u/Lost_Phone_5306

I've only been reading manga for a few months, and I'd love to know some series I should try out. I've tried some more action-heavy manga like Attack on Titan and it didn't really hit; but I absolutely love Apothecary Diaries, Sousou no Frieren, and Spy x Family for some of the lighter stuff, and Death Note, Vinland Saga, and Junji Ito for a heavier vibe. Maybe some slice of life manga? Idk, I'm still trying out different genres. I'd love it if someone could recommend some places to go next! (please low fanservice, mild content is ok but nothing explicit i prefer my eyes unscarred)

I’ve identified as ENFP for a while, but am trying to distinguish between it and INFP. I could see either Si or Te as being inferior functions, and I feel like I used more Si when under stress when I was younger, and now (17F) I tend toward Te when I get stressed; obsessive organising (then getting overwhelmed by the plans I just made lol), angry at other people for being inefficient, feeling overwhelmed by all sorts of self imposed rules. But I also (much more when I was younger) cling hard to routines, get super nosTaligent and clingy to family

I have a weird relationship with structure. I generally love the idea of it but ultimately rebel against it, like with the aforementioned planning. I hate actually following plans but still feel like I “have“ to have one. Then I just give up and do it by the seat of my pants.

With extroversion/introversion it’s really cloudy. I love talking with people and debating things, and go batty if I’m isolated too long. At the same time I’m extremely inattentive to the physical world, to the point that I freak out in a busy grocery store because so many things are happening around me and people are everywhere, and I suddenly have to pay attention to these hundreds of details. Im so much more comfortable in my internal world.

I know my Fi is definitely strong, I’m not that concerned with group values. I sort of idolise my own worldview and life; maybe it’s just a character defect, but I see everything in my life through my own sort of personal mythology. As in, I let past events in my life have these huge significances over me that they really shouldn’t, and see things through them.
I also feel like my Ne is strong, because I don’t really think in a linear way, it’s definitely abstract patterns all branching off and connecting.

For context, I (17F) am bisexual. But due to personal religious beleifs, a relationship with another woman isn’t really an option- so since it’s not necessarily relevant, do I still have an obligation to tell those closest to me about my orientation? Personal safety isn’t an issue, but the only thing is that it may make them uncomfortable, and it might make my female friendships look suddenly weird.