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My parents hate my husband and pretend like we're not married. What should i do?

My husband (24M) and I (21F) have been married for over a year. We got married while i was still in school, but we immediately moved 3.5 hours away from my family so i could do my internship once married. Once my internship was complete, we moved back to the area where my college was, and we were only 20 minutes from my parents' home. Everything was fine for the most part. We would have dinner with them about once a week, but my husband hated going over to my parents' house. My mom is 45F, and my dad is 46M. My parents have never liked my husband because he didn't serve a mission for our church, didn't go to college, and works in a blue-collar job. My parents are extremely judgmental and criticize everyone and everything they do. Now that i am done with college, we have moved 4 hours away. I went last week to see my family, i have 3 younger sisters who were showing their animals at the fair, and i went to help. My husband didn't come. I stayed one night at my parents' house, and it was so weird. My mom and dad kept saying weird things, and it felt like they were pretending I wasn't married. It was overall very weird. I want to go down with my family to help move cows and stay one night, but my husband absolutely hates being there because he feels like he is hated and just judged the whole time. My husband is not wrong; they really do judge him a lot. I know a conversation needs to happen with my parents about this behavior, but i don't even know where to start. I feel like if i do say something, they will put in an effort to change for a little bit, then go right back to how they were. I also don't want it to be awkward, since I'm not very close to my mom or dad. What should i do?

TL;DR my parents don't like my husband, so anytime i want to see family, my husband hates it the whole time. My husband feels judged and hated, and i can see why he feels that way because my parents make weird comments to my husband and just have never liked him. i want to talk to my parents about this behavior, but i don't know how to start the conversation or if it should even be had, because i already don't have a close relationship with either of my parents, and i don't want things to be awkward. What should i do?

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u/Low-Kaleidoscope4767 — 3 days ago

My parents hate my husband and pretend like we're not married. What should i do?

My husband (24M) and I (21F) have been married for over a year. We got married while i was still in school, but we immediately moved 3.5 hours away from my family so i could do my internship once married. Once my internship was complete, we moved back to the area where my college was, and we were only 20 minutes from my parents' home. Everything was fine for the most part. We would have dinner with them about once a week, but my husband hated going over to my parents' house. My mom is 45F, and my dad is 46M. My parents have never liked my husband because he didn't serve a mission for our church, didn't go to college, and works in a blue-collar job. My parents are extremely judgmental and criticize everyone and everything they do. Now that i am done with college, we have moved 4 hours away. I went last week to see my family, i have 3 younger sisters who were showing their animals at the fair, and i went to help. My husband didn't come. I stayed one night at my parents' house, and it was so weird. My mom and dad kept saying weird things, and it felt like they were pretending I wasn't married. It was overall very weird. I want to go down with my family to help move cows and stay one night, but my husband absolutely hates being there because he feels like he is hated and just judged the whole time. My husband is not wrong; they really do judge him a lot. I know a conversation needs to happen with my parents about this behavior, but i don't even know where to start. I feel like if i do say something, they will put in an effort to change for a little bit, then go right back to how they were. I also don't want it to be awkward, since I'm not very close to my mom or dad. What should i do?

TL;DR my parents don't like my husband, so anytime i want to see family, my husband hates it the whole time. My husband feels judged and hated, and i can see why he feels that way because my parents make weird comments to my husband and just have never liked him. i want to talk to my parents about this behavior, but i don't know how to start the conversation or if it should even be had, because i already don't have a close relationship with either of my parents, and i don't want things to be awkward. What should i do?

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u/Low-Kaleidoscope4767 — 3 days ago

My parents hate my husband and pretend like we're not married. What should i do?

My husband (24M) and I (21F) have been married for over a year. We got married while i was still in school, but we immediately moved 3.5 hours away from my family so i could do my internship once married. Once my internship was complete, we moved back to the area where my college was, and we were only 20 minutes from my parents' home. Everything was fine for the most part. We would have dinner with them about once a week, but my husband hated going over to my parents' house. My mom is 45F, and my dad is 46M. My parents have never liked my husband because he didn't serve a mission for our church, didn't go to college, and works in a blue-collar job. My parents are extremely judgmental and criticize everyone and everything they do. Now that i am done with college, we have moved 4 hours away. I went last week to see my family, i have 3 younger sisters who were showing their animals at the fair, and i went to help. My husband didn't come. I stayed one night at my parents' house, and it was so weird. My mom and dad kept saying weird things, and it felt like they were pretending I wasn't married. It was overall very weird. I want to go down with my family to help move cows and stay one night, but my husband absolutely hates being there because he feels like he is hated and just judged the whole time. My husband is not wrong; they really do judge him a lot. I know a conversation needs to happen with my parents about this behavior, but i don't even know where to start. I feel like if i do say something, they will put in an effort to change for a little bit, then go right back to how they were. I also don't want it to be awkward, since I'm not very close to my mom or dad. What should i do?

