When women put 'friends first' on dating apps, what does that functionally mean?

I get the idea of befriending people before considering dating, but more as a 'we already know each other in person' sort of thing

If you match with someone on dating apps, like the simplest thing to get to know them to me it seems is to just do an activity together, right?Dinner, bowling, minigolf, whatever. But like if you are both attracted to each other, how is that not a date? It just feels like a more nebulous and undefined sort of thing.

Am I supposed to offer to pay for the both of us still? Am I still expected to plan everything? Because that would not feel like a friendship at all

If we hang out off and on for a month and I'm having a great time and she seems to be too, do I just say, 'hey, you want to date for real?'

Maybe this is supposed to be like hanging out in groups instead of one on one? That seems even more complicated to start out with

Idk.Friends are just people I click with, we have shared interests or history or whatever. There's no intentionality to it. It just is. Starting a friendship from a dating app, that may or may not turn into something more, I just am struggling to wrap my brain around how that even should be approached

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u/Low-Restaurant8484 — 5 days ago

Proposed mapping of Spectacular Spider-Man epics (including Web, Adjectveless, and Sensational)

The concept:

  1. Crossover arcs (Kraven's Last Hunt, the Mad Dog Ward, Maximum Carnage, Pursuit, Spider-Hunt, Gathering of the Five, and the entirety of the Clone Saga) are not collected here because they either are or will be in ASM Epics anyhow. I also trimmed out a couple annuals for the same reason. I think Marvel would be best served to just reprint the relevent ASM volume about the time they release its Spectacular counterpart. And from a collectors point of view, who wants to have multiple Maximum Carnage's anyhow? I certainly wouldn't buy another. We'd just be adding extra volumes and making it even longer to collect the line for no reason really

  2. The more I thought about it, the more clear it is that Web of Spider-Man should be collected alongside Spectacular. You just can't map Conway's era any other way. Adjectiveless and Sensational were added as well to get books to realistic sizes for Marvel, with them as a seperate lines I was getting 21-26 books per volume which would be nice (and smart for Marvel to try and compete with DC Finest) but I just don't believe Marvel would do that. So basically, while the line is called 'Spectacular Spider-Man', really this would be for all the significant Spider-Man B-titles from this era (except Team-Up and Unlimited because they are so different in what they do)

  3. The '-1' issues are also not collected, because I am assuming that Untold Tales of Spider-Man will get Epics as well, where they would slott ij well and help fill it out to two Epics. If this is not the case though, the last three volumes of this line would need to shuffle a bit to make room for them

Below is the content of each volume. 'UC' means issues that are yet to be collected. Hopefully Marvel would release 2 volumes a year, finally get some of these holes in accessible continuity plugged, since ASM pre-clone saga is about to wrap up

**Vol 1: Where Were You When the Lights Went Out:**

 Spectacular Spider-Man #1-23

**Vol 2: Secrets of the Grave:**

 Spectacular Spider-Man #24-42, Annual #1 (UC 0)

**Vol 3: Pretty Poison:**

 Spectacular Spider-Man #43-61, Annual #2 & 3 (UC 1)

**Vol 4: The Long Goodbye:**

 Spectacular Spider-Man #62-80 Annual #4 (UC 0)

**Vol 5: The Final Answer:**

 Spectacular Spider-Man #81-100, Web of Spider-Man #1 (UC 0)

**Vol 6: The Death of Jean Dewolf:**

Spectacular Spider-Man #101-110 and Annual #5, Web of Spider-Man #2-10 and Annual #1 (UC 7)

**Vol 7: Ashes to Ashes:**

 Spectacular Spider-Man #111-119, Web of Spider-Man #11-19 and Annual #2 (UC 8) 

**Vol 8: Foreign Affairs:**

 Spectacular Spider-Man #120-129 and Annual #6, Web of Spider-Man #19-28 (UC 9)

**Vol 9: The Return of the Sin-Eater:**

 Spectacular Spider-Man #130, 134-138 and Annual #7, Web of Spider-Man #29-40 and Annual #3 (UC 1)

