u/Naive-Accountant29

So... my toxic/ abusive father lost his job... i have been in my room all day, then i just did honestly bearly anything, then he just sat on that dang sofa (all day long) and texted + called random people all day... then sinehow he was being very weird...

well his quietness is weird...

my mom was nice to him... like really nice, she expects me to be nice to her abusor? Since when was he nice? He just became nice...

How can this happen and is this good? Idk what's going on rn? Man... i feal wrong + shitty... I'll update tomorrow what's going on, if he hurts anyone im recording it + posting here + blurring our the messy background beacuse its a mess... I've been trying to clear my head and found out gaming helps, exept he was in the room w/ TV, and could not do the one thing other then art that brings me some sense of joy or purpose ig. And could not exercise... sorry if im talking to much, just... idk....

My parents neglect me emotionally so I just draw or game all day usally to avoid my emotions... what else could I do to help my life? Or parents idk anymore....

Oh yeh, my dad is on disability check thingy + goes to work + got fired for idk and dont want to ask he is explosive.... and my mom she's doing ok ig....

And no, im not emotionally ok. Sorry its long I randomly remember stuff or forget what I want to type.... sorry....

So... my toxic/ abusive father lost his job... i have been in my room all day, then i just did honestly bearly anything, then he just sat on that dang sofa (all day long) and texted + called random people all day... then sinehow he was being very weird...

well his quietness is weird...

my mom was nice to him... like really nice, she expects me to be nice to her abusor? Since when was he nice? He just became nice...

How can this happen and is this good? Idk what's going on rn? Man... i feal wrong + shitty... I'll update tomorrow what's going on, if he hurts anyone im recording it + posting here + blurring our the messy background beacuse its a mess... I've been trying to clear my head and found out gaming helps, exept he was in the room w/ TV, and could not do the one thing other then art that brings me some sense of joy or purpose ig. And could not exercise... sorry if im talking to much, just... idk....

My parents neglect me emotionally so I just draw or game all day usally to avoid my emotions... what else could I do to help my life? Or parents idk anymore....

Oh yeh, my dad is on disability check thingy + goes to work + got fired for idk and dont want to ask he is explosive.... and my mom she's doing ok ig....

And no, im not emotionally ok. Sorry its long I randomly remember stuff or forget what I want to type.... sorry....

dont know why but, this started yesterday, it looks brown/red with hair and she constantly scratches at her neck, my cat is female, spayed, and she has been avoiding me recently, thank you very much for any help!! free to comment below, if any questions for me also have a,good day!

She is a grey tabby cat, Usa

Female tabby

Name: Tórbo

I dont habe any pictures of her, I will update when I get one

She gets,bad,itches and bites herself a,lot

She has,patches of fur missing from behind her ears

I had her for a few years now, she's mid aged

Body weight 15pds

Changes,we're recent from this past year, she had many appointments in the vet from being spayed and fleas.... she keeps getting them and i dont let her outside so, unless she is escaping somehow, idk.

She has many vaccine shots, she had 2,this year

My cat is not injured, she's just scratching her fur a lot

Help me and my family...... its started to become really bad....

So i have a father who mentally abuses me and gets me mad, he maks fun of me, he harrasses me, he hurts my mom, blames my mom for everything even though its all his fault he hurt all of us.... (in my family) he gets high, drunk and cheats on mg mom, i hate what he dose, i tryed long enough being "nice" im done with him... as a,person... he dosnt do anything right... he irritates me, is aggressive, an abuser, he laughs, sickening to me, I'm tired of all of this... please any advice....

Info of me... 18, female, no I won't date anyone... I don't trust a lot anymore...

life sucks reason my "father" who mouches off my mom, degrades her , he started beling like this 4 years ago, he wants to kill my mom, he cheats on her, he hurts her, she loes saying its ok, its not ok not 1%, im sick of it, sick of all of it, my mom dosnt want to report anything to police because she fears him...

i need advice, legal advice of what I can do from home,