▲ 9 r/GayMen

What do these emojis mean in a gay dating profile? ⬆️⬇️↕️↔️

I assume they mean top bottom verse and side and someone I’ve recently seen has this one ⬆️ so does that mean he is a top or could that mean something else entirely? I’m the emoji generation and it’s confusing even me lol

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▲ 0 r/GayMen

Are there any dating apps to date gay men internationally?

I’m curious because dating apps like Facebook dating Tinder Bumble Taimi and others are getting boring. I am curious what else exists that isn’t as popular as these dating apps.

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u/Methodical_mudduck01 — 11 days ago
▲ 23 r/GayMen

Wondering if I should tell my deceased Bi friend’s ex that he has passed?

I’ve never had to deal with a close friend dying and when I lost my friend this question came up in my mind a day or 2 after the incident. My friend’s ex is a guy who was in love with my friend and wanted to build a life together. However my friend ended up dumping him and then posting a girl he was dating in a groupchat they had both been in. I am wondering if I should tell this ex of his so that he can also grieve the loss or if it isn’t my place to even tell him (a friend told me about my deceased friends passing). My friend is getting cremated and a service will be held but not telling the ex about this or the service seems kind of inconsiderate especially since they may regret a chance at getting to say goodbye and finding out through another outlet after the service may cause more harm than good.

What would you do in this situation? If you’ve dealt with something similar how would you handle it best and why?

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u/Methodical_mudduck01 — 24 days ago
▲ 2 r/GayMen

Need advice about a gay friend I have that seemingly ignored me when I needed someone to talk to?

I met him and we dated but he decided we’d be better as friends. And as friends do we vent about hardships. Another friend of mine I graduated with in highschool and met at a party hung out with played MTG with and went to a Pride Parade with has died a few days ago and as someone who is upset does I went to talk to my friend about it but he left me on read on Snapchat. I know it’s hard to console someone about something like this but leaving me on read seems wrong. Should I even continue this friendship with him if he can’t be there for me when I have major life problems? I’ve given him advice on things in his life like telling him the guy he was dating wasn’t for him and he needs to end it if he has doubts instead of leading that person on. What would you do if you had a friend that did this?

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u/Methodical_mudduck01 — 28 days ago

Can Jedi have a yellow lightsaber naturally and become a Jedi Master without needing to become a Jedi Sentinel like a Temple Guard or something and being unable to get past the Knight rank?

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u/Methodical_mudduck01 — 28 days ago
▲ 5 r/GayMen

Is it so bad to date broke men?

As a gay man I want security and stability in life. So finding someone who can get a good job just like me is something I would like but can a guy be someone I want even if they don’t want a good job like that or want to go to college? I really like this guy I’m talking to but he has no plans to go to college and even worse he is unemployed, I don’t want to be a breadwinner. It makes me sad but is it okay to date someone even if they aren’t financially sound? Or is my preference something that matters ultimately?

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u/Methodical_mudduck01 — 1 month ago
▲ 0 r/GayMen

Guy who has mutual friend with someone in my extended family liked me on Facebook dating. I’m nervous if I should accept this or not because I don’t really want my extended family to know I’m gay. Should I swipe left?

I go up north once every year for family reunion purposes and I like to date in the area because northern guys are gorgeous but this scenario has me confused because I’m out to my main family but none of my extended families and I’m trying to not be a talking point. What should I do?

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u/Methodical_mudduck01 — 1 month ago
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My mother gets really drunk in the car once a year on vacation and bashes my Veganism. What should I feel about this?

She got into and was starting a drunk rant and I asked her to stop but she refused to. She claimed she is mad I repost Vegan peoples posts on Facebook about Veganism and how our family in the rural areas can see these reposts and she claims I’m shaming them even though that’s all they have and I’m “throwing dirt in their faces”. On top of that she says people will talk and they will despise me, I will never get a job. Saying that the animals aren’t abused or neglected and that they live good lives. She said I’m deranged about this and I am insane. She claims I’ve been pushing my Veganism onto everyone but all I did today was ask what the Vegan options were at the non Vegan restaurant and if the veggies were cooked in butter people at the table had small questions about where I get my protein but nothing malicious. She then went on a rant claiming how I was shaming these people’s entire livelihoods and said she was embarrassed by me and how my Veganism causes a rift. Our family friend agreed she was in the wrong about this. Any thoughts or advice? I don’t know how existing and living my life can be threatening her peace and is considered forcing my views onto her. I’m currently ignoring her.

