share your opinion :')

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u/Lolila_da_tao — 2 days ago

Simple ADM pets comms !!

Details:

- The art will be: any adopt me pets

- I can add background, props, pet wears, etc :DD

- You can order multiple comms ^^

Pricing Details:

- I can give a discount if it's my wishlist :>

- The price starts from 0.9 val!! :DD

- My price is up for negotiation <33

- The price would depends on the detail of your pet / pet wears/ props / background !!

- Payment after sketch ^^

You can ask for more details in the comment :DDD

u/Lolila_da_tao — 4 days ago
▲ 2 r/RobloxEvade+1 crossposts

Looking for Evade account with specific requirement

Hello, this is what I'm looking for:

I want it to have all stuff from spring 2026 (The Non-Robux one)

And this one isn't a must but if so would be AWESOME: Have anything apple related in the account's name

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u/Lolila_da_tao — 9 days ago

I missed Spring event 2026, and I am so devastated

I just re-checked the items skin, and OH BOY there's a lot of stuff I really liked

Mainly the apple themed stuff :') I wish there's trading and stuff in this game haha

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u/Lolila_da_tao — 9 days ago

Looking for the original artist of this adoptable

I don’t know which art is the og, I got this today with no credit as the person lost it

u/Lolila_da_tao — 23 days ago
▲ 4 r/Gyaru

Really need some education on Gyaru culture for my Gyaru (?) oc!!

This is a custom-made adoptable I traded for awhile back (you can see the og in the top left corner, the unfinished one is my re-design)

I think it’d be cool to try out different styles for my ocs, that’s why I’m here :DDD

I literally just started like half an hour ago, and I have exam in 22 min, so I just wanna drop the question here :’)

Here’s some information I’ve gotten so far (If I’m wrong PLEASE lmk!!)

Gyaru means ‘Gal’ so since my character is male, he’d be ‘Gyaruo’

The style I’m aiming for is ‘Tropical Gyaru‘ (though I’ve seen people claim that’s not it’s proper name :0 pls lmk)

Gyaru started out in Japan, they are for people who are non-conforming

Here’s my inspo board: https://www.pinterest.com/Lolila_da_taro/a0-florinst-a-florist-sim/c-blue-pink-pastel-cone/

Thank you for reading!!

u/Lolila_da_tao — 1 month ago

I don’t know how to feel about my father anymore

Heyyyy fam, just want some advice :’)

Also warning ahead, there’s mention of suicide here, nothing serious tho

Some information:

My father is emotionally absent most of my life, he opens a garage at home so he’s not physically absent

My father never talked a lot, I’ve always believed that his father was the same way and that’s why he’s like this (a few months ago, my theory was confirmed)

When I was younger (like lower than 10 years old) he was a bit more engaged with me, but now we barely talk day-to-day

Even if we does talk, it’s always me initiating the conversation

Before, I never cared, as I thought this is a norm

But right now in my life, I need a parent more than ever

My mother has always been emotionally unstable, she can be very loving and toxic at the same time, or switch back and fourth very quickly

For me she tried, but he didn’t. I‘m tired of my mother, and I resent my father, hate him even. Because he could’ve been a father to me, but he didn’t. I’ve heard stories of physically absent father, and I wonder if it would’ve been any different if my father was physically absent

Some days I just resent him, some days I hate him very much, some days I crave his attention

I know he cares about me and my siblings

I was told that he gave up his alcohol addiction for my family

I once asked him how he’d feel if I committed suicide, and while he just laughed it off to me, my mom (who works in another city and comes home most fridays) told me that he couldn’t sleep that night

I hate him so much sometimes, and when I heard he couldn’t sleep because of me, I was a bit happy

I want him to know how I felt about his absence, the nights I can’t sleep because how much that absence haunted me

I just need a stable father figure in my life, my older brother is not an option as I’m the more responsible sibling (Was told in multiple occasions by my mother and grandmother that I’m the responsible one) I looked up to one specific teacher, but I had to move to another city so we barely talk (I’m not really good with talking online with the people I know in real life) Any friend-father figure I look up to always ends

I’m just so tired and miserable, I see that man everyday but he probably would know about me less than a friend I met 1 week ago

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u/Lolila_da_tao — 2 months ago

A casual but confused fan

Hai, I’m a casual fan of Alien stage and I’ve been hearing abt School and Zombie Stage AU? Are they the same orr? i’ve been getting mixed answers from reading comments

I watched the latest Zombie Stage vid tho

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u/Lolila_da_tao — 2 months ago

[WIP] Sushi Penguin oc From adopt me!

I’m proud of the custom sushi plate tbh xD

Any acc suggestions? :3

u/Lolila_da_tao — 3 months ago

Please donate some ghosts :’) Takijg any amount any variant

I swore on my father’s honor ALL of them will be cherished. I can even send you a pic of them dressed up and named after you give them to me :(

I love these little marshmallows so much, and I can ensure you they will ends up in good hand

I lowk went broke offering for these little darlings, that’s why I’m here-

u/Lolila_da_tao — 3 months ago

LF ghosts (could be the sticker version, N, M, F, R, reg)

offering anything that can be purchasable with in-game bucks! (even the ducky box coming this Friday for 500 bucks each) budget 240K!

can also do items in my inventory!

u/Lolila_da_tao — 3 months ago

I NEED GHOSTS OR GHOSTS STUCKERS

I NEEED IT

a friend of mine is away on a trip and I wanna surprise them with pets they collect :ghosts

they can’t be on adm until the 25th, so I’m running out of time

i Swear on my father’s honor all ghosties will be cherished

u/Lolila_da_tao — 3 months ago

Manifesting for sushi penguin, please send me some luck

It‘s so cute PLEASDEEEEESKS,SLSKMSSMDKKSLSS

I just love it so much that I’m at a loss for words

u/Lolila_da_tao — 3 months ago

Modern Knight charcter design?

Idk how to explain but I want to make a knight oc, but his setting is in a modern world

Like, is there a way to make it less... fancy?

main part I wanna keep is probably the helmet

what occupation should he be? His clothing styles? :o

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u/Lolila_da_tao — 3 months ago

LF invisible wings and Sushi Skateboard! (I'm a pet wear collector heh)

I'm both a pet wear and toy collector :3

I can't seem to find these 2 tho, and I'm planning to put them on a sushi penguin so that's why I'm actively trying to get them :'D

u/Lolila_da_tao — 3 months ago