u/Mobile-Building6909

I’ve missed him for about the same time we dated now. I feel so dumb. I have no intention of getting back together with him (as I ended things) but if I let myself I cry, I can do it just like that day I broke things off with him. I don’t think I mattered to him. None of us ever reached out and broke no contact.

But I wonder if my chest will ever stop sinking at the thought of him? He was what I would consider a first love. So I have no experience in this.

Do people move on and feel indifferent? Do they learn to live with the sinking feeling? What is healing truly like. I don’t know what moving on is.

I had this dude that I liked so so much. Seriously. But he never told me his visa was expiring. And it wasn’t so much about the visa, it was the lie that deeply hurt me. I would’ve done long distance for him. To this day I don’t know why he didn’t tell me about his VISA issue, but I miss him so much even though I ended things

I broke up with him in February of this year, and we’ve been no contact since. I’ve talked to other people and gone out with others but, nothing feels like him. I don’t know why I’m missing him especially lately. I was fine on month 3.

Question is, would I look dumb if I asked us to work it out? Even though he’s the one that lied to me.

Hi guys, I know that distance-wise it makes sense to go to Japan. However; I’ve always had an interest in Italy as I’m Spanish speaking and haven’t really had the chance to go to Europe much. There’s a direct flight from Seoul to Milan, and I just don’t know. Is Italy worth it at all? I would be staying 20 days in either Japan or Italy. I’m staying in Korea over the summer, but have an extra 20 days after that. Any insights? Recs? I’ve been told Japan is huge and endless but how does it compare to Italy?

I speak:
•spanish
•english
•korean
•beginner italian
•0 japanese

25F

I started using Reddit not too long ago and I made the mistake of posting myself. Ever since then I developed body dysmorphia and it never occurred to me that I might be hideous to a lot of people. I tried to leave that behind and posted about anything else in other communities and I always get downvoted. For no apparent reason. Ever since I posted myself on here, every bad thing that happens only seems to confirm what Reddit once told me. And I know it’s stupid to base my self image on such a toxic space but it was like opening a floodgate for me. And no matter how much I rationalize the fact that people are mean, I think I internalized all of it.

A while ago I dated this lovely italian man, we've now broken up, but my love for Italian music continues.

I can listen to Achille Lauro's AMOR and Perdutamente (and maybe that entire album) non-stop.

are there other similarily devastating songs like those in italian? I'm also a big fan of Måneskin, Mahmood, and Laura Pausini