**Vol 10: The Tombstone Testament:**

 Spectacular Spider-Man #139-148, Web of Spider-Man #41-48 and Annual #4 (UC 0)

**Vol 11: The Wolves of War:**

 Spectacular Spider-Man #149-155 and Annual #8-9, Web of Spider-Man #49-57 and Annual #5 (UC 3)

**Vol 12: Knight and Fogg:**

 Spectacular Spider-Man #156-167, Web of Spider-Man #58-65 (UC 7)

**Vol 13: Torment:**

 Spectacular Spider-Man 168-172 and Annual #10, Web of Spider-Man #66-71, Spider-Man #1-5 (UC 6) 

**Vol 14: Perceptions:**

 Spectacular 173-177, Web of Spider-Man #72-78, Spider-Man #6-12 (UC 11)

**Vol 15: The Child Within:**

 Spectacular Spider-Man 178-184, Web of Spider-Man #77-83, Spider-Man 13-16, X-Factor #4 (UC 3)

**Vol 16: Funeral Arrangements:**

 Spectacular Spider-Man #185-190, Web of Spider-Man #84-90, Spider-Man #17-23 (UC 6)

**Vol 17: Death of Vermin:**

 Spectacular Spider-Man #191-196 and Annual #12, Web of Spider-Man #91-94 and Annual #8, Spider-Man #24-28 (UC 7)

**Vol 18: Spirits of Venom:**

 Spectacular Spider-Man 197-200, Web of Spider-Man #95-100, Spider-Man #29-34, Ghost Rider/Blaze #5-6 (UC 6)

**Vol 19: Death by Tombstone:**

 Spectacular Spider-Man #204-210, Web of Spider-Man #104-108, Spider-Man #38-44 (UC 12)

**Vol 19: Live and Let Die:**

 Spectacular Spider-Man 212-216 and Annual #13, Web of Spider-Man #109-111, #113-116, Spider-Man #46-50 (UC 11)

**Vol 20: Facedancing:** Spectacular #241-248, Spider-Man #76-81, Sensational Spider-Man #12-18 (UC 12)

**Vol 21: Son of the Hunter:**

 Spectacular Spider-Man #249-254, Spider-Man #81-88, Sensational Spider-Man #19-24 (UC 12)

**Vol 22: The Hobgoblin Lives**

 Spectacular Spider-Man #256-261, Spider-Man #90-95, Sensational Spider-Man #26-31, Hobgoblin Lives #1-3 (UC 6)

u/Low-Restaurant8484 — 8 days ago

Have the Mexican Spider-Man comics that are origibal stories been reprinted at all?

Obviously not through Marvel proper but since they were in partnership with La Prensa, maybe La Prensa has done so? Idk how it all works

I just want to check out the original stories they added in between the reprints. I saw a couple on the internet archives but not many

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u/Low-Restaurant8484 — 8 days ago

How would you compare and contrast Dick and Jason as Robin?

Not as Nightwing and Red Hood, but their characteristics when they were Robins

For context, I have read a fair amount of Batman books with little to no Robin presence. Year One, Long Halloween, Mad Monk, Monster Men, V's Tec etc. But with the new DC Finests I am finally digging into more 'normal' Batman books where you have Batman and Robin (in this case Jason) going on adventures together as duo. Its really fun!

Jason so far is a delight. When written by Mike Barr, he loves adventure and has guts, and rattles off puns a mile a minute. Batman is honestly pretty gruff with him sometimes but he just shrugs it off and doesn't get discouraged. And tonight I just read his post-crisis origin and I like him even more. Very much a pragmatist in his circumstances, he'll do what he can to survive, but he isn't bad at heart. And I love his sense of independance. There also seems to be a sort of 'righteous anger' latent in him, hinted at by the fact he isn't bothered by the Batman imposter killing killers who got off free due to technicalities

But here's the thing, I haven't read much with Dick as Robin, but is he really all that different? Like in my head, Dick as Robin would also be telling silly jokes as he fights. He also comes from a tragic background and yet doesn't let it shut him down. Isn't he the leader of the Teen Titans for years? So maybe independant is the wrong word, but leadership seems somewhat synonymous with it, temperment-wise

I know what Jason *becomes* later, but as Robins what would you say are the primary traits that seperate Dick and Jason? Or perhaps is the point that they're really not so different at first, but Jason's approaching death is like a divergence point?

