u/Master_Health_5952

ive yet to meet a bf who actually likes their girlfriend. i just find this so interesting

idk if men are all collectively on some stupid tsundere shit but from outside the relationship every single dude looks like he loathes his gf. he hates hearing her even SPEAK. he hates the things she likes, hates the her fashion choices, he thinks everything she does is dumb. cause he thinks feminine things are dumb but allegedly he """likes"""" his gf

idk atp i think women just collectively put on the delusional rose colored glasses when they get bfs cause imagine being with someone who basically doesnt even like you. he hates hearing you even SPEAK. and all you do is roll your eyes at his overreaction ig.

this was probably one of the biggest things that put me off relationships growing up even before i rlly thought of myself as a femcel. men just, dont like women at all lmao???

yes, i have internalized misogyny, but also isnt the world just kinda misogynistic by default??

because its kinda a given that media "for men" is widely appreciated among both genders, or generally regarded as cooler, swaggier, respectable. media for women is silly, meaningless, pathetic and pointless. women are happy to watch 100 shonen shows before a man would ever touch a romance shoujo.

cause women are can relate to men, and i guess men ever even trying to relate to women is preposterous. mens media is just superior!! how dare i ever expect men to stoop so low as to enjoy something women enjoy for once. what a horrible thing, enjoying things women enjoy.

and its crazy too that on top of that, art and media by men are always more popular. more known. even though women make more art than men do, it makes men who do stand out even more.

it feels like nothing women do means anything. sports? strength focused- men are better. the sport is women-dominated? then it's less popular than the male counterpart. leadership? no one listens or respects women. of course men should be the leaders. men strong, men listen to strong men, not weak women.

not even at a job can i mean anything. women are passed up for promotions despite doing the same work as men. short men talk about workplace discrimination for their height, women are shorter than men on average, but they would never spare a crumb of empathy. and also all of above, men strong, men should be leaders, men are just better, more relatable, less bitchy.

even when you talk about dumb shit like prehistoric people its men are hunters and are therefore superior, because gathering totally isnt valuable work at all!! (it requires a lot of knowledge!!!) and also the gendered tasks shit isnt even true bruh

the only thing women are valued for is bringing comfort. you should never complain, only make others feel good. whether this is through a caring demeanor, being visually pleasing, or being sexual relief. always looking out for others. bringing baked goods.

like theres nothing i can even do about any of this besides pretend and larp that this isnt reality. its like nothing i do or make will ever be taken seriously cause im a woman, or that everything i do or make is stupid because im a woman and being a woman is stupid.

this isnt about ignoring the haters. ignoring this might as well be ignoring being alive. ignoring that i exist. i am a person who exists, is alive, and is affected by the world. the things i do are shaped by the world around me. the things i enjoy are shaped by the world around me. the world just sucks ok idk is it really realistic for me to not feel this way

bird species are typically egalitarian, monogamous(!!!!!), and when theyre not, its males displaying funny colors or dances to attract females. also since theyre birds, the female can often just fly off, so its up to male birds to be actually attractive to females. obviously there are some exceptions, but at large birds somehow developed equality....

whereas male mammals are violent, intimidators, r*pists, even the most intelligent species are like this (elephants, dolphins, chimps) its fucking crazy

idk where im going with this. isnt it crazy how we need a whole society and education system to condition men to NOT be like this? and whenever some guy does some fucked up rape shit, theres always people say "he's acting like an animal" or "he has no impulse control"

but we are animals. and youre saying men's "natural" impulses is this???

i guess i just wish things weren't this way in the first place. i wish women's agency mattered to men at the lowest level. i wish women weren't burdened with the task of pregnancy. instead for most of human history men were r*pists and i have to pretend that men are just a different species nowadays (theyre not)

i wonder what its like to live an existence so vapid that sex is considered genuine connection

all these men are larpers btw. either that or the reason theyre lonely is cause theyre racist/homophobic/conservative which i find really funny

i would never, EVER want to be a man. That doesnt change the fact that im short and weak. That doesnt change the fact that the world centers around strength and intimidation. That doesnt change that healthcare system dont give a shit about me. That doesnt change the fact that im treated as inferior to men as not a man.