TL;DR my parents don't like my husband, so anytime i want to see family, my husband hates it the whole time. My husband feels judged and hated, and i can see why he feels that way because my parents make weird comments to my husband and just have never liked him. i want to talk to my parents about this behavior, but i don't know how to start the conversation or if it should even be had, because i already don't have a close relationship with either of my parents, and i don't want things to be awkward. What should i do?

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u/Low-Kaleidoscope4767 — 3 days ago

My parents hate my husband and pretend like we're not married. What should i do?

My husband (24M) and I (21F) have been married for over a year. We got married while i was still in school, but we immediately moved 3.5 hours away from my family so i could do my internship once married. Once my internship was complete, we moved back to the area where my college was, and we were only 20 minutes from my parents' home. Everything was fine for the most part. We would have dinner with them about once a week, but my husband hated going over to my parents' house. My mom is 45F, and my dad is 46M. My parents have never liked my husband because he didn't serve a mission for our church, didn't go to college, and works in a blue-collar job. My parents are extremely judgmental and criticize everyone and everything they do. Now that i am done with college, we have moved 4 hours away. I went last week to see my family, i have 3 younger sisters who were showing their animals at the fair, and i went to help. My husband didn't come. I stayed one night at my parents' house, and it was so weird. My mom and dad kept saying weird things, and it felt like they were pretending I wasn't married. It was overall very weird. I want to go down with my family to help move cows and stay one night, but my husband absolutely hates being there because he feels like he is hated and just judged the whole time. My husband is not wrong; they really do judge him a lot. I know a conversation needs to happen with my parents about this behavior, but i don't even know where to start. I feel like if i do say something, they will put in an effort to change for a little bit, then go right back to how they were. I also don't want it to be awkward, since I'm not very close to my mom or dad. What should i do?

TL;DR my parents don't like my husband, so anytime i want to see family, my husband hates it the whole time. My husband feels judged and hated, and i can see why he feels that way because my parents make weird comments to my husband and just have never liked him. i want to talk to my parents about this behavior, but i don't know how to start the conversation or if it should even be had, because i already don't have a close relationship with either of my parents, and i don't want things to be awkward. What should i do?

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u/Low-Kaleidoscope4767 — 3 days ago
▲ 10 r/family

My parents hate my husband and pretend like we're not married. What should i do?

My husband (24M) and I (21F) have been married for over a year. We got married while i was still in school, but we immediately moved 3.5 hours away from my family so i could do my internship once married. Once my internship was complete, we moved back to the area where my college was, and we were only 20 minutes from my parents' home. Everything was fine for the most part. We would have dinner with them about once a week, but my husband hated going over to my parents' house. My mom is 45F, and my dad is 46M. My parents have never liked my husband because he didn't serve a mission for our church, didn't go to college, and works in a blue-collar job. My parents are extremely judgmental and criticize everyone and everything they do. Now that i am done with college, we have moved 4 hours away. I went last week to see my family, i have 3 younger sisters who were showing their animals at the fair, and i went to help. My husband didn't come. I stayed one night at my parents' house, and it was so weird. My mom and dad kept saying weird things, and it felt like they were pretending I wasn't married. It was overall very weird. I want to go down with my family to help move cows and stay one night, but my husband absolutely hates being there because he feels like he is hated and just judged the whole time. My husband is not wrong; they really do judge him a lot. I know a conversation needs to happen with my parents about this behavior, but i don't even know where to start. I feel like if i do say something, they will put in an effort to change for a little bit, then go right back to how they were. I also don't want it to be awkward, since I'm not very close to my mom or dad. What should i do?