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u/Low-Restaurant8484 — 20 days ago

How DC could murder my wallet next year (existing lines only)

Batman 1989-1990: Collects Batman #436-446, Detective #604-612, annuals and related stories

Batman 1990: Collects Batman #447-454, Detective #613-621, annuals and related stories

Look, I get Post-Crisis Batman has been spoiled lately, with 4 DC Finest volumes by this July. But also, I just want to get to a narratively satisfying spot before we pause for a bit, y’know? We are starting the Alan Grant Tec run with Death in the Family and Blind Justice, these two volumes would not only reach the end of that, but also close out the Wolfman run simultaneously. Then we can pause for a year or two if needed, prioritise other eras. Just get me to a good pause point first?

Batman 1983-1984: Batman #360-373 Detective Comics #527-540, annuals

Batman 1984-1985: Batman #374-387 Detective Comics #541-553, annuals

So I haven’t bought Red Skies yet, because as a new DC reader, I’m worried it will be like Marvel’s Epic Collections, and a random volume will be left hanging without its matches for years at a time. I love Moench’s Moon Knight, and I want to read his Batman. Announce one of these and I will have a lot more faith that the other won’t be far behind and break my initial planned rule of only collecting Bats post-crisis. And then again, after DC can prioritise other eras like the 70s or Golden Age or whatever for awhile for all I care. I just want to know the plan before Red Skies sells out

Green Lantern 1959-1962: All Green Lantern comics pre the 1963-1965 vol

I still haven’t read my other two GL Finest Collections because I am waiting until I have the first volume. Please DC, don’t leave me hanging

Green Lantern 1987-1989: Green Lantern Corps 220-224, the Action Comics run, whatever else from this era

So I have read almost everything GL from the Wein run up to Emerald Twilight over the last couple years, but the one gap of stuff I couldn't track down is this period. So I’d like to fill that gap in real bad

Batgirl 1999-2000: Cass volume 1. Idk the mapping, surprise me

I want to reread Cass’s original run, but I don’t have the first 6 issues so I haven’t done so >:(

Fourth World 1971-1972: Mister Miracle 5-10, the Forever People 6-11, New Gods 5-11, Superman’s Pal Jimmy Olsen 142-148

Fourth World 1972-1984: Mister Miracle 11-25, New Gods 12-19, New Gods (1984) #6, The Hunter Dogs

Kinda hefty size, hopefully DC is willing to do this and not toss Kirby's 80s stuff in a post-crisis volume or something. Do these both in one year and I will be very happy having a narratively complete trilogy on my shelf :)

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u/Low-Restaurant8484 — 29 days ago
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Matteo Berrettini performance timeline

Really goes to show how unlucky he has been. He was getting good results in 2021 and 2022, and then has been completely derailed ever since

Even at his peak, 2021 FO he had to withdraw. 2022 Winby he got Covid

u/Low-Restaurant8484 — 1 month ago

Which DC Finest do you recommend more, The Spectre or Hawkman?

I am interested in both characters, particularly their copper age stuff, but when these Silver Age ones were announced I started wondering if I should check out the earlier stuff too

I am a huge Moon Knight fan, including the classic stuff, and both seem to have a somewhat similar appeals (although pretty different personalities far as I can tell)

The one thing thats holding me back is I have struggled to get into silver age Green Lantern (although I am collecting it) and especially Flash. I don't have the same issue with Marvel Silver Age, but DC just hasn't clicked for me thus far. The characters feel flatter and the continuity less emphasized ij the Silver Age. I want subplots and melodrama and characters evolving

With these particular biases in mind, if I were to get one of these two volumes, which would be a better fit in your opinion?

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u/Low-Restaurant8484 — 2 months ago