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Hello. I’m 22. Recently, I’ve had a DIY abortion and I have to go to this hospital na maraming nagrereklamo in CAR region. Anyway, I disclosed this information to this doctor because I am aware of the doctor and patient confidentiality, but then she said that she has to report it because her license might get removed. I didn’t know what to do, but I was really confused earlier on why she has to report it. On top of that, while talking to the doctor thru her phone, her voice was loud enough for the others to hear about my situation, so I didn’t know if they have heard it or not.

I just want to ask kung magkano po magpa ultrasound sa BGHMC, check up ko na po kasi bukas sa OB Dept. nila and balak ko po sana magrequest for ultrasound

Hi, I don't know if this would violate the rules here, but I really need help.

Alright, it began in 2018, when I still didn't know a thing about spiritual connection, awakening, or anything. I had this guy in my class that I barely talked to, and I can confirm that I never had a crush on this guy until I started having dreams of him. Just to clear anything up, I have never thought or fantasized about this guy. So, the dream was weird, but I thought nothing of it, yet 2 days after that, he showed up again and again and again until it was our last year being juniors in high school. The dream consisted of us building our life together, and eventually....as much as I hate to admit, I began to have romantic feelings for him because of those dreams.

Fast forward to us having to separate schools after our moving-up ceremony; it was during the pandemic at that time. The dreams became less frequent, but one thing is for sure: he would show up in my dreams, continue where we left off EVERY TIME I can feel to myself that the guy I am currently with is not for me or is suspicious. I think he was trying to warn me, because every time after he showed up, my suspicions were confirmed.

Also, I have been into manifesting and discovering more in spiritual awakening for 4 years now. The universe has been giving me signals through repetition (numbers, colors, words etc.)

ADDITIONALLY: Back then, while I was actively having dreams about that guy, my dreams are becoming weird. Sometimes it was eerie; sometimes I would find myself underneath someone whom I suspect is an incubus. I don't really know. I just want to clear up my mind and solve that mystery that has been going on for 8 years now.

Hello!

Can you guys suggest stories with a female lead who is skinny? Like the "fix yourself and eat more" type of skinny, but it was just genetics, if you know what I mean. Like, yes, we have stories where men literally worship a plus-sized woman, and I love that. But I haven't really found a story where it's the opposite. Like where the story embraces that woman's body with no change. I don't want stories where someone is struggling with ED or such. Just a normal woman who is naturally skinny and going through hardships and receiving judgment from other people.

I'm not trying to downgrade any plus-sized women in general. It's just that, as a skinny person who eats well but doesn't get her weight to go past 45kg, I think we skinny women deserve stories that appreciate us and also tells the readers what we are going through with our weight and appearance.

Kahapon, habang nakaupo ako sa harapan ng jeep, may isang estudyante ang sumakay sa tabi ko. Of course, hindi ko binigyan ng pansin, not until umandar yung jeep, sa buong byahe namin, naka focus ako sa daan at hindi ko man lang maramdaman na may nakahawak na pala sa tuhod ko. Tsaka ko lamang napansin nung malapit na kami sa eskwelahan ng mga bata. At that point, he started caressing my knees up to my thighs pero wala akong nagawa, I stayed frozen in my seat hanggang sa makababa siya na dun ko lang sinabi sa mga kasamahan ko sa trabaho na nasa jeep din. They said na “special child” daw. As if it can be used as an excuse. Hindi lang daw ako nabiktima. When I got home, sinabi ko ‘yon sa grandmother ko. Nagalit naman siya. But then in the end, sinabi niya na dahil daw sa suot ko.

What was I wearing if you may ask? SWEATPANTS AND A ZIP UP SHIRT. You know, t-shirt siya na parang pang sports. Sa tiktok shop ko nabili. During that time, naka zip down yung shirt ko. Maybe let’s say 2-3 inches from my neck? But it’s not really enough to reveal my cleavage or anything.

Bakit ganun?

I was being se***lised my entire life. Pero bakit kaming mga babae ‘yong palaging nasisisi?

