u/NamariFNAF05

I am so sick of this shit and I don’t know what to do. My family is constantly fighting every time I come home. My sister is so possessive of my mom, as in “if I can’t have her, no one can”, she starts a fight with me every time I come home from work, and she constantly tells me she hates me and doesn’t want me around. She acts like her life is SO MUCH HARDER than mine, and I’m not saying I’m the victim, but mine is way harder. I get judged for everything I do, I’m basically a second parent, I put up with my lazy ass coworkers who treat me like a worthless piece of shit, and come home and get treated the same way from the rest of my family. My mom is doing her best with helping out, considering she just had knee surgery on BOTH knees and can’t really do a lot, but she’s there for me and my sister, even though my sister wished she wasn’t and treats her that way for no reason. The least she can do is help me with stuff that I can’t get done while I’m at work, but all she does is lay on the couch and watches tv and calls me lazy when I get home and want to relax. My mom and sister do nothing but scream at each other all the time. My sister gets praised for doing nothing and she acts like she does everything. But when I have time to do a chore, she does it for me when I don’t ask and then later I get dogged for not doing it and get called lazy, yet I’m the one trying to support my family, pay for things we need, and trying to get a car. I get up, go to work, get treated like shit at work even though I’m the one who covers for literally everybody and never get a thank you, go home, and get treated like shit and that stays with me when I go to bed at night. Nobody will let me relax. I’m doing basically everything for my family and it’s never enough. I work 8-12 hours a day and they expect me to come home and do everything. My sister says my work is just an excuse, but it’s really a reason. She can get off her lazy ass and help me instead of watching tv all day long. But it’s never going to change and I don’t know what to do.

I am so sick of this shit and I don’t know what to do. My family is constantly fighting every time I come home. My sister is so possessive of my mom, as in “if I can’t have her, no one can”, she starts a fight with me every time I come home from work, and she constantly tells me she hates me and doesn’t want me around. She acts like her life is SO MUCH HARDER than mine, and I’m not saying I’m the victim, but mine is way harder. I get judged for everything I do, I’m basically a second parent, I put up with my lazy ass coworkers who treat me like a worthless piece of shit, and come home and get treated the same way from the rest of my family. My mom is doing her best with helping out, considering she just had knee surgery on BOTH knees and can’t really do a lot, but she’s there for me and my sister, even though my sister wished she wasn’t and treats her that way for no reason. The least she can do is help me with stuff that I can’t get done while I’m at work, but all she does is lay on the couch and watches tv and calls me lazy when I get home and want to relax. My mom and sister do nothing but scream at each other all the time. My sister gets praised for doing nothing and she acts like she does everything. But when I have time to do a chore, she does it for me when I don’t ask and then later I get dogged for not doing it and get called lazy, yet I’m the one trying to support my family, pay for things we need, and trying to get a car. I get up, go to work, get treated like shit at work even though I’m the one who covers for literally everybody and never get a thank you, go home, and get treated like shit and that stays with me when I go to bed at night. Nobody will let me relax. I’m doing basically everything for my family and it’s never enough. I work 8-12 hours a day and they expect me to come home and do everything. My sister says my work is just an excuse, but it’s really a reason. She can get off her lazy ass and help me instead of watching tv all day long. But it’s never going to change and I don’t know what to do.

I am so sick of this shit and I don’t know what to do. My family is constantly fighting every time I come home. My sister is so possessive of my mom, as in “if I can’t have her, no one can”, she starts a fight with me every time I come home from work, and she constantly tells me she hates me and doesn’t want me around. She acts like her life is SO MUCH HARDER than mine, and I’m not saying I’m the victim, but mine is way harder. I get judged for everything I do, I’m basically a second parent, I put up with my lazy ass coworkers who treat me like a worthless piece of shit, and come home and get treated the same way from the rest of my family. My mom is doing her best with helping out, considering she just had knee surgery on BOTH knees and can’t really do a lot, but she’s there for me and my sister, even though my sister wished she wasn’t and treats her that way for no reason. The least she can do is help me with stuff that I can’t get done while I’m at work, but all she does is lay on the couch and watches tv and calls me lazy when I get home and want to relax. My mom and sister do nothing but scream at each other all the time. My sister gets praised for doing nothing and she acts like she does everything. But when I have time to do a chore, she does it for me when I don’t ask and then later I get dogged for not doing it and get called lazy, yet I’m the one trying to support my family, pay for things we need, and trying to get a car. I get up, go to work, get treated like shit at work even though I’m the one who covers for literally everybody and never get a thank you, go home, and get treated like shit and that stays with me when I go to bed at night. Nobody will let me relax. I’m doing basically everything for my family and it’s never enough. I work 8-12 hours a day and they expect me to come home and do everything. My sister says my work is just an excuse, but it’s really a reason. She can get off her lazy ass and help me instead of watching tv all day long. But it’s never going to change and I don’t know what to do.

Hey, guys! I wanted to ask. I’ve tried for years to make friends and I always either get rejected or they turn out to be fake/never really wanted to be friend. What should I do? Should I just stop trying? Or should I keep trying? I really need advice.