incels act like they are a datable option as if they arent just generally horrible people
btw redpillmarried subreddit regularly talk about cheating on their wives, like dont think for a second incels are decent people who just cant get laid lmao
even men are starting to wonder what the fuck is wrong with them. though, most of them just focus on explaining how generalizations are bad
why do men seemingly not even think of women as human beings?? not even an animal, like literal aliens who dont abide by rules of life on earth, non human beings.
men realizing pussy isnt cola flavored is the funniest cause they definitely dont think theyre own dick tastes good, so why are they expecting pussy to taste like candy. seems like a weird double standard is set for oral to begin with
like yea men are dumb but what is their actual logic with this. how does this make sense at all
men have 0 redeeming qualities im not even joking
it kinda tires me that men's attraction and women's are considered just gender reverse equivalent of each other despite men sexuality almost entirely centering on how they can maximize the extraction of their own pleasure from others, and almost relishing in harming and disrespecting others
and its so weird cause when straight women talk about their sexuality, its about what they can provide to men 😍 she talks about how good she would suck his dick. how she would let him do whatever to her, free use of her body. he can disrespect her as he wishes. she will make sure he is serviced and satisfied.
but the only way men describe sex is taking shit from her. "destroying" her pussy. can he get her to suck his dick. how much disrespecting of her boundaries can he get away with. the things he would do to her. how he can get her to bounce on dick or whatever. how much can he get her to do? how much can he do to her?
and when men have power over women, unbound by law, thats exactly what they do, isnt it? i dont think theres a single military group on this earth that didnt freely r*pe women when they had the opportunity and no punishment. men's attraction is not bound by consent, its almost entirely enjoyed through the taking from women.
why should i feel complimented by this? that a man who would happily fuck a dog would be happy to fuck me too? this is what makes me a chadsexual fakecel? that getting followed when im minding my own business, i should enjoy that instead of feeling afraid what this man would have done if no one was watching.
sometimes i see posts by men saying how they wish it wasnt stigmatized to approach women. it should be stigmatized. no women should be forced to know that a man has imagined whatever fucking porn scenario with her for god knows how long. or that if they were alone and no one would catch them, he'd do fucked up shit to her. its repulsive.
growing up around boys/men is just a 20 year hazing ritual where they make sure to act just cruel enough that you know to make space for them, but not cruel enough for them to get in trouble for it.
from grades 1-5 teachers expect boys to be mean, so they teach girls that boys are mean. so they'll pull your hair, destroy your things, but they dont actually prevent boys from being destructive. so instead, you just tolerate it and accept boys as assholes since grade 1.
boys go through puberty and now not only are they assholes, theyre bigger and stronger than you. and now they watch porn so you have to endlessly perform not being a sex object, lest they find an opportunity to make you into a sex object. god forbid you eat a banana or icecream.
and you also cant complain or retaliate against them when they do this. because then youre a bitch, or they find your reaction funny amongst their friends. and if you do successfully embarrass them, they start using their height to loom over you as a threat. because how dare you stand up for yourself at all? and then they spin it as a sexual thing, because men are rapey as fuck.
and then maybe through a miracle by god some stop being like this in college. but guess what? you spent your entire life adapting for horrible adolescent male behavior. you will always be making space for men so they dont (OPPORTUNISTICALLY) bump into you. you will always be as kind as possible to them, so that they dont call you a bitch. you will always phrase things to them as nice as possible so they dont throw a total temper tantrum. you will always prioritize their needs so they dont decide that you deserve some kind of retaliation for... disrespecting them or something.
i wonder what its like to be a man and feel so entitled to respect and kindness, that you can throw a rage fit when you dont get it, despite the fact that women are never entitled to such.
and i just feel like if i didnt have to grow up around men, maybe i wouldnt be so scared of them either. maybe i would have even a crumb of self respect around them
ive yet to meet a bf who actually likes their girlfriend. i just find this so interesting
idk if men are all collectively on some stupid tsundere shit but from outside the relationship every single dude looks like he loathes his gf. he hates hearing her even SPEAK. he hates the things she likes, hates the her fashion choices, he thinks everything she does is dumb. cause he thinks feminine things are dumb but allegedly he """likes"""" his gf
idk atp i think women just collectively put on the delusional rose colored glasses when they get bfs cause imagine being with someone who basically doesnt even like you. he hates hearing you even SPEAK. and all you do is roll your eyes at his overreaction ig.
