u/Low_Flan2886

tldr : my dad is acting very strangly staying a lot at my mountain cabin out of the blue and i am thinking the worst
so essentialy two days ago my mom asked me if i wanted to go in our house in the mountain i dont really like going there in my life i never enjoyed going there as a kid there weren't other kids and there was nothing i could do so i would get bored as a teen my dad forced me to go there and helped him do rennovations that to this day aren't done and now that i just graduated and starting university he sometimes asks me if i want to go there but i allways say no and i became like a joke so when my mom asked me if i wanted to go there and she would give me 20 euros if i helped paint since my dad was allways complaing about how hard it is to work in the heat with bugs and limited internet so i agreed she told me this at night and in the mornig she didint tell my dad yet at around 5 am i woke up and saw my dad so i told him i was going with him that day since one of every other day he went in the morning and came back at night and two days ago when i told him i was coming with him but i litteraly said these words "but mom knows what it takes" and my dad is very controlling and he is a very violent person this one time me and my mom where talking about getting my license and we were whispering because my dad wasent really ok with it but my mom was paying everything and he hear us whispering he came in the room and asked us what we were talking about we told him nothing and he asked again a few more times and we replyed with "nothing" and after a while e picked up one of the chairs my mom makes as a wood working hobbie he picked up the chair and he was saying that he was going to smash it (when i was little the had a similar disagrement and i dont know what it was about but there he actually smashed the chair) but when i told him this mysterios condition my mom told me to shut up i know my dad heard her and he heard me but he was like lost in thought so i went back in my room and i was waiting for my dad to come call me to go since he didnt really say anything about it i waited untill 6 am then i went out of my room and my mom told me he went alone and about yester day night he called and said he will sleep there and tonight he said the same thing i am overthinking the worst possible scenario but there isint an explenation and i cant really call him since to call he has to go in town so he can essentyally only call us if he really did what i think he did that would be the best place i mean at night there are bores everywere they make hole in te gound and eat everything plus ther is nothing there and the terrain is very slanted if someone would want to go there i would be incredibly hard but i want to be realistic and i dont think its helping the fact that i am looking at a lot of true crime so tell me AIO and can you give me a possible explenation

So, my ex and I started talking again about a month ago, and we started talking a lot, just like when we were together, and so I asked her to try again. She told me that at that moment she wasn't ready, but we still continued talking, and then she would tell me that she liked me anyway. Well, then recently we stopped talking out of nowhere, she completely stopped looking for me, and I resigned myself and assumed she had found someone else. Then, however, one day she calls me because she had heard from a friend of mine that I had gotten a crazy haircut, and that it wasn't true that I got it, but she wanted confirmation. Then, however, I tell her that I also wanted to do the eyebrow slit but that my barber didn't know how to do it, and so I did it myself but I messed up and shaved off half my eyebrow. So she tells me that since she did her slit herself, anyway when my eyebrow grows back to ask her and she would do it for me. Then a month passed where we only spoke once during this month, I ask her to do this slit for me and she tells me "in 3 days I'm passing through Florence" since she doesn't live in Florence and at that moment she was at the beach. In 3 days she passes by, comes to my house, and does it for me. However, the day before, meaning my friend around 1 am tells me that he wants to go to the beach (the same beach where she goes) and I tell him yes because I actually wanted to go to the beach with my friend. So I get ready and at 7 AM I leave to go to the beach, I arrive there and I'm on the beach with my friend and I didn't want to call her and tell her "listen, I'm at the beach today, would you do my eyebrow slit today?" because me and my friend are not very social and he doesn't know her, and I didn't want to leave him alone in another city. Plus, me not being very social, I didn't want to put myself in a situation where I'm surrounded by this girl's friends since I don't know them, and so I didn't tell her anything. Plus I had a tight schedule because I had to return very early and I wanted to be with my friend since I almost never see him. Well, me and this friend of mine went to take a walk on the beach and I see from afar this guy, and this was a friend of this girl, right. But I don't see her, I don't see her at all. And this guy had seen me, and I knew him, and he looks at me, I look at him, then I tell my friend to turn around and walk away. But this guy had clearly seen me, but we turn around and start walking in the other direction. In the eyes of anyone, we were trying to follow this girl, and when they noticed it, a guy (they were playing volleyball) threw the ball in our direction, and I was turned around but that stupid friend of mine was looking backward. And I was shirtless, and I have a pretty big and pretty visible scar on the back of my spine, so if she got close enough to pick up the ball thrown on purpose, she definitely noticed my scar, and she knows that I have this scar. And today, which was the day she was supposed to come here to do my eyebrow slit, she didn't write to me, I didn't writed i think i was wrong because if i dont do anything she can think that , and I am convinced that i am not wirnting anything because i know she saw me at the beach, I didn't do anything and i think i was wrong because if i dont do anything she can think that , and I am convinced that she thinks I went all the way to another city to pursue her, especially because I didn't tell her anything, and this is the reason why she didn't write anything to me today. And if we speak again, I made sure to take as many videos and photos as possible during the rest of that day so I can prove to her that I was really there only for my friend. I set my phone to record all the conversations that me and my friends had so that she can hear that she was not in any of our plans (I might be crazy just for this) but she blocked me on every social and told some people in common that i followed her and i dont think there is anyway i can prove my innocence since i organized with my friend on a discord call not over text

