u/Magicmaidengamer

Using curseforge, essential mod. Unable to connect with friend

java.nio.channels.ClosedChannelException

https://mclo.gs/chy7hrc

I’m a shy gamer looking for other shy gamers who love RPGs, survival games like Ark, monster hunter, Minecraft Java, and maybe make fun of how much I suck at Elden ring when I get back to it lol, or cozy games, ect. Just picked up Mecca chameleon, haven’t played it yet. I also play a game called Tibia if there is a rare person that even knows what that is and also plays xD

I have quite a few games, or maybe we can just chat sometimes. I’m cool with just chatting too.

I don’t play any FPS games, just an fyi. They’re not my cup of tea.

I am not a “sweat”, I love messing around and finding out, I’m definitely a bit of a loot goblin “oohhh shiny”, I love laughing, making jokes tho my humor is questionable and dark lol. I’m just hoping some chill ppl are out there who are introverted like me looking for fun, chat, joke, play, laugh.

If you’re interested, let me know a bit about you and what games you’re into, I have a decent library of games. I do prefer 30+ year olds, because the millennial mentality is where I thrive, but not a solid rule if you’re chill. Ok, I’m done, I’m bad at this lol

Trying to play with my spouse, via lan, and essentials mod and keep getting this error on his side

Ive tried as much as i could, firewalls on both pcs, dsn change, and watched countless fix tutorials on this and still cant get spouse to be able to join. Please help.

Essentials mod has worked for every other modpack until this one but im not even sure thats the problem. Ive run through the mods list several times and cant figure it out as everything matches.

A MAGICAL Journey Slumber Spell, The Lil Cafe is the modpack, maybe one of you guys can tell me if there is a file/mod that just wont let it connect?

We have 2 children, multiple pets, a home, and vehicle. I have been a stay at home mom, I haven’t worked in a long time, and I’m applying for jobs currently but I’m scared because it’s all minimum wage ones. We’ve been together 21 years, married 7. He said he would let me have the house, and if I were to move we’d split the equity. I agreed.

I told him we were separated 3 weeks ago, he is going back and forth a lot with hot and cold energy. Refusing to let me move on, and refusing to acknowledge that I am ending the marriage. It is very difficult to navigate right now emotionally. Like where was this energy when I was begging for it? But w/e.

I would like to not have to fight in court about much. I don’t want much. I hope he doesn’t want much. He won’t communicate anymore so not going to get any idea until it happens. Idk. I feel flat, and numb a bit and just tired. So very very soul deep tired from surviving alone for so long and begging so hard.