Bakit pagdating sa mga ganitong case, kapag “special child”, dinidismiss lang nila. Oo, may sakit sa pag-uutak, pero hindi naman ‘yon gagawin kung walang nagturo, hindi ba?

At bakit palaging sa babae ang sisi sa huli? Bakit hindi sa lalake?

There was this author who always promoted her story like this, but she was always using "sexual" conversations between the MC and FC. I thought it was kind of weird to promote a story using sexual shits ALL THE TIME para makahakot. Gets naman na para ma-catch yung attention ng iba, but come on. Yun lang ba yung best sa story ni author? Bed scenes? I feel like they are making "erotic" books para kumita and for clout. Hindi na talaga siya tungkol sa author na gustong magsulat ng story na gusto niyang isulat. Parang nakiki-hop na lang sa trend. I always think that writing is for "creativity" and to express yourself, hindi yung magsusulat lang to earn money (this would come soon pa rin naman). Worst? The usage of AI and the lack of meaningful and good scenes, as well as yung mismong story, not just bed scenes and toxic scenes kung saan ni-romanticize ang SA and domestic violence in a book. Parang marami yung naging author not because they want to show off their creative minds, but to earn money and use "erotic" books for clout. Leaving the other authors with a good story that has no DV and SA in their story being romanticized to become a shadow. Like guys, don't get me wrong, may mga author na specialty ang pagsusulat ng erotic stories, but come on. Old readers and authors can see the difference between someone who is using spicy stories for clout and someone writing an erotic book. You'll know naman. Napuno na lang ng bed scenes for clout. I wish more authors would actually write their book based on what their creative mind has.

Also, I noticed na yung usual na commentators about those types of posts? Minors. Seriously. Minors. Well, hindi naman kasalanan ni author if may mga makukulit na minors na magbabasa nun, pero yung ibang authors diyan. They know their audience, yet they still create those types of stories. Uunahan ko na rin po, if someone were to comment, "Inggit ka lang." Hindi po, opo, hindi. I also write erotic stories as part of my stories between ADULTS who have CONSENT. And IF I were to write SA and DV, I would make sure that it would not be romanticized.

Genuinely, bakit may mga tao na para pinukpok ng martilyo yung utak? (This post is not meant to hate on women’s body)

I’m skinny. I have fast metabolism, mabilis din ako mabusog, but I’m trying. Please, don’t tell me to “eat more”. I’ve heard that a thousand times, been bullied by both young and ADULT women growing up.

So, let’s start. Why is it that when a skinny woman feels confident about herself, posting herself without throwing shades to plus sized women, everyone starts calling her mean things, trying to drag her down, calling her insensitive, telling her to eat more, telling her to stop promoting *no*exia and “ed” BUT when a plus sized woman does it, SUDDENLY they all encourage her, praise her, “women empowerment”, they say. But when a skinny woman barks back on those people saying the same sh*t to her like “Stop promoting o**sity”, then we’re the bad people?

Pangalawa, when a plus sized woman is wearing clothes that may look unflattering, the internet will hate. I’m not talking about “stop promoting obesity” and stuff, but the people from the internet who are rotting in bed, the same people who has body odor, bad breath, has cellulites, has a big tummy is saying mean things to this plus size woman, but when a skinny woman wears something revealing, everyone is praising her.

Pangatlo, cherries. YES, THE CHERRIES THAT ARE PLACED ON CHEST. Malaki, laylay, hiwalay, maliit or *l*t, ya’ll should stop sending unrealistic standards based on what you were seeing FROM MODELS. Imagine, kapwa babae nagsasabi ng ganyan as if they don’t have imperfections.

Pang-apat. The belief that a woman should be flawless from head to toe. We should be shaved. Armpits and private areas should be free of hairs and baby smooth and don’t have any discoloration. As if showing our dark and hairy armpits would k*ll them. Why is it that women have to f*cking comply to the standards set by men and women WHO want validation from men?

Like come on, it’s exhausting to hear someone say “Ang payat mo, kumain ka ng marami”, “Ang taba mo, dapat di ka nagsusuot ng ganyan.”