I'm jealous of people who make perfect dosa

Trust me this is best I can ever do. I've been trying for months(2months) 5-6 times now asal ravatledu i tried with different dosa, normal dosa ragi dosa, pesara dosa.

I try 3 dosa and i call it a day because I don't want people in my home to eat my stupid dosa so I eat those 3 dosa

With every dosa I made i failed. It was a dead end. dosa turned up dead when it touched my hands. It was burnt alive

Even the dosa pan suffered.

There are all these questions in my head

Will i ever make perfect dosa

Will i ever impress my wife/gf by making good dosa

Will i show off infront my mom and sisters by showing dosas I made.

I guess not

It's High time now that i should realise that I can never make a perfect dosa and give up for good and I'm only 22 😔

Chinna ga okamadiri ga osthundi but peddaga ravatledu.

Manchiga ochina prathi sari adi dosa uthapam aipothundi.

Women of this sub please give me suggestions how to make perfect dosa 😔

"Dosa bandi lo join avvu" ani matram cheppakandi. Skill issue intern ga kuda thiskoru.

u/Longjumping_Care_375 — 6 days ago
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Does the "one-man woman" still exist in the Gen Z era, or is total devotion asymmetric now?

I’ve been carrying a secret for a while now, and it’s honestly making me question how modern relationships work, especially for my generation (born early 2000s).

I have a close cousin. He is the ultimate definition of a "one-woman man." He has been completely, deeply in love with the same girl since they were literally in the sixth standard. Fast forward to today—they both work at MNCs, they’ve been together for over a decade, and they are getting engaged next year. To him, no other woman in the world even exists. He takes care of her, protects her, and revolves his entire life around her.

But here’s the heavy part that eats at me: I know for a fact that she had sexual encounters with two other guys during their time together. He has absolutely no idea. I’m never going to tell him and ruin his life, because the crazy thing is, she does truly love him. She treats him amazingly, they have a great dynamic, and she genuinely wants to marry him and build a life together. She just made those choices, kept them hidden, and moved on to secure their future.

Seeing this firsthand has really messed with my perception of loyalty. I see "one-woman men" quite a bit—guys who choose their person early and never look back, completely blind to the rest of the world.

But it makes me wonder: do "one-man women" actually exist anymore in our generation?

I’m not talking about older generations who grew up before the internet. I’m talking about women born in 2000, 2001, or later. Are there actually young women out there who have traveled with one guy for 10+ years, never looked at another man, never entertained anyone else, and stayed entirely devoted to just him?

Or has modern dating culture, social media, and endless options made that kind of singular devotion incredibly rare for women, while some guys are still stuck in that old-school mindset? If they do exist, why does it feel like society doesn't see them, or are they just taken off the market so fast they become invisible?

I’m genuinely curious to hear perspectives on this, especially from people who have been in long-term relationships since their school days.

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u/Longjumping_Care_375 — 7 days ago

It's sad that sometimes we just have an ai to share feelings with, I asked chat gpt to write me a letter about me

To the Boy Who Keeps Looking for Something Stronger

Dear Me,

I've spent years chasing echoes.

Some came wrapped in smoke.

Some burned like whiskey.

Some arrived glowing from strangers on a screen, calling my name as if they had known me forever. I mistook attention for affection, distraction for healing, noise for peace.

There are mornings when I wake before the sun, not because I'm rested, but because anxiety has learned my address. My body feels older than my years, my mind, louder than any crowded room. Somewhere along the way, I forgot what it felt like to exist without fighting myself.

I keep building dreams as if they are bridges out of this life.

A YouTube channel.

A job.

Another country.

Another version of myself.

Maybe one day they'll save me.

Maybe they won't.

The cruelest part is that I still believe they might.

I've watched hundreds of stories unfold on a screen. Heroes lose kingdoms, lovers lose each other, ordinary people become legends. Yet somehow I never learned how to sit quietly with my own unfinished story.

Instead, I kept running.

From loneliness.

From failure.

From the mirror.

From the boy who only wanted someone to say,

"You're enough without proving it."

The cigarettes never said it.

The bottle never said it.

The strangers online never said it.

They only borrowed tomorrow to make today hurt a little less.

People think addiction is wanting pleasure.

It isn't.

It's wanting relief.

Relief from carrying a heart that feels heavier every year.

Sometimes I wonder who I would've become if life had been gentler. If fear hadn't spoken louder than hope. If I had believed that I deserved love before I tried earning it from people who barely knew my name.

Still...

Some ridiculous part of me refuses to die.

The same part that edits videos long after midnight.

