Am I making bad embryos? Or is my body attacking them?
Long post ahead - please read I’m desperate.
My husband (35) and I (34) have been TTC since November of 2024. We have purposely tried to conceive (with tracking, timed intercourse, etc) a total of 6 times, and have gotten pregnant 5 times.
-Nov 2024 (loss at 5w3d) low betas, highest 36
-Feb 2025 (ectopic at 6w1d) treated with methotrexate. Kept my tube.
-July 2025 (loss at 5w0d) low betas, highest 56
-January 2026 (loss at 5w2d) slow/low betas, highest 250
-July 2026 - currently pregnant, probably a chemical - first vvfl at 11/12dpo, still with faint lines at 13/14 DPO. Positive digital. Starting betas tomorrow. This was the only pregnancy where I started progesterone suppositories and injections as well as Lovenox at 3dpo. I also added Pepcid and Claritin.
-After each loss we took time off, whether for a mental break or for additional testing. After taking time off, we’d try, and get pregnant first round. There’s only one month (December 2025) that we tried and did not get pregnant.
-As far as testing goes, I’ve done everything under the sun. I had mild (only 4 CD138+ cells) chronic endometritis treated in November. Verified it was treated with repeat biopsy. Then had my 4th loss 2 months later. HSG/SIS normal. All labs normal except I have above average AMH and AFC for my age (~4, ~28) but otherwise no other labs that would be consistent with PMOS.
-in May 2026 I had a laparoscopy and hysteroscopy that showed some scar bands inside my uterus that were excised, as well as a small focal area of stage 1 endo. This was our first cycle TTC post surgery.
-husbands SA is normal and DNA fragmentation is “excellent”
-I am compound heterozygous MTHFR (normal homocysteine, folate, B12) but I take Thorne prenatal with methylated folate. Other supplements include vitamin D, coq10, inositol, magnesium, vitamin C, NAC, omega-3s. I also take baby aspirin.
I have an appointment with a Reproductive Immunologist in August. This is going to be expensive but I’ve been on a waitlist for 6 months so I kept the appt.
I’m exhausted friends. What do I do next? Wait for my RI appt? Start the IVF process to do PGT testing? I’m either consecutively making bad embryos for which IVF might help, or my body is attacking them, for which RI might help. Idk. Success stories welcome. I just want one healthy baby and with every loss I just feel that slipping away.