this was probably one of the biggest things that put me off relationships growing up even before i rlly thought of myself as a femcel. men just, dont like women at all lmao???
yes, i have internalized misogyny, but also isnt the world just kinda misogynistic by default??
because its kinda a given that media "for men" is widely appreciated among both genders, or generally regarded as cooler, swaggier, respectable. media for women is silly, meaningless, pathetic and pointless. women are happy to watch 100 shonen shows before a man would ever touch a romance shoujo.
cause women are can relate to men, and i guess men ever even trying to relate to women is preposterous. mens media is just superior!! how dare i ever expect men to stoop so low as to enjoy something women enjoy for once. what a horrible thing, enjoying things women enjoy.
and its crazy too that on top of that, art and media by men are always more popular. more known. even though women make more art than men do, it makes men who do stand out even more.
it feels like nothing women do means anything. sports? strength focused- men are better. the sport is women-dominated? then it's less popular than the male counterpart. leadership? no one listens or respects women. of course men should be the leaders. men strong, men listen to strong men, not weak women.
not even at a job can i mean anything. women are passed up for promotions despite doing the same work as men. short men talk about workplace discrimination for their height, women are shorter than men on average, but they would never spare a crumb of empathy. and also all of above, men strong, men should be leaders, men are just better, more relatable, less bitchy.
even when you talk about dumb shit like prehistoric people its men are hunters and are therefore superior, because gathering totally isnt valuable work at all!! (it requires a lot of knowledge!!!) and also the gendered tasks shit isnt even true bruh
the only thing women are valued for is bringing comfort. you should never complain, only make others feel good. whether this is through a caring demeanor, being visually pleasing, or being sexual relief. always looking out for others. bringing baked goods.
like theres nothing i can even do about any of this besides pretend and larp that this isnt reality. its like nothing i do or make will ever be taken seriously cause im a woman, or that everything i do or make is stupid because im a woman and being a woman is stupid.
this isnt about ignoring the haters. ignoring this might as well be ignoring being alive. ignoring that i exist. i am a person who exists, is alive, and is affected by the world. the things i do are shaped by the world around me. the things i enjoy are shaped by the world around me. the world just sucks ok idk is it really realistic for me to not feel this way
bird species are typically egalitarian, monogamous(!!!!!), and when theyre not, its males displaying funny colors or dances to attract females. also since theyre birds, the female can often just fly off, so its up to male birds to be actually attractive to females. obviously there are some exceptions, but at large birds somehow developed equality....
whereas male mammals are violent, intimidators, r*pists, even the most intelligent species are like this (elephants, dolphins, chimps) its fucking crazy
idk where im going with this. isnt it crazy how we need a whole society and education system to condition men to NOT be like this? and whenever some guy does some fucked up rape shit, theres always people say "he's acting like an animal" or "he has no impulse control"
but we are animals. and youre saying men's "natural" impulses is this???
i guess i just wish things weren't this way in the first place. i wish women's agency mattered to men at the lowest level. i wish women weren't burdened with the task of pregnancy. instead for most of human history men were r*pists and i have to pretend that men are just a different species nowadays (theyre not)
i wonder what its like to live an existence so vapid that sex is considered genuine connection
all these men are larpers btw. either that or the reason theyre lonely is cause theyre racist/homophobic/conservative which i find really funny
i would never, EVER want to be a man. That doesnt change the fact that im short and weak. That doesnt change the fact that the world centers around strength and intimidation. That doesnt change that healthcare system dont give a shit about me. That doesnt change the fact that im treated as inferior to men as not a man.
women shouldn't be encouraged to be men just because the world has made them feel unsafe and inferior. its ridiculous this is a talking point at all.
men are genuinely low empathy creatures from hell who operate entirely reactionary because they are so deeply unimpacted by govt/cultural/physical forces
isnt it crazy? theres genuinely a significant amt of genz men who voted trump as vengeance towards women's "cruelty" because they are completely spineless in their beliefs.
i believe its a human right to be an asshole. idc if minorities are mean to me. im actually glad they can speak their mind as they please. we need a whole lot more honesty in this world
anyway i wish there was a political party that voted against men's rights