u/Maleficent_Repair359

rain is actually pissing me off so bad yaar 😭 i come to office everyday and one little drizzle and my undies stay wet and sticky all damn day. it feels gross and uncomfortable af especially with the humidity. i wear boyshorts cos of my broader hips but they take forever to dry and by lunch im just suffering.

anyone have good recos for fast drying breathable undies that actually work for this mess? preferably cotton or quick dry ones that dont feel like a wet diaper by 11am. links if possible pls im desperate here

i panic every time my parents travel without me. is this normal or am i overthinking too much?

hear me out. whenever my parents plan to go somewhere without me, especially at night, my brain immediately starts imagining the worst possible things. i can’t sleep, i keep checking my phone for their messages, asking where they reached, if they’re safe. i even try to stop them from going and then they get upset with me. it makes me feel so guilty but the fear is stronger.

i’m still young and single but the thought of getting married and moving away while they live far scares me so much. what if something happens and i’m not there? i know logically things will be fine but my mind doesn’t listen.

also the whole “girls have to leave their house” thing makes it heavier. sometimes i think i should earn enough so i can have a ghar jamai instead of leaving my parents.

i know i should not overthink like this but it’s not working. does anyone else feel this way about their parents travelling? how do you cope? especially those of you who are married and living away from parents. i really need some advice.

We've been together for over 6 years. The first time I saw him in school, I was starstruck. He was the handsome, cool, intelligent guy everyone liked and I felt so lucky he chose me.

Now he's losing his hair and honestly, it doesn't change anything for me. I don't love him for his looks. I love what we've built , the understanding, the comfort, the way he makes me feel safe. I love his smile and how he talks to me. It's not even a compromise. I just don't care about the hair.

But he cares a lot, and it's breaking my heart.

He's become so depressed and vulnerable. We tried everything , Richfeel, Traya, all the treatments but it's genetic (his dad is bald too). He keeps comparing hair to makeup for girls. Now he avoids couple photos, always saying "my hair looks bad from this angle." We barely click pictures anymore. He wears caps outside but can't inside the house, so his confidence is gone.

He used to be funny, sarcastic and full of life. Now he's super introverted, doesn't meet friends or invite anyone. Even during intimate moments, he's so conscious about hiding his bald patch that it kills the mood and sometimes he can't perform because of the stress.

He's still a good man , gentleman, well-earning, caring. But this insecurity is slowly taking away the person I fell in love with. I miss his charm and laughter. I just want us back.

How do I make him realise that his hair isn't what I love about him? How do I support him without it feeling like pity? Please tell me what I should do.

We've been together for over 6 years. The first time I saw him in school, I was starstruck. He was the handsome, cool, intelligent guy everyone liked and I felt so lucky he chose me.

Now he's losing his hair and honestly, it doesn't change anything for me. I don't love him for his looks. I love what we've built , the understanding, the comfort, the way he makes me feel safe. I love his smile and how he talks to me. It's not even a compromise. I just don't care about the hair.

But he cares a lot, and it's breaking my heart.

He's become so depressed and vulnerable. We tried everything , Richfeel, Traya, all the treatments but it's genetic (his dad is bald too). He keeps comparing hair to makeup for girls. Now he avoids couple photos, always saying "my hair looks bad from this angle." We barely click pictures anymore. He wears caps outside but can't inside the house, so his confidence is gone.

He used to be funny, sarcastic and full of life. Now he's super introverted, doesn't meet friends or invite anyone. Even during intimate moments, he's so conscious about hiding his bald patch that it kills the mood and sometimes he can't perform because of the stress.

He's still a good man , gentleman, well-earning, caring. But this insecurity is slowly taking away the person I fell in love with. I miss his charm and laughter. I just want us back.

How do I make him realise that his hair isn't what I love about him? How do I support him without it feeling like pity? Please tell me what I should do.

Girls, be honest yaar…

What’s the most obvious hint you dropped that he just didn’t get? Whether it was in college, at work, through late-night chats, or even during those awkward family functions

I’ll start: I used to make extra besan laddoos (his favourite) and “randomly” drop them at his PG with a handwritten note. I’d text him good morning every single day, laugh at all his lame jokes, and once even told him “It feels so nice when you’re around… everything feels better.”

His reply? “Haha thanks yaar, you’re such a good friend.”

Now your turn.

Girls, be honest yaar…

What’s the most obvious hint you dropped that he just didn’t get? Whether it was in college, at work, through late-night chats, or even during those awkward family functions

I’ll start: I used to make extra besan laddoos (his favourite) and “randomly” drop them at his PG with a handwritten note. I’d text him good morning every single day, laugh at all his lame jokes, and once even told him “It feels so nice when you’re around… everything feels better.”

His reply? “Haha thanks yaar, you’re such a good friend.”

Now your turn, behens.

hey girls im 23 and ive been wearing thongs almost everyday since i was 16-17. honestly i dont even notice them most days now. but last weekend i was with my college friends and we started talking about underwear randomly. when i said i still wear thongs daily they all gave me this shocked look lol

they said they used to wear them in college for no lines but now mostly switched to boyshorts or full briefs cuz they start irritating after few hours. one even said shes done with all the efforts that goes into wearing it .

it kinda made me think am i the weird one?? i still prefer them cuz i hate panty lines but sometimes the wedgie feeling hits and i wonder if im just tolerating it out of habit.

so tell me girls do you still wear thongs regularly or did you stop? are they actually comfy once you get used to them or are we all just pretending?

also really need brand recommendations. the ones im buying keep stretching or becoming uncomfortable after few washes. what thongs do you use that actually last and feel good? preferably easy to get in india.

typing this from bus sorry if messy

okay so i went to south mumbai last week and i saw so many girls in short skirts just existing normally and i cannot stop thinking about it

because when i wear a skirt i literally wear shorts underneath. every single time. the thought of just. panties. and nothing else. makes me feel naked even if nothing is showing 😭

how are they just walking around like that. wind and everything. completely unbothered.

someone explain because i genuinely want to try it but i feel like i'll spend the entire time holding my skirt down like a maniac .Also, razor bumps. For short shorts, how do you not have them show? Like am i just doing life wrong…please help.