u/Long_Confusion_3529

I just found out about this website/app. I got super excited and ordered several things today.

I just received an email stating that one order had been canceled and refunded per claims specialist.

I went to log in to my account and it says “Sorry, your account is inactivated. Kindly contact our Customer Service. Mail us at support@shopgoodwill.com.”

I did send an email, but I’m curious if anyone has an idea as to why this happened?

I booked a $3000 cruise for my dad and his gf to go on for his bday this year in December.

I’ve only paid $500 toward it and the final payment is due in September.

Well, my dad and his gf show favoritism for one of their grand kids and honestly don’t do anything for my child. My child hasn’t seen them in 3 weeks and we live 10 minutes away. The other child is with them every single weekend. In my child’s almost 2 years of life they bought him about 3 toys and a few outfits like 10 max. The other child they have bought everything for literally everything he has they bought.

My sisters baby shower is this weekend. I paid for everything the venue, decor, everything. My dad is gonna buy her a $779 car seat but couldn’t even put in $50 towards the baby shower…

My grandpa lives with my dad and I’m the one who has to take my grandpa to appointments they won’t even do that.

I’m thinking about canceling their cruise. Would I be the asshole if I do?

I never even did such a nice thing for my mom who raised me and made far more sacrifices for me.

I just feel guilt if I cancel because i have already told my dad and his gf about it…. Idk but I feel like they don’t deserve that from me. I can’t even count on them to watch my kid or anything. I don’t need anything from them financially it’s really just the principle.

I 25F have been married to my husband 25M for 5 years. The only thing wrong with our marriage is the sex.

I feel like we have the sex life of a middle aged couple or something. My husband is packing, size is not the issue.

I have had more partners than him prior to marriage. He’s been with 2 other women in his life.

We have sex like 2-3 times MAYBE 4 a month. He can never do 2 rounds in one day, and he finishes so quickly.

At times, I miss when I was younger and had other partners.

We’ve talked about this so many times and at some point it feels like I’m degrading him or something. I don’t want to keep bringing it up. He has tried honey and blue chews, it’s great when he uses those lol.

But I mean, idk what to do… any advice? I think he’s too embarrassed to bring it up to his doctor.

I wouldn’t divorce him over this. Overall we’ve got a great marriage. I just want to have more sex.

Also, we have tried many different things. I like to explore haha, but that doesn’t change the frequency or duration.

I 25F have been married to my husband 25M for 5 years. The only thing wrong with our marriage is the sex.

I feel like we have the sex life of a middle aged couple or something. My husband is packing, size is not the issue.

I have had more partners than him prior to marriage. He’s been with 2 other women in his life.

We have sex like 2-3 times MAYBE 4 a month. He can never do 2 rounds in one day, and he finishes so quickly.

At times, I miss when I was younger and had other partners.

We’ve talked about this so many times and at some point it feels like I’m degrading him or something. I don’t want to keep bringing it up. He has tried honey and blue chews, it’s great when he uses those lol.

But I mean, idk what to do… any advice? I think he’s too embarrassed to bring it up to his doctor.

I wouldn’t divorce him over this. Overall we’ve got a great marriage. I just want to have more sex.

Edit to add: Also, we have tried many different things. I like to explore haha, but that doesn’t change the frequency or duration.

My husband is in the military, we bought our house a little over a year ago. We are PCSing (moving) in a few months and will be renting our house out for 3 years until we return. What do you look for/prioritize in a rental property?

Edit to add/clarify:

I am trying to ask renters directly what they care about in a home

For example,

There are two homes, same floor plan, same # bedrooms, same # bathrooms, same square footage, both built the same year.

House A $1800/mo has an 8 Ft metal privacy fence, new appliances, all updated lighting fixtures and ceiling fans, smart home, new vinyl flooring, no carpet, freshly painted and modernized interior/exterior, updated landscaping outside

House B $1550/mo - has a chain link fence, old flooring, some rooms have run down carpet, all builder grade lighting, bathroom and kitchen straight out of 1990s, freshly painted interior, 1990s style exterior in desperate need of TLC.

Would you rather just try to find the best deal on costs not worrying about looks or would you be willing to pay a bit extra for a well taken care of modern home.

I do not mean to offend anyone by asking this, and I have no ill intentions. I’m sorry to those who have been taken advantage of by others.

Maybe this isn’t the right group to ask, but I’m curious to see if anyone answers. Are there any tell tale signs an avoidant person loved you even if they never outright said it? I know avoidant is a very blanket term that only describes a persons attachment style, I understand the answer probably varies, but I’m still hoping to get some insight.

Thanks guys