women shouldn't be encouraged to be men just because the world has made them feel unsafe and inferior. its ridiculous this is a talking point at all.

men are genuinely low empathy creatures from hell who operate entirely reactionary because they are so deeply unimpacted by govt/cultural/physical forces

isnt it crazy? theres genuinely a significant amt of genz men who voted trump as vengeance towards women's "cruelty" because they are completely spineless in their beliefs.

i believe its a human right to be an asshole. idc if minorities are mean to me. im actually glad they can speak their mind as they please. we need a whole lot more honesty in this world

anyway i wish there was a political party that voted against men's rights

being a virgin 18-22 is lowk fire tbh. i feel like its the perfect age to lose your virginity with a peer, and young and reasonably inexperienced to demand ppl be nice about it and let you take your time

but after that age it feels like you sort of "lose the right" to ask your sexual partners to be patient with you. like im supposed to be a sex dispenser now even though sex is scary as fuck and ill probably need 1billion days to get to know a man before i think hes a good person even when he wants to put me through pain so his dick can feel good for like 2 minutes.

idek what to do with myself. like i want to have a partner but i fail the working-vagina requirement. but also its obvious actual romantic love is hetero propaganda bc men dont actually experience romance so much as a desire to insert their penars into people so actually no i dont want a partner.

i actually just feel fundamentally useless to society since it feels like the purpose of women in this world is to give men sex which im not rlly doing when i refuse to get vaginal dilators to make my vagina work. obviously society is misogynistic and hates me but if i contribute nothing positive, if i cease to exist do i not improve the world?

how does one reconcile that your role in society is just being a sex thing for men?

in what fucking world is mens prone to anger, egotistical, rapey-horny default better than a woman

i think epstein files are literally just the outcome of rabidly male-centered leadership

I was thinking about this tweet ty specific subreddit

repost btw

the most unrealistic body standard barbies gave me was making be believe i could be nonsexual with sexual characteristics

honestly 20% of the reason i hate leaving the house is just cause i dont wanna put a bra on, but if i dont put a bra on my nipples poke out and that makes people perceive my existence more

and i hate that if i show too much boob im a whore/slut/sex object that deserve gawking or ridicule. when i go out i have to consider every tank top, i have to think,

1. will people assume my personality based on how much skin i show?
2. am i asking for people to look?
3. am i distracting people?
4. am i disgusting to people?

and even though im wearing a tank top cause the weather is warm, ill wear something on top of it, like a flannel or something. maybe ill just put on a tshirt instead.

its not like i hate my boobs but i hate that the entire world seems to care a whole lot about them. and most of all its just another way moids police women's bodies

its so blackpilling that its a given that heterosex is painful for women. you will be penetrated and beat up internally, and externally you will be slapped because he thinks its hot to watch you jiggle or whatever.

and its so weird to me that women are supposed to be masochists as a given. that men are supposed to be kind of sadistic as a given. and this isnt bdsm or anything, its just heterosexual gender dynamics.

of course women like pain!! they like being penetrated!!

and of course men love giving pain. they like being dominant!! (why are men so obsessed with being dominant? do they fear pain?)

most heterosexuals are misogynysexuals idk atp i cant ever accept this as "how its supposed to be." i wonder what happened to me when i was younger that i never matured into having a normal sexuality (aka being into being dominated and in pain)

have you ever met a "modest" man? (i havent!!)

most men put 0 effort into their appearance and then are shocked women aren't swooning and tripping over themselves for his dick

i just dont get why men think their own dicks are so hot? i think half the reason men are "attracted" to women is that women make his dick hard, and he thinks his dick being hard is hot

all men are are autosexual or AAP (autoandrophillic)