u/Lonely-Poetry-3621

Sou cara bem nerdão, curto ficar em casa e saio pouco pra festa, e pra agravar minha área tem pouco emprego no brasil. Não participei de nenhum grupo de extensão até agora por desinteresse, especialmente considerando que os semestres eram bem pesados e eu queria ficar em casa focando em estudar para as provas. Bem, a água bateu na bunda agora, estou na metade do terceiro ano e preciso começar a resolver esse tipo de coisa, me professionalizar e começar a me direcionar pra posição que eu quero.

O que fazer, nesse caso? Pra contexto sou da microeletrônica, não tem muita coisa no brasil pra isso. Foca então em falar com os professores da minha área msm? ou tento algo diferente?

Currently in the third year of my 5 year degree on electric engineering, emphasis on electronics and, by choice, i am planning to head towards microelectronics. I could change areas by now but id prefer not to.

I am going to apply a double-degree program for france next year but despite being optimistic, competition is huge for these positions here, and i am not sure if it would help me migrate later.

Currently my plan was to apply and get a scholarship on an american university for my masters/phd after i finish my course soo i could specialize my studies further and make a bridge for later getting a job. However i am aware that my plan is not detailed at all, i do not know the paths to follow besides "get a masters in a good uni in the USA, find a job there".

Unfortunately theres practically no jobs on my area in brazil, and i am clueless on how to perform networking in these cases. My best opportunity consists of my partner professor who works in the are and *might* have contact with a boy that went to work on intel, but thats also pretty unrealistic considering how high of a position must it be.

What paths could i take? i'm seriously clueless on what to do and what are the options. Ive been using chatgpt to deep search things for this but i havent gone far.

título, com q média o povo geralmente passa pra duplo diploma? vi pra intercambio, q teve gente com 5.3, 5.5 passando, mas nada sobre duplo diploma em específico

I dont think there's a lot more to say than that, i struggle with analysis paralysis and i barely do anything i want to because i am really sensitive to discomfort in any way, shape or form. I have discipline and i keep hobbies, for information, however i am stagnated and i do not improve in things i want to, like i want to make my own plushies, but ive been planning those for years without actually trying because i want them to be perfect and i'm terrified of them ending up bad, or trying a shot at robotics, 3d modeling again, writing, etc

the two most pathetic ones i have are a general fear of rejection. I have adhd, which isn't an excuse but unfortunately sinks my boat a little, since it brings extreme sensitivity to rejection along with it. Hell, i'm afraid of asking my own parents for basic things in fear of getting a no, or asking a professor about a question and being wrong. The other one is a fear of talking with women, which i have because i'm terrified that i'm weird because i am hyperactive

The worst of all is that id argue the solution is crystal clear on most cases, a fear of rejection can be dealt with by maximizing your rejection rate by asking absurd things to people. A fear of talking to women can be solved by simply going out and talking with them, forming friendships. Enhancing my drawings can be done by doing more exercise and working hard. Learning to hide my "weirdness" can be done by actually going out and noticing it. A good physical form can be attained by working out hard, good writing can be developed by writing shitty stories, etc etc. I recognize the problems and i even have the solutions in many cases, but i simply don't act because i'm terrified of failure and, whenever i do it, i feel soo utterly uncomfortable that i give up at the same moment.

this isn't about seeking motivation, i have it in my hands and when i want something i go balls to the wall with it, but rather on *how* to ignore that discomfort, like dissociate from the negative emotions that come with and just live the moment and do things. Like, what do i do to kick that discomfort away and keep going despite that?

I dont know what really to write here, but you know how some people with addiction to sexual content have extremely unrealistic standards for bodies? Soo, i do not have that at all, i do have obviously a preference but its not anything absurd, and hell, i dislike when things look too artificial.

However, i am worried i might have the problem on the other side of things, that is on personality. I think that due to my isolation, unfortunately being a hyperactive weird guy who never really managed to befriend women (which is entirely my fault, i am weird, having adhd, and i never tried to work on myself as a teenager, i just didn't care nor understood how to interact properly), combined with video games and consuming fictional media, i might have developed an unrealistic standard for personalities on a partner.

Mainly, the issue is i have an extremely strong preference for tomboys, you know, high energy women with a strong attitude that will talk to me face-to-face. Id say its a very strong preference i have, which nears on being warped towards unrealism, as obviously this niche is extremely rare and id argue such standard is... objectifying? i dont know

anyhow, since it is an unrealistic and uncommon thing, id argue its actively harmful to my brain and i want to get rid of it. In that, how can i change such a preference? what do i do soo i stop having these kinds of standards?

i dont know how or why but i dreamed noelle was stalking me in my university during classes at evening and morning, nobody cared about the weird deer girl peeping at us in the corner of the doors for some reason. Then night fell and i went back home, locked up everything and went to sleep, suddenly i wake up with a knife pointed to my throat (in the dumbest manner possible tbh, she just pointed it towards me, didn't try to armlock in my neck or whatever, just pointed it) and i see her. I cant identify her exactly besides the antlers because its pretty much pitch black, however i hear her saying that "i have a debt that i need to pay", she then forces me to stand up and come with her, the dream ended when she opened my apartment's door.

what the fuck was this shit, and honestly, how the fuck did i get kidnapped by noelle out of everyone. She's a fucking twig body wise, not to mention she's shorter than me. I'm a fucking 6 feet tall 80 kg man who's not sedentary, a gangly girl like her wouldn't be at all a challenge to take down 💀 .while she did it in the most stupid way possible (pointing a fucking knife to my neck instead of armlocking)

goofy ahh recreation of the bed scene

3 anos de estudo praticamente sem parar pra conseguir uma iniciação cientifica e segurar uma média 8.5 pra conseguir ir pra duplo diploma foram pro ralo em menos de uma semana por causa desses idiotas.

Meu professor de lab de controle é obcecado com relatório bonito, ele dá zero se vc errar uma coisinha, eu perdi a semana que eu devia ter pra estudar eletrônicos e ir bem na prova fazendo as bostas dos relatorios desse merda. E além disso, a minha professora de controle é uma completa idiota e mete relatório também mesmo não sendo matéria prática.

Não deu tempo pra estudar muito pra prova de eletrônicos, tirei o que deu pra tirar pra passar, e a porra dessa idiota fudeu com a minha média nessa porra. A prova é um inferno, sim, a média da sala é 4, mas dava pra ter fechado com muito mais. Agora eu tenho certeza q o meu orientador vai me rejeitar e a minha média vai cair pra algo abaixo do necessário pra aplicar pra duplo diploma e a ÚNICA JANELA É NO PRÓXIMO SEMESTRE

eu genuinamente nao sei o que fazer, acho que vou largar o curso, não vejo motivo mais pra ficar, eram as duas coisas que eu mais queria fazer e tudo foi pro saco por causa desses dois malditos.

Boa noite, não tenho certeza sobre a veracidade dessa informação mas alguém certo tempo atrás tinha mencionado que havia um mínimo de AEX necessário para você pode se inscrever em programas de duplo diploma, isso é verdade? se sim, quantas são necessárias? vou tentar aplicar próximo semestre caso nada ocorra mas tenho apenas 100 horas