u/Mission_Leadership27

Can I able to report a foreign ex boyfriend?

We met on dating app, I was upfront with him to ask if he was married or not. He said no. 1 and half month of us dating, we broke up for some reason.

I got pregnant by him but I know it was so fast. I failed carrying the child, he didn't pay for the expenses that he said he will.

He borrowed my phone when we was still dating and it took him 4 months before he gave it back to me, I kept reminding him and gave me so much stressed and wasted me so much time.

• I saw on my phone while we were still together he was talking to other women already using my own phone.

• His telegram is logged in to my phone and I saw that he is married in England and has ongoing divorce. So he lied infront of my face.

• I posted him on reddit, a lot of commenters says that they know him and was also posted there before 4 months ago by his ex.

• I messaged each one of them the other one said because he didn't pay his debt he borrowed to her, and he cheated while being with her.

• He asked to delete her post and made contract that he'll pay. Same goes to other women that commented on my post about him too.

• The crazy thing is they dated from January to April, and I was also with him February. So he cheated on me too while being with her.

• I talked to one of his ex that I saw on his telegram account too she said that he is famous in Boracay for fooling around with women, and taking advantage of them.

He also threatened his ex to post their sex videos if she doesn't delete it.

Ps. His ex supposed to report him but the lawyer and estafa is expensive.

So is there a way I can report him or to get deported?

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I'm 21F. I was dealing with my pregnancy on my own. Not even one of my family members or friends knew what I was going through until today.

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My last menstruation was March 6. I took my first pregnancy test on April 4, and it turned out positive. I took another one two days later and another one a week after that. All of them were positive.

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May 29 – 12 Weeks

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At 12 weeks, I had my first check-up and got a TVS. Everything appeared normal, with no complications. Seeing the pregnancy on the screen made everything feel very real.

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June 9 – 13 Weeks and 5 Days

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I finally started the process.

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9:20 PM – I took the mife. Afterward, I experienced mild cramps.

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June 10 – 13 Weeks and 6 Days

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5:00 PM – I took 2 Advil Ibuprofen tablets (200 mg each) because I was starting to feel cramps.

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9:20 PM – I took the miso, waited for it to dissolve, and then swallowed it. I experienced normal side effects such as chills, a slight fever, and cramps. The discomfort was bearable.

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June 11

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3:19 AM – I noticed a small amount of bleeding.

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3:52 AM – I took my second dose of miso. A few minutes later, at around 4:16 AM, I felt something come out. There was a gush, and when I checked my pad, I saw a blood clot and a string-like tissue hanging from it. I continued experiencing chills and cramps.

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Around 4:31 AM, something came out again. At the time, I was wearing a menstrual diaper, and there was a large amount of fluid. Initially, I thought it was just water. I didn't check immediately because my cramps were quite intense and I could barely stand or walk.

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5:04 AM – I finally went to the bathroom to check. What I thought was water was actually a significant amount of blood.

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5:06 AM – This was when the placenta and pregnancy tissue came out.

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After that, my cramps gradually became more manageable, and I felt a sense of relief.

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Although, it still hunts me and just secretly cry everytime I remember when I buried it to my flower pot. I feel regret and guilt sometimes. But I had to do it because I don't want it to experience this chaotic world.

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Overall, my MA was successful.

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A big thank you to the girls for being my community and support system when I had no one else to turn to. Since abortion is illegal in the Philippines, it can feel very isolating to go through this experience alone.

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It was one of the hardest experiences I've ever faced. There were moments when I felt scared, uncertain, and overwhelmed. But I made it through.

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To anyone reading this, please do your own research so you don't get scammed especially from countries that has illegal abortion.

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This is me sincerely sharing what I've been through. :)