u/LonelyGirl0508

We are married and 29 from Hyderabad but working in Bangalore since the beginning of our careers. We make around 4L per month post taxes and have 2.5cr in mutual funds and stocks and a 3bhk with EMI of 1L in Hyderabad(under construction). We want to move back to Hyderabad maybe when we are in early 40s or late 30s.
Should we buy a house here in Bangalore too or rent? And how much can we spend on a house if we are buying it? We would need a 3bhk as we stay with inlaws and plan to have kids.

Hi

There was some event at my home today. It’s been 3 years since our marriage. Someone at the event asked me if I have consulted doctor because we didn’t have kids yet. We just started trying this year and conceived in Jan but ended up being a first trimester miscarriage. I’m still handling the grief and I burst into tears immediately after hearing that as I’m very sensitive person.
I want to know what do you answer if someone asks u about when are you going to have baby?

Why is it so hard for women? Im really really successful in my career but nobody cares and only care about making babies? Am I only born to make babies? Is my worth only measured by it? People praised me as a kid when I topped my school/college. My name was on the newspaper that I scored highest and people were proud of me. Same people see me as some bad person as I didn’t have kids yet or I have some problem within me.

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I got a call from post office in my hometown that I got some post from ITR.
Postman did not come yet.
Does ITR usually send these hard copies or what do they send in these?

Edit:
It was a demand of 16k. Thank you all.

Before marriage, I use to think I can tell everything to my MIL just like mom and be friends with her. Me and my mom talk about current news, dresses and other random things for so long that we forget about time.
But whenever I try to talk to my MIL, it either turns out to be cooking related or related to rituals/poojas. I don’t feel that interested in talking related to these topics at all. MIL is very religious. And she doesn’t understand if I speak about TV shows or movies etc like I usually talk to mom.
It has been 3 years, sometimes, I feel guilty that I’m not talking or connecting with her much.
How do you connect with your MIL or what do you talk in free times?

Hi all

I’m in second cycle of TTC, last night on day 25 of the cycle, my period started with mild cramps and it is super light like it is usually on day 3.
I usually get periods between day 28 to 30 and had an MMC in March. After MMC, i regularly got normal periods every 28 days.
It’s been 12 hours and feels like it stopped or very little bleeding. I cant say it’s too light or too heavy like usual period.
Did anyone face this?

Hi all

I’m in second cycle of TTC, last night on day 25 of the cycle, my period started with mild cramps and it is super light like it is usually on day 3.
I usually get periods between day 28 to 30 and had an MMC in March. After MMC, i regularly got normal periods every 28 days.
It’s been 12 hours and feels like it stopped or very little bleeding. I cant say it’s too light or too heavy like usual period.
Did anyone face this?

Hi all

I’m in second cycle of TTC, last night on day 25 of the cycle, my period started with mild cramps and it is super light like it is usually on day 3.
I usually get periods between day 28 to 30 and had an MMC in March. After MMC, i regularly got normal periods every 28 days.
It’s been 12 hours and feels like it stopped or very little bleeding. I cant say it’s too light or too heavy like usual period.
Did anyone face this?

Hi all
I had a MMC in March. From then, I got periods regularly every 28 or 30 days.
This is my second cycle trying, period arrived very early on cycle day 25 night. It has been 18 hours and is very light like it can hardly fill a pad. But it doesn’t seem like a spotting too.

Is this a side effect of TTC? Did anyone face this?

Hi all

When you are staying with inlaws, is it common for them to cook and send meals to their married daughter everyday who stays 15km away. She is working and has a kid.
They send it everyday by using dunzo or swiggy and it does cost alot for 15km.

I feel that, it is okay if inlaws are staying alone in their own house but they shouldn’t do all this while staying in their son and dil’s house. They have their own house too but choose to stay with us and I’m okay with it.
I get so frustrated looking at this. Sending once in awhile is okay but not every single day. Daughter is rich and capable of hiring a cook.
If they really want to help her, they can go stay with her and cook for her the food she wants.
Am I right to be frustrated with this situation or am I the bad one here?
Edit: FIL is retired and pension is very minimal so it’s our money. Me and husband, both are working in tech and earn pretty well. But sometimes, i would like to cook for myself before going to work and she keeps cooking her daughter’s favourite food. My husband is fine with that food and it sometimes frustrates me that i can’t make something I like.

Used chatgpt to make it precise.

My sister-in-law and her husband built a business together over 11 years. It grew from under ₹1 crore to around ₹15 crore and now has about 50 employees.

He handled clients and networking, while she managed operations, employees, finances, and much of the day-to-day running of the company. Both played major roles in building it.

She has now filed for divorce. He refuses to give her a fair share of the business and assets despite her contribution. Since then, he has allegedly threatened her, damaged her belongings, taken valuables from the house, spreads rumours about her parents and my husband, and used his connections to influence people around the case.
She approached 4 lawyers and all of them got influenced/paidoff by him.

How to find a genuine lawyer in Hyderabad who can help with this?