Sexual segregation and Harpagmos ritual in Ancient Crete
Now it was Ephorus of Cyme (400 - 330 BCE) who wrote these things in his Creteika, and the geographer, Strabo of Amaseia (63 - 24 CE) quotes it in Geographia (Book 10 Ch4)
We also see that very eye-catching line in Aristotle's Politics where he says the Cretan government mandated homosexual behavior in order to control overpopulation.
And, of course, in between them we have Polybius of Megalopolis (200-118 BCE), who criticized the Cretan culture and constitution in his Histories
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The young Cretan boys get snatched from their families in ritual of manhood were they live away from their mothers, sisters, and all other women in one big section of the city, whether that's Knossos or Gortyn or anywhere else. They eat together on the floor in one big cafeteria and serve the older men.
>Those who are still younger are taken to the public messes, the "Andreia"; and they sit together on the ground as they eat their food, clad in shabby garments, the same both winter and summer, and they also wait on the men as well as themselves.
- Strabo, Book 10 of Geographia
But what really is crazy that Ephorus explains is the harpagmos ritual between an older and younger man. Im trying to keep this post short. But basically a philetor has a ritual where he pursues a kleinos and if his friends are ok with it, basically the kleinos gets this sugar baby treatment by the philetor.
All these young men live together and basically have a very andro-centric life with all these other guys, they do racing, dancing, games, etc..., and then later they all get enrolled into these mandatory "mass marriages"
When they get married they still have to keep in touch with the old boys clubs and spending so much time at home with your wife is seen as a taboo. Basically if you weren't eating with the gang, you were suspected of harboring private, unpatriotic ambitions.
Can somebody elaborate more on this society?
Things pretty much come to a close in the Hellenistic era when the Romans came in and abolished these practices.