u/Minute_Plastic_350

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Start about four days ago, where using my AirPod Pro and my Beats Pro. Problem is when I walk more than 10 feet away from my iPhone while I’m on a call at least seven people have told me they cannot hear me, at all I have rebooted my iPhone multiple times and made sure that my AirPod and beats Pro have been updated to the latest software version. It’s getting a little frustrating because I used to be able to walk about 30-35 feet away and not have any problems with other people being able to hear me. Has anyone else experienced this? If so, have they found a resolution. I would believe it’s a problem with the iPhone 15 pro after it’s latest update not necessarily the AirPods or the beats.

56M married to 52F for 14 years now. It’s been a decent run. We both brought kids into the marriage. Her daughter’s graduated, has a kid and has a live in boyfriend. My oldest is living at his mom’s house and just got his first job about four months ago and my youngest is a senior in college. Over the last year I’ve gotten more and more skeptical that my wife really is fully engaged and wants to be in this marriage, so much so that I’ve started my own separate investment accounts as well as high-yield savings account without telling her. Being this is my second marriage my alarms are flashing orange and we’ve had a lot of hard tough conversations over the last few months about her participating in upkeep at the house i.e. cleaning, i.e. laundry i.e. taking the recycling and garbage out i.e. cooking. Not to mention the finances , I do about 98% of these activities. I enjoy the peace and quiet of downtime and just relaxing after a long week, Yes I work from home five days a week, yes, she works from home two days a week. I just don’t feel any more that she’s committed to this marriage and that I constantly in my mind question her about how she spends what she spends and why she spends considering she doesn’t make a lot of money she works for a state institution and my salary is about 3.5 X of hers. I don’t really spend a lot of money on my kids I do give my oldest who’s living with his mom some money off to the side because she makes him pay for rent, utilities and food while living under her roof and my youngest I pay for his room and board as well as his food and have all throughout his college., I also put her daughter through college, let’s not bring up that her dad was absent for about the first 21 years of her life and I basically raised her as my child. I struggle every month to find different ways to communicate with to my wife that I need her to be more communicative and I need her to take more responsibility and accountability. I brought up marital therapy and she is not a fan of it at all. There is no intimacy, barely any touching at all. I’m just feel stuck and unfortunately both of us have aging mothers which adds to the stress level along with my very stressful job.

Tl;dr should I just throw in the towel, give her the house which is fully paid off and leave in an effort to find some kind of peace and happiness.

Thank you in advance for all of your feedback positive and not so positive.

setup my account along with a brokerage account on 5/19, and have nothing.. funded brokerage on 5/20 and funding still hasn't cleared and no notification if the checking account has been setup... am im being too impatient on the timing of checking account setup, fund clearing and notification that all have been approved? Brand new, not moving any assets from other brokerage houses. TIA for the feedback...

56M married 14 years to my wife 52F.. we own our house and two cars.. raised my two boys and her daughter, recently a grandfather, have well over $1M in retirement accounts. I WFH and she works hybrid.. I work for a large health ins co and she works in the Tx univ system.. on paper we have done very well. Im an early riser type A and shes def type B. shes close with her family and Im not.. we both have aging mothers and are emergency contacts, so that adds to things. We just arent clicking anymore.. it really stated 2.5 yrs ago when I got into an accident where i blew up my knee, same as Lindsey Vonn but im much older and not in as good of shape.. so my recovery has been challenging with 6 surgeries and eventually a knee replacement. since the accident things havent gone well.. lots of arguing and resentment.. i have never been the most emotionally available guy and about 6 months ago we had a big blow out where she told me that I "ruined" her plans for our lives. that hurt to say the least.. over these last 6 months or so, i have been struggling to keep it together and compartmentalize. just not sure who I am or where Im going in life.. lots more to unpack but feeling lost, like im drifting with no direction or purpose. my work has no purpose, living with a roommate, sleep in separate rooms. only thing we do together is eat dinner and go food shopping.. no intimacy (she in menopause and has a very low libido)i just have no zest for life anymore.. just feeling helpless.. not sure if its just me or do others have experience with this... i just dont know anymore... is it just me or are others experiencing this?