u/MsAntisocial96

I’m 30 and my almost 38 year old boyfriend just showed me a couple cluster rings that he likes for me. I politely said that those are more mature rings, the older women in my family have those.

I want something simple and up to date. It doesn’t have to be expensive, I just don’t want a cluster ring. I actually want a lab grown marquise cut but I’m not going to be picky.

He said that it’s the thought behind the ring that matters but I don’t want to be walking around with NFL/Class Ring on my finger. It just isn’t my style. He proceeded to say that he didn’t want a gold band because it’s for older people, so I feel like everyone should have the right to preferences and taking into account what their partner wants .

He said he wants a black band, so I’ll get what I know he likes and feel that he should do the same .

If he proposes with it anyone should I say something again or just be thankful?

I 30F am a single mother of 2. I reside in TEXAS. My grandparents have always been my rock, they are 74 and almost 80 now and have always said and still say that they’re leaving their house to me…

But I have this one aunt (my mom’s sister) who is very aggressive, steps on toes etc. we don’t get along and my mom isn’t the type to speak up/stand up to her. I know for a fact that she will give me problems about the house once my grandparents are gone. She already has a big nice house and has no kids. I’m the only one who’s still renting and do not own a house(that is why my grandparents have always said they want me to have it)

So with that being said, what do I need to have in place while my grandparents are still alive to sign? Please explain to me like I’m 5, I’m 30 and have never dealt with death in my family or legal stuff.

Does either one cost? If so how much? Is it a monthly fee? Or one time fee? Where do I go to file it/ get it signed ?

I’m a regular clerk with a bid and my supervisor was trying to send me out of my unit to another VERY UNORGANIZED unit.

She asked everyone and no one wanted to go so she came and chose me. When I mentioned that I had more seniority & have been with the post office 8 years she said that “we don’t go by seniority over here”.

I went over there saw what a mess it was and politely grabbed my stuff and clocked out. I put in my time as a PSE and JR clerk & other people should have to too.

My question is, is it a such thing as not going by seniority at the post office? And also will I get a write up for leaving early? I know it’ll be an awol but I’ll take it .

I don’t have a 7-day or any 14-day suspensions etc. I’m just tired and fed up. It’s bad enough that my own unit is short staffed but it’s more tolerable than the unit she was trying to send me to