Who on here has applied for unemployment while working for the company due to hour cut backs? And if so, was it denied or approved, and is it worth it? Or were you terminated??
I'm debating on applying since my hours got cut due to business needs.. I dont want to quit since I enjoy working for the company, but im looking for work elsewhere now
Back story my former best friend of almost 20 years has reached to me, she started dating this one guy and they dated for almost 10 years and 5 years in to that relationship she started cheating on him. I kept my mouth shut since it wasnt my place to say anything to her man, little by l little she started sleeping with guys that I was having one night stands with. Which I really didnt care to much about since it was just a one time thing... so one night im at her house and I went to use the restroom and turns out she went through my phone to get my ex's number so two weeks later me and her go out (at thing point I didn't know she had gotten his number from my phone till two weeks later) so we go out for a girls night at a club, and she tells me that she got his number from my phone and turns out that my ex had told me in those 2 weeks that he didnt want to work it out with me since we were trying during that time. So he shows up and they didnt care at all, they were all over each other, I ended up getting really intoxicated at one point I go outside for a smoke and she follows me and I told her I couldn't handle them being together, she wouldnt stop pushing them being together already that she was falling in love with him I ended up socking her across the face and my friends from the club took me home and we stopped talking. her and my ex dated for about 7 years while she was with her other guy, but broke up with him 3 years in to dating my ex
So this last week she reached out to me and I blocked her but shes smarter than I thought she keeps creating new social media accounts to reach out to me, shes telling that they broke up and wants to be friends again and I keep telling her that I cant do it, she thinks that its about my ex and its not. Its about her and what she did to me, the lying, the betrayal, the backstabbing. I told her what you did was worst than a break up from a man, I trusted you to be my friend and you destroyed our relationship with what you did to us. I told my fiancé and he said to continue blocking her and reporting her and that shes beyond toxic, what im worried about is running in to her since we live in the same county (she moved out of state and now she moved back) so I guess we will see what happens
I've been engaged since the new year and my future MIL has been insisting on going with me to go wedding dress shopping, and I didnt want to hurt her feelings by telling her since she is a opinionated old woman. So the other day I made an appointment to go look at some, not to purchase but to just get a feel of what I'm looking for since our wedding is a year and half aways... I'm not a dress person but I do enjoy wearing the maxi summer dresses that you would wear to a bbq. Not going to wear a floral Hawaiian print but something simple but elegant at the same time, I told my fiancé that I made an appointment and my 2 best friends along with my 2 older nieces are coming with and she goes what about me? I said and what about you? She said am I not going? I said no, she asked why not? All mother in laws go, I said no they dont not even my own mother is going cuz i dont want to hear the sarcastic ass comments coming from you and my mother. She tells me I wouldnt say anything wrong, I saod BS you always call me out on my clothes here at home why don't I wear a long sweater with my tshirt, im at plus size woman and both her and my mother say that I need to hide my fat with a long sweater or cardigan.
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So I told her no you're not going and neither is my mother, so she tells my fiancé she wont let me go with her to try on dresses. Her thinking he was going to tell me something, nope he told her mom this is about her and our day dont make this about you. She knows who will be nice and wont be putting her down cuz of her weight, she did not like that he defended me. She thought he was going to force me to take her with me, but nope he didnt he defended me
So my MIL she has a 7 year old grandson from her other son and I know its not my place to say anything to the dad but I need some opinions me and my husnand don't have kids but ive helped raised plenty of nieces and nephews to know when its ok for a child to cry.... so a couple weeks ago he was running around trips and falls, and scraped his knees on the concrete really bad he was bleeding and right my MIL and the dad started telling him stop crying like a little girl, stop being a sissy lala, it's like the kid wants comfort... now if he had initiated play fighting like wrestling with his siblings or cousins and they hit him a little too hard, and he starts crying then why are you crying? You're the one who wanted to play fight... am I over thinking this?? Cuz I think its a little ridiculous for them to react like that when he hurts himself
Please no negative responses
So back story i met this one woman about 20 years ago we became the best friends, movies, going shopping, getting our nails and toes done etc..... so at the time she already had a man and then me I was single and doing me, but she had already been cheating on her man and I kept my mouth shut cuz it wasnt my place to say anything to her man... till one night that all changed, yes she was also hooking up with guys that I hooked up with but this is the big F up she did, I was trying to work it out with an ex and I was at her place one night and I went to the bathroom.... so about 2 weeks later we go out to a bar and she tells me that shes been texting my ex and that she got his number from my phone when I went to the bathroom when I was at her place 2 weeks prior, my stomach sinks cuz he had already told me that he didnt want to work it out so I was heart broken from her and she dropped the bomb and told me he's coming here tonight so I can "meet him" and he showed up, my stomach sinks i go to the bartender and asked for 2 shots of whiskey took them back to back and when he arrived i noticed she wasnt preping herself for him before he showed up... and what i mean by preping is her fixing her hair and make up cuz i came to find out they had already met in those 2 weeks.
