Navigating venues and concerts, and making friends as a blind person
I posted this in r/blind. But I thought I would post it here as well to get sighted peoples opinion and input on this as well.
Hey there. So I'm legally blind, but I don't have enough vision to really be usable in this type of setting. I'm 22 years old, and I still live with my mother, and we go to concerts together, and recently, last night, I went to a Searows concert. We usually go to classic rock shows, so this was quite different, and I'm pretty sure My mother was the oldest one there, lol.
This is the first time that the crowd mostly consisted of younger people, and I was hoping to make new friends at this concert, because I'm really trying to make new friends in real life, but it's extremely difficult. And whenever I'm with my mother, it's just really hard, because she can be judgmental of people's looks and everything, because she was last night, and whenever I asked her if there was anybody alone or whatever, or people I could just introduce myself to, she was like "it looks like everybody's with their friends" and then proceeded to not really help me any further.
This concert venue was standing room, with a few tables on either side. But I don't really know this place that well, and I wasn't about to just go off on my own and walking in random directions, trying to find people to talk to, although I'm not really sure if I should've just done it or not. I just didn't wanna look like an idiot.
Does anyone have any experience with this? Going to concerts alone, or with a guide, or something, and then meeting new people and making friends at that concert with strangers? I really feel like I blew it last night, because there were so many people there, but nobody really walked up to me because I was with my mother, so I'd probably looked like I wasn't available for hanging out or something.
It just gets really hard with visual cues, trying to figure out by sound alone is extremely difficult because I have no clue if people are wanting other people to just come up randomly and talk to them about the music or whatever, it's just so confusing and I need help with this.