TL;DR my parents don't like my husband, so anytime i want to see family, my husband hates it the whole time. My husband feels judged and hated, and i can see why he feels that way because my parents make weird comments to my husband and just have never liked him. i want to talk to my parents about this behavior, but i don't know how to start the conversation or if it should even be had, because i already don't have a close relationship with either of my parents, and i don't want things to be awkward. What should i do?

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u/Low-Kaleidoscope4767 — 3 days ago

My parents hate my husband and pretend like we're not married. What should i do?

My husband (24M) and I (21F) have been married for over a year. We got married while i was still in school, but we immediately moved 3.5 hours away from my family so i could do my internship once married. Once my internship was complete, we moved back to the area where my college was, and we were only 20 minutes from my parents' home. Everything was fine for the most part. We would have dinner with them about once a week, but my husband hated going over to my parents' house. My mom is 45F, and my dad is 46M. My parents have never liked my husband because he didn't serve a mission for our church, didn't go to college, and works in a blue-collar job. My parents are extremely judgmental and criticize everyone and everything they do. Now that i am done with college, we have moved 4 hours away. I went last week to see my family, i have 3 younger sisters who were showing their animals at the fair, and i went to help. My husband didn't come. I stayed one night at my parents' house, and it was so weird. My mom and dad kept saying weird things, and it felt like they were pretending I wasn't married. It was overall very weird. I want to go down with my family to help move cows and stay one night, but my husband absolutely hates being there because he feels like he is hated and just judged the whole time. My husband is not wrong; they really do judge him a lot. I know a conversation needs to happen with my parents about this behavior, but i don't even know where to start. I feel like if i do say something, they will put in an effort to change for a little bit, then go right back to how they were. I also don't want it to be awkward, since I'm not very close to my mom or dad. What should i do?

TL;DR my parents don't like my husband, so anytime i want to see family, my husband hates it the whole time. My husband feels judged and hated, and i can see why he feels that way because my parents make weird comments to my husband and just have never liked him. i want to talk to my parents about this behavior, but i don't know how to start the conversation or if it should even be had, because i already don't have a close relationship with either of my parents, and i don't want things to be awkward. What should i do?

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u/Low-Kaleidoscope4767 — 3 days ago

Distance based shipping plugin?

First time creating a WordPress site. I am a florist, and I need to create a place where customers can enter an address that they want their flower arrangement delivered to. I also want it to tell them how much it will cost to deliver to the address they entered. I want custom tiers: for example, 1-5 miles from my business would cost $3, 5-10 miles would be $8, 10-15 miles would be $14, 15-20 miles would be $21, and so on. Does it need to be a distance-based shipping rate plugin, or could it be done on a form plugin? TIA!

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u/Low-Kaleidoscope4767 — 5 days ago

Distance based shipping rate plugin?

First time creating a WordPress site. I am a florist, and I need to create a place where customers can enter an address that they want their flower arrangement delivered to. I also want it to tell them how much it will cost to deliver to the address they entered. I want custom tiers: for example, 1-5 miles from my business would cost $3, 5-10 miles would be $8, 10-15 miles would be $14, 15-20 miles would be $21, and so on. Does it need to be a distance-based shipping rate plugin, or could it be done on a form plugin? TIA!

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u/Low-Kaleidoscope4767 — 5 days ago

Distance Based Shipping Rate Plugin for wordpress [HELP]

First time creating a WordPress site. I am a florist, and I need to create a place where customers can enter an address that they want their flower arrangement delivered to. I also want it to tell them how much it will cost to deliver to the address they entered. I want custom tiers: for example, 1-5 miles from my business would cost $3, 5-10 miles would be $8, 10-15 miles would be $14, 15-20 miles would be $21, and so on. Does it need to be a distance-based shipping rate plugin, or could it be done on a form plugin? TIA!

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u/Low-Kaleidoscope4767 — 5 days ago

Distance Based Shipping Rate Plugin for wordpress [HELP]

First time creating a WordPress site. I am a florist, and I need to create a place where customers can enter an address that they want their flower arrangement delivered to. I also want it to tell them how much it will cost to deliver to the address they entered. I want custom tiers: for example, 1-5 miles from my business would cost $3, 5-10 miles would be $8, 10-15 miles would be $14, 15-20 miles would be $21, and so on. Does it need to be a distance-based shipping rate plugin, or could it be done on a form plugin? TIA!

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u/Low-Kaleidoscope4767 — 5 days ago