So, my ex and I started talking again about a month ago, and we started talking a lot, just like when we were together, and so I asked her to try again. She told me that at that moment she wasn't ready, but we still continued talking, and then she would tell me that she liked me anyway. Well, then recently we stopped talking out of nowhere, she completely stopped looking for me, and I resigned myself and assumed she had found someone else. Then, however, one day she calls me because she had heard from a friend of mine that I had gotten a crazy haircut, and that it wasn't true that I got it, but she wanted confirmation. Then, however, I tell her that I also wanted to do the eyebrow slit but that my barber didn't know how to do it, and so I did it myself but I messed up and shaved off half my eyebrow. So she tells me that since she did her slit herself, anyway when my eyebrow grows back to ask her and she would do it for me. Then a month passed where we only spoke once during this month, I ask her to do this slit for me and she tells me "in 3 days I'm passing through Florence" since she doesn't live in Florence and at that moment she was at the beach. In 3 days she passes by, comes to my house, and does it for me. However, the day before, meaning my friend around 1 am tells me that he wants to go to the beach (the same beach where she goes) and I tell him yes because I actually wanted to go to the beach with my friend. So I get ready and at 7 AM I leave to go to the beach, I arrive there and I'm on the beach with my friend and I didn't want to call her and tell her "listen, I'm at the beach today, would you do my eyebrow slit today?" because me and my friend are not very social and he doesn't know her, and I didn't want to leave him alone in another city. Plus, me not being very social, I didn't want to put myself in a situation where I'm surrounded by this girl's friends since I don't know them, and so I didn't tell her anything. Plus I had a tight schedule because I had to return very early and I wanted to be with my friend since I almost never see him. Well, me and this friend of mine went to take a walk on the beach and I see from afar this guy, and this was a friend of this girl, right. But I don't see her, I don't see her at all. And this guy had seen me, and I knew him, and he looks at me, I look at him, then I tell my friend to turn around and walk away. But this guy had clearly seen me, but we turn around and start walking in the other direction. In the eyes of anyone, we were trying to follow this girl, and when they noticed it, a guy (they were playing volleyball) threw the ball in our direction, and I was turned around but that stupid friend of mine was looking backward. And I was shirtless, and I have a pretty big and pretty visible scar on the back of my spine, so if she got close enough to pick up the ball thrown on purpose, she definitely noticed my scar, and she knows that I have this scar. And today, which was the day she was supposed to come here to do my eyebrow slit, she didn't write to me, I didn't write, I didn't do anything and i think i was wrong because if i dont do anything she can think that , and I am convinced that she thinks I went all the way to another city to pursue her, especially because I didn't tell her anything, and this is the reason why she didn't write anything to me today. And if we speak again, I made sure to take as many videos and photos as possible during the rest of that day so I can prove to her that I was really there only for my friend. I set my phone to record all the conversations that me and my friends had so that she can hear that she was not in any of our plans (I might be crazy just for this, but I feel obligated to prove my innocence).

So, my ex and I started talking again about a month ago, and we started talking a lot, just like when we were together, and so I asked her to try again. She told me that at that moment she wasn't ready, but we still continued talking, and then she would tell me that she liked me anyway. Well, then recently we stopped talking out of nowhere, she completely stopped looking for me, and I resigned myself and assumed she had found someone else. Then, however, one day she calls me because she had heard from a friend of mine that I had gotten a crazy haircut, and that it wasn't true that I got it, but she wanted confirmation. Then, however, I tell her that I also wanted to do the eyebrow slit but that my barber didn't know how to do it, and so I did it myself but I messed up and shaved off half my eyebrow. So she tells me that since she did her slit herself, anyway when my eyebrow grows back to ask her and she would do it for me. Then a month passed where we only spoke once during this month, I ask her to do this slit for me and she tells me "in 3 days I'm passing through Florence" since she doesn't live in Florence and at that moment she was at the beach. In 3 days she passes by, comes to my house, and does it for me. However, the day before, meaning my friend around 1 am tells me that he wants to go to the beach (the same beach where she goes) and I tell him yes because I actually wanted to go to the beach with my friend. So I get ready and at 7 AM I leave to go to the beach, I arrive there and I'm on the beach with my friend and I didn't want to call her and tell her "listen, I'm at the beach today, would you do my eyebrow slit today?" because me and my friend are not very social and he doesn't know her, and I didn't want to leave him alone in another city. Plus, me not being very social, I didn't want to put myself in a situation where I'm surrounded by this girl's friends since I don't know them, and so I didn't tell her anything. Plus I had a tight schedule because I had to return very early and I wanted to be with my friend since I almost never see him. Well, me and this friend of mine went to take a walk on the beach and I see from afar this guy, and this was a friend of this girl, right. But I don't see her, I don't see her at all. And this guy had seen me, and I knew him, and he looks at me, I look at him, then I tell my friend to turn around and walk away. But this guy had clearly seen me, but we turn around and start walking in the other direction. In the eyes of anyone, we were trying to follow this girl, and when they noticed it, a guy (they were playing volleyball) threw the ball in our direction, and I was turned around but that stupid friend of mine was looking backward. And I was shirtless, and I have a pretty big and pretty visible scar on the back of my spine, so if she got close enough to pick up the ball thrown on purpose, she definitely noticed my scar, and she knows that I have this scar. And today, which was the day she was supposed to come here to do my eyebrow slit, she didn't write to me, I didn't writed i think i was wrong because if i dont do anything she can think that , and I am convinced that i am not wirnting anything because i know she saw me at the beach, I didn't do anything and i think i was wrong because if i dont do anything she can think that , and I am convinced that she thinks I went all the way to another city to pursue her, especially because I didn't tell her anything, and this is the reason why she didn't write anything to me today. And if we speak again, I made sure to take as many videos and photos as possible during the rest of that day so I can prove to her that I was really there only for my friend. I set my phone to record all the conversations that me and my friends had so that she can hear that she was not in any of our plans (I might be crazy just for this, but I feel obligated to prove my innocence). and i cant just not do anything or not talk to her anymore becuase what if she tells people i know that from her prespective i went to another city just to watch her from a far that cant happen to me so i am kinda stuck