u/NaomiMisora16

Okay guys, so there is movement between me and my SP, I’ve got a great mental diet and I do affirm, so tbh in my manifesting journey everything is great however there is one problem I’m facing.

I know SP and I are on a path where he commits to me, I also know he’s going to ask me to be his girlfriend soon and going to apologise for his douchebag behaviour too.

But while we are on this journey, i want him to take efforts, i want him to call me, text me more, obsess over me and give me the chase.

But for some reason that hasn’t happened in the 3D yet. And i think where my fault comes into play is, I get a bit logical.

SP has faced some problems recently which include:

1. His mum had a heartattack recently and now she’s recovering at home, so he does all the household tasks etc which take up a lot of his time.

2. And also his favourite game dropped recently. Well this one is not a problem but he also has a lot of other problems.

I always assume and think that “poor guy must have worked hard a lot and so he spends time playing his game”

I’m a very logical person and ig this could be the one thing dragging me, other wise all seems good on my end.

So I need help with this, cuz I know I deserve the chase and I want him to put effort and communication towards me.

What the title says!

Drop your top SP manifesting tips and I’ll test them out, I’m feeling super confident in my manifestation, and really wanna have a bit of fun with it!

Hey folks,

So I’m a 20 (almost 21) y/o girl in tech, well woman lol. I’ve been thinking of some stuff which makes me feel like something is wrong with me, I don’t know if this is just me or it’s all women in general who really work hard, so please bear with me on this.

1. No friends really

Well I’ve always been the top scorer, smartest in the room kinda girl and my public speaking ability makes me more socially attractive ig, I’m also very outgoing. I haven’t had any friendships since I ended high school, well the reason is I used to have this group of girls who I literally blocked and cut off because they were all selfish, back stabbers and didn’t really value me, in uni i noticed most girls around me never really did their work, like code, build projects, or work on their career. Most of their time goes in gossiping, going out and obsessing over boys. So even at uni I dont have any loop friends really, I do have a 1-2 people I could call friends but they dont get me fully + our schedules don’t match. So I always crave having a small group of female friends and more friends in general maybe.

2. Addiction to work?

I honestly cannot find anything much to do besides code, do my daily chores sure I relax with YouTube, Music and Netflix but what I’m wondering is, I try to do so many things at once and so, I’m wondering are all women in tech like this or is it a me thing? I don’t get time to go out really, I do go on a few solo dates at cafés where I still end up working on smth on my laptop lol, but yeah is this just me? Work mostly and barely going out, in my case there’s no one to go with either

3. Complicated dating life?

Ladies be honest, do we all have this up and down of a dating life in our 20s or is this again a me thing

4. Conclusion

These few things make me wonder if I should sort of work less and do more social stuff but again I’m a very nerdy person and I wouldn’t like failing anything I wanted to achieve, and I’m also trying to expand my tech stack as much as I can. But really, is this work mode scenario during our undergrad, smth that happens to all of us? I notice girls my age post so much on Instagram too. That’s another thing I wonder a lot about, cuz I’m always working almost, people wouldn’t like it much, so please tell me what you think?

Also I’ve really looked for friends and talked to lots of guys and girls but really people just want to do everything except work, sooooo yeah….

Help me please!!

Hey y’all so i like this guy, well we’re in different countries, met online, used to date, it’s complicated now but yeah.

He’s at a point in life, where all is messed up for him

- Divorced parents
- Sick mum who has a fear of hospitals
- he apparently has to work/do lots of chores
- hasnt able to start uni because of his mum’s sickness and has no concrete idea what he wants to study

- also he’s 21, turning 22 this year

His mum had a minor heart attack and is in the hospital this week as we speak, he isn’t spending a lot of time at the hospital afaik but since his mom isn’t at home, he has a lot of free time and he’s gaming a lot because Destiny 2 his fav game had a drop.

Now I enjoy gaming, i used to game well but I realised how bad it can be unless you’re really limiting yourself.
He also has no good hobbies or things like working out, he’s a bit into this cyberpunk and nerdcore music, into the game HADES and he enjoys fashion

But you see he’s in this area of life where he needs to work hard, build skills and also soon enough try to make money.

I really care for him, and I want to know what’s the way out here.

What the title says, I’m positively raging at this man. My mental diet is great so ik he’s gonna come crawling back, and I know no matter what I do my manifesting is gonna come true!!

But i dont wanna lose all the progress I’m making through anger, so any rage manifestation tips?

Hey guys! So I’ll keep it simple, I’m a Computer Science Major, and I want to come to Hamburg to intern for maybe a minimum of three months, the why is a bit of a personal, so i don’t wanna talk about that here, nothing bad just smth i wanna keep off Reddit haha.

First thing I’m not a German, I’m Asian, I have given my A1, currently prepping for A2 and then B1. Can y’all please drop a list of good tech companies that are in Hamburg? I’m okay with startups too but not something that’s still in the very early developmental state. Please drop your lists/recommendations below!

Thank you :))

Hey y’all

I am not new to manifesting at all. Infact I have manifested my SP before.

We had a rough patch in March 2025, fights kept happening, no contact from May 2025 to September 2025 and that’s when I manifested him! There was even a third party situation.

Now Again 8 months later, he’s blocked me on everywhere. Why?

He said a lot of things some even saying that he doesn’t feel for me, which is something i absolutely reject.

So now what’s been going on with SP is,

He’s 21, will be 22 soon and he’s not been able to start college yet.
He lives with his mother, parents are divorced and he doesn’t have a good relationship with his dad.
Money is tight right now for him.
On top of it his mother has a variety of health issues and a fear of hospitals, so she hasn’t gotten anything treated yet. Which leads to all house work coming to my SP, as she can’t move around a lot.

He has had a lot of arguments with her in the last few days and that has led to his low self esteem and him pushing me away

He also said a lot of negative things about himself too.

And the biggest of all is we are long distance. Different countries.

Now I am pretty anxious and the reason for that is:

I recently lost my dad, wasn’t close to him but yeah everything sucks.
I don’t have any friends in life atm, most my friends are online friends.

So I really have no one to vent and share to.

So please help me get started, I know the drill I just need a good push from the community.

And if any of you wanna be friends, I’d appreciate it a lot. Hmu in the comments or DMs. I really need your support.

Hey everyone!

So I’m F20 and I’m from India. Germany has been somewhere I’ve always wanted to move to for a variety of reasons that include:

1. Career
2. Lifestyle (I think I’ll find it better than Indian life)
3. Somewhere I get to be me
4. Got someone close there and that possibly might end up being the love of my life.

The 4th reason may make everyone reading this post think, that’s primary reason. Love is not my main reason but I believe love is something worth working hard for and so it boosts me to work harder in my career and life.

I’ve been doing pretty well in my undergrad here, and I want to plan ahead now.

So here’s what I want from y’all!

1. Is Germany good for Computer Science? I’m a CS major and I intend to do my masters from Germany

2. What are some of the well paying companies in Germany for CS majors?

3. Are there any good universities in Hamburg to pursue a masters degree from?

4. What are some things apart from learning German you’d recommend for someone like me?

5. Also, how is the cost of living etc in cities like Munich, Berlin and Hamburg? Is the life very expensive?

Lastly I’d appreciate any advice anyone could offer!! Even if it doesn’t fit in those 5 questions