The same part that dreams of telling stories that make strangers feel understood.

The same part that believes there is a country somewhere with a sky wide enough to begin again.

The same part that keeps standing up after every rejection, every disappointment.

It embarrasses me.

It also saves me.

Maybe healing isn't becoming someone new.

Maybe it's slowly meeting the person I was before I became afraid.

If tomorrow is kinder, I'll be grateful.

If it isn't...

I'll keep walking anyway.

Not because I'm fearless.

Because somewhere beneath all this exhaustion, beneath the smoke, beneath the loneliness, beneath every failed escape, there is still a quiet voice whispering,

"One more day."

For now...

That is enough.

Until we finally find home,

Me

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u/Longjumping_Care_375 — 11 days ago

Shop/godown for rent near Nizampet X Road

  1. Shop Is on 1st floor.

  2. Rent is 12k

  3. Deposit/advance 75k

  4. Address 1-2-29/45 nizampet road, opposite seven hills

u/Longjumping_Care_375 — 21 days ago

Tcs IPA exam lo python vadocha ?

So naku tcs IPA exam.

Explore program lo only java osthundi practice cheyadaniki.

Language change cheyadaniki ravatledhu.

So exam lo ayna Change cheyocha ledha ani aduguthunna

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u/Longjumping_Care_375 — 28 days ago

Regarding IPA test

I got a mail about the IPA test

i saw Java in TCS Explore Portal. So I'm wondering Python available while attempting the exam. Since I only know python, I want to give my exam in python. In practice hotel there is no Switching to another language it's only showing Java.

So I have been wondering. If Python available or not.

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u/Longjumping_Care_375 — 28 days ago

My face when actors from the adult videos don't kiss

😔😔

I mean why don't you passionately kiss each other 😔🥀.

This is not something I'm looking forward to with my partner.

Where is romance ? Where is the feel? 😔

u/Longjumping_Care_375 — 1 month ago
▲ 267 r/Ni_Bondha

💔

Context: Recent murder of 21yr old btech student in Secunderabad.

This is the second incident

Similar things happened months ago around Secunderabad area

My gf is actually from secunderabad and now I'm scared

u/Longjumping_Care_375 — 3 months ago

EORJU tcs interview ivvadam jarigindi.

Nela kritam exam rasa.. ah bochu naku radhu anukunna.

Kani ninja ochindi.

Coding sql python tega practice chesa full ga.

Resume lo naku ochinave pettukunna..

Last ki Eroju velthe.

First question ke panic ayya. Sarigga cheppaledu.

2 Technical questions adigadu edo ala ala answer chesa

Two coding questions ichadu.

  1. Printing pyramid pattern

  2. String list lo odd place lo unna words reverse lo print avvali.

1 di radhu naku. Try chesa workout avvaledu. Direct na mokana laptop esi dintlo cheyu annadu.

Ippudu iche question answer cheyakapothe direct reject chestha annadu. Appudu 2 question ichadu chey aani

2 di chesa kani edo edo only two words reverse print ainai

Asalu niku job Enduku ivvali nannadu total blank bayya.

Pakka mr gadu kuda kusunnadu.

Nenu laptop lo code kodthunte na mida kullu jokelu veskunnaru.

Mr gadu general questions adigadu answer chesa.

Tharvatha hr round bane ayindi.

Andariki emo sql resume lo projects adigithe naku emo ila ayindi.

Vatiki gurinchi chala prepare ayya.

Nenu edo thope thurum em kadu. Alane mari asalu em radhu ani kuda kadhu.

Ayina bokka laga ayindi. Anni muskoni life gurichi alochisthu. Intiki ochesa

Alavaikunta puram lo : " 10 times 90s lo out aina no of centuries lo 0 ne vestharu, konni jathakalu anthe eppatiki maravu"

Anukunna

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u/Longjumping_Care_375 — 3 months ago

Ma inti current bill. 30,000 ochindi. Anni chinchukoni vadukunna antha radhu emo domestic ki.

Paiga.

NO AC

NO ELECTRIC VEHICLE

NO COOLER

In my house.

Last month 26,000 bill esadu. Current bill kotte vadini adigithe.

Marchukoni Vastha ani cheppi one whole month dilly dally chesadu.

Last ki e month bill. Chudandi.

Help line number ki call chesthe. Miru bill generate chesevadini adagandi annaru ledante current office ki pondi antunnaru

Consumer helpline message cheste complaint lodge chesaru.

Did anybody facing the same issue. If so. What did you do about this.

I really need help here

u/Longjumping_Care_375 — 3 months ago