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u/Methodical_mudduck01 — 1 month ago
▲ 3 r/GayMen

Guy said he’d leave house at 12:30 but now it’s 1:28 with no follow up message. Should I continue the rest of my day if he hasn’t responded knowing that he said yesterday yes we will meet at 1PM tomorrow.

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u/Methodical_mudduck01 — 2 months ago

Where is The Shadowlands on Kashyyyk?

Is it in the interior of one of Kashyyyk’s 4 continents and is it lower than the surrounding forests? Or is it sort of like temperate rainforests on earth and are near coastal areas and are backed by mountains? I want to write a fan story with my ocs and they crash land on Kashyyyk in The Shadowlands so I’m curious how it all works out and the geography of The Shadowlands if any info exists about it at all.

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u/Methodical_mudduck01 — 2 months ago

Trying to find a sentient species I saw on Wookiepedia but cannot locate anymore?

This alien was a centipede like creature but wasn’t a Ruurian. This aliens picture depicted them in a ship with another member of the species and instead of being completely covered in the small legs they had 2 main legs that allowed them to stand bipedally. I think this is a legends species but I can’t be completely sure. It also isn’t on the category: insectoid species page. Any help is appreciated.

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u/Methodical_mudduck01 — 2 months ago
▲ 3 r/GayMen

Should I be concerned the guy I’m texting a lot and am fond of didn’t text or snap yesterday but did look at my snaps this morning and didn’t reply to them at all?

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u/Methodical_mudduck01 — 2 months ago
▲ 0 r/GayMen

Is it a red flag if someone’s only dating profile photo is from a year ago?

Trying to figure out if that’s toxic or just something everyone does? My photos are at most a few months old

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u/Methodical_mudduck01 — 2 months ago

Is there a way to find out the district HR contact number for my store without asking a member of management?

I’d like to avoid talking to them is there a website with this info? We used to have one on the wall by the clock out machine but not anymore

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u/Methodical_mudduck01 — 2 months ago

Is this a pattern I’ve noticed about Inquisitor hilts or just a coincidence?

I’ve noticed there’s 2 types of Inquisitor Double Bladed Spinning Lightsaber Hilts. 2 designs for example The Grand Inquisitors and Fifth Brothers Inquisitor hilts are perfectly symmetrical on both sides of the rotating disc. While 1st Brother and Seventh Sisters Inquisitor Hilts are still symmetrical but each end of the rotating disc is the opposite (I mean Seventh Sisters hilt has the opposite facing spikes on her disc mode just like 1st Brothers also has spikes). I’ve also noticed near human and human Inquisitors have the opposite ends of their discs while alien inquisitors like 9th Sister and 13th Sister have symmetrical disc designs. Is this just me overthinking or genuinely some form of indication for Inquisitor species?

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u/Methodical_mudduck01 — 2 months ago

What are the official hex codes for lightsaber colors?

In legends it says Saesee Tiin’s lightsaber is colored cobalt Huiiks is Amethyst and Qu Rahns is Gold but lightsaber colors really vary based on medias and shows. Is there a specific blue green purple yellow and red or are they random and don’t really matter? I’m drawing some ocs and I want accurate lightsaber blade colors. Any hexes would be appreciated thanks

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u/Methodical_mudduck01 — 2 months ago
▲ 2 r/GayMen

Is this unhealthy for me to fantasize about? (Mentions of SA)

I sometimes masturbate and I quit porn so I’ve been using past encounters to help me along but one sexual encounter I had with a DL man who I met at my job irked me. One time he >!put my hand on his penis when I didn’t consent to it!< I only consented to a massage of my shoulders. I sometimes fantasize about the sex (not the actual SA part) that we had but is it harmful to me mentally to fantasize about the sex? Is this something that’s healthy for me despite the man’s toxicity? Any advice helps thanks.

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u/Methodical_mudduck01 — 2 months ago