When women put 'friends first' on dating apps, what does that functionally mean?
I get the idea of befriending people before considering dating, but more as a 'we already know each other in person' sort of thing
If you match with someone on dating apps, like the simplest thing to get to know them to me it seems is to just do an activity together, right?Dinner, bowling, minigolf, whatever. But like if you are both attracted to each other, how is that not a date? It just feels like a more nebulous and undefined sort of thing.
Am I supposed to offer to pay for the both of us still? Am I still expected to plan everything? Because that would not feel like a friendship at all
If we hang out off and on for a month and I'm having a great time and she seems to be too, do I just say, 'hey, you want to date for real?'
Maybe this is supposed to be like hanging out in groups instead of one on one? That seems even more complicated to start out with
Idk.Friends are just people I click with, we have shared interests or history or whatever. There's no intentionality to it. It just is. Starting a friendship from a dating app, that may or may not turn into something more, I just am struggling to wrap my brain around how that even should be approached