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I go outside for a smoke, she follows me to the parking lot and asked if I was ok I said no im not I thought I was going to be able to handle this but I cant so you're the reason he basically told me F off shes like well what do you want me to do?? I'm falling in love with him, I said excuse me?? It's only been 2 weeks, I get you cant control your feelings but you can control going through your so called best friends phone and getting his number out of it, I thought I could trust you but I cant we are done... so she threatens my by saying if you tell my man (the one she had been cheating on with for years) if you tell him any of this an ounce I will tell your mother everything we have done (my mother is your traditional Mexican catholic mom) and we had some experiences together, we never slept together but we did screw some guys one night in the same room, she was on one couch with her guy and I was on the other couch with my guy... I watched her go at it with this one I was hooking up with, so you guys get the story of her telling my mom, she was with my ex for about 6 years and he kicked her out cuz she was lazy and wanted nothing to do with his family while living with him at his parents and she was back and forth with my ex and the other guy she was already with.
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So flash forward to this last week, I was at the store with my fiancé and I hear my name being shouted it was her my man asks you know her? I said unfortunately yes, I told him in Spanish that's the one that was with my ex, so she walked up to me hugged me, hadnt seen her in over 10years, im not hugging her back, my arms are dropped to my sides like let go of me... then she stopped hugging me, and she goes oh who's this? I said this is my man and she tried hugging him and I got in between them and told her no no no stay the F away from him.. she said why? I said uuuhhhh did you forget that you were with my ex for almost 6 years while you lived with someone else? She said but we are no longer together, I said that doesn't matter you destroyed me, broke my heart, and expected me to show up to your wedding if you guy did get married?? No stay the hell away from my man and if you see us again or him alone dont approach us... so we started walking away and she shouts out so you're still that insecure fat bitch that cant handle a little bit harsh words, I turned around and walked up to her and told her you know what you're right... cuz now I dont trust other woman cuz of you, you have no idea what you had put me through, and I know you brain washed my ex to hate me thats why he never wanted us to be friends, and I know you tried to brain wash your ex to hate me too but it didnt work, I know all the crap you would say behind my back, you said who want to be with a girl that looks, sits, eats, acts, and smells like a man (im 5"10 at 320lbs) so I dont try to deny it, you got with all the guys I used to sleep with and you got with my ex and still talked bad about me and i never did anything bad to you, and kept my mouth shut through out that time... then she tells me you're still not over him, I said im over him ive been over him for years its you that hurt me... what you did was worst than a break up, you said we were sisters and sisters dont do that to each other (and yes I told her ex that she was cheating on everything)
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So she continued rambling on about how im not over my ex and she wasnt understanding my take on it, and I was fed up so I did the only I knew was best I body checked her, she was shocked that I did that and she pushed me back, I walked up to her and just B*tched smacked her and walked away... she messaged me on social media ro apologize and I blocked her, told my man to block her too and he did, I hope i never run in to her again
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End vent lol
So back story a year ago he went to a strip club and didnt tell me about it I found out that he went when he got home, and i was pissed not pissed that he went... but mad that he iust didnt tell me since I've never had an issue with him goina to them since he was honest with me since day one. So I had a horrible dream the other night and I know its just a dream, but its bugging me
I dreamt that he ditched at my family memebers house to go out and eat, and then he went to the strip club, and then when he never went back to pick me up, i was calling his brother but he wouldn't pick up cuz turns out he was telling his brother not to answer.... once i finally got home i see the car in the driveway and i come up stairs, and I hear moaning coming from my bedroom. I opened up the door he had his head in between some woman's legs, and once she spoke it was the stripper from the club (cuz the night of the strip club he told me she had an accent and thats what i heard in my dream) I went crazy throwing things at the both of them, yelling, cursing hitting him and her.... the slut is still sitting on the bed getting dressed I grabbed her by the hair and pulled her out to the front door, then I grabbed her stuff and threw it outside.... she leaves I go back in to the room he's sitting on the bed looking at me and says goodnight im going to sleep, I was like excuse me??? Wtf did i just walk in too, this is why you or your brother weren't answering my calls?? You ditched me so vou can get some stripper pu**y??? Then I woke up and I was up all night tossing and turning that night
I know its just a dream, idk maybe it was just a moment considering its been a year from the night he lied to me about it ive been crying and cant stop, and please no negative responses
So my brother in law just told his brother (my husband) that one night after he got from a guys night out he didnt want to go home yet, so he parked his car in his spot at his apartment and walked across the street to the strip club, cuz he didnt want to go home,.... now he has a GF and they have kids they've been together 7 years and my thoughts are maybe hes not attractedto her as much or at all cuz she has let herself go since having kids ya she has a fulltime job.... but he does everything for the kids and she doesn't so if she wanted to go to the gym she could if she wanted too and he has let himselfgo as well but he doesnt have time for the gym cuz hes always taking care of the kids (and im not defending him im going based off with what ive seen), and this isn't the first time he's snuck off to the strip club he's told her that he's going to be at a dive bar when he was actually at a strip club.
So my question is regardless of them having kids maybe she just got lucky that the few times they've have had sex she gets pregnant, but could this mean that he's not getting any when he wants if he lies to here about his whereabouts? I know its not my business but these are just my thoughts, so please no negative responses
So i was looking up an associate and her name was coming up on my teams but not on the people search through work day, she wasnt coming up on look for people on workday... what does that mean???
Who ever reported me to HR for what was said over a year ago, you're pathetic.... why now did you report me? I cant go in to detail of what was said but this is some petty BS