u/MaelstromSeawing

Not optional. It is a rule.

We've had lots of posts lately which are including photos that are not credited.

No, "please help me find the maker," no "found on google," no "credit to whoever made this" and no blank captions. Do not post if you can't find the username of the person who made the suit in your post.

Please report posts that do not include credit for other makers work so we can take it down and remind the OPs to attach credit.

They offered to cosign an apartment with me, but... I don't want them to know I'll be changing my name & gender marker. If they cosign, it would be okay. it would help immensely, I'd get out of here faster.

But they don't approve of my transition. so if I change my name they'll for sure see it on the legal cosign documents. Meaning if I transition (again) I'll lose their support. Meaning i lose my escape

My only other option is building credit from the ground up at 27 yr old, and somehow making enough to get an apartment.

Please tell me this is doable. I'm in such peril lately and I need a rope, I need something to hold onto. I need to be myself, a boy, but how can I escape when I'm so poor I rely on them?