u/NarcHealingWithGod

I have no idea who this is, but every single lyric is exactly where I'm at.

Thinking I'm not alone in this valley and maybe this will touch you as it did me.

Full song on Spotify and lyrics 👇

Lyrics

God, can You hear me?

I know You know my voice

But the room stays quiet

And I'm scared that silence is Your choice

God, can You hear me? I've been speaking through the ceiling

Trying to separate my faith from everything I'm feeling

They say You're near the broken, well, I'm shattered into pieces

So why do I feel further every time I call on Jesus?

I'm exhausted from pretending, I'm okay because I'm praying

Like believing means I never get to question what You're saying

I've been waiting for an answer, I've been searching for a sign

But the only voice responding is this damaged one of mine

And I hate that I'm afraid to tell You that I'm disappointed

Like my honesty could somehow make me less of Your anointed

But You knew me in the womb, You know the war inside my head

So You already heard the words I was too terrified to say

I said, "God, where were You when everything collapsed?

Where were You when I was begging You to give me someone back?

Where were You when every promise felt like salt inside the wound?

I kept staring at the doorway, but You never entered through"

God, can You hear me?

I've been calling through the pain

I've been trying to hold my faith

While my faith is losing strength

God, can You hear me?

I don't need the sky to move

I just need a little something

That reminds me You are You

God, can You hear me? Because I cannot hear You now

And I'm trying not to confuse your silence with you walking out

God, can You hear me? I have nothing left to prove

I'm still here, I'm barely breathing, but I'm reaching out to You, mm

Then I thought about the garden, Jesus sweating blood alone

Asking for another way, why Heaven wouldn't change the road

So maybe feeling abandoned doesn't mean that I'm abandoned

Maybe faith is still obeying when I cannot understand it

Maybe silence isn't absence, maybe quiet isn't cruel

Maybe You are doing something I'm too wounded now to view

Maybe every prayer I whispered when I thought You weren't around

Was a seed beneath the surface putting roots into the ground

I still don't have the answers, I still hate the way this hurts

I still cannot see the end and I still wrestle with Your word

But I'd rather scream my questions with my face turned up to You

Than find comfort in a lie because I'm scared to face the truth

So here I am, no filter, no religion, no disguise

Just a tired soul with tears collecting underneath my eyes

I don't know how to praise You, I don't know what I believe

But if all I have is "help me", let that prayer be enough for me

God, You can hear me

Even when You do not speak

Even when my voice is shaking

Even when my faith is weak

God, You can hear me

Every word and every tear

Maybe I was never lonely

Maybe grief just made it hard to feel You near

God, You can hear me

So I'll call until I'm through

Not because I have the answers

But because I still have You

God, You can hear me

Tonight that has to be

Enough to keep my heart from breaking

Enough to keep me on my knees

God, can You hear me?

I'm still here

God, can You hear me?

I'm still yours

Even when I cannot hear You

I'm still calling

I'm still calling

I'm still calling

I have included the definitions for Cognitive Dissonance and Disassociation below 👇

Speaking for myself, my symptoms from the abuse were primarily cognitive dissonance and disassociation. I was constantly trying to figure out what was real and what isn't.

Although I believe I've come a long way due to extensive trauma-related therapies and faith-based inner healing these past couple years.. the past four weeks have been absolutely brutal. I found myself questioning my reality all over again.

Gratefully, I'm finding strength somehow by relying on God and using my tools. I feel the fog is beginning to lift and I'm getting my footing again as I slowly walk out of this cave.

If you are struggling to differentiate between what's real and what isn't, constantly questioning what you believe or feeling detached from yourself and emotions....you are NOT alone.

God wants us to be healed and experience His peace, though we cannot heal from this without Him, without treatment and in isolation.

I'm praying today for all of you here that God will restore your peace and heal your confusion as He leads you in your healing journey.

In Him,

Mod

Cognitive Dissonance is an intellectual/emotional tension. It occurs when you hold two contradictory beliefs, values, or ideas at the same time—or when your behavior contradicts your beliefs. To reduce this uncomfortable friction, your brain typically rationalizes, adjusts its beliefs, or changes behavior.

Dissociation is a protective disconnect from reality or self. It is a mental process where a person disconnects from their thoughts, feelings, memories, identity, or surroundings, often as an automatic coping mechanism in response to trauma, severe stress, or overwhelm.

This is REAL. You are not crazy and you are not alone. You can't heal from this on your own. There is treatment.

Disclaimer- I did not create this video.

1 Peter 5:10-11

Psalm 139: 11-12 (Interlinear English/Greek/Hebrew)

Psalm 103: 10-12 Interlinear Greek/Hebrew translation

I've been noticing many of us on this sub appear to have a strong connection between narcissistic abuse and involvement in spiritually abusive communities.

The confusion and self-doubt experienced in these communities often mirrors what we experienced (or currently experiencing) in the narcissistic abusive relationship.

Your pain is real.

Your questions are real.

Those sickening feelings you experience in your gut are real.

As God heals your nervous system, it will become easier to see how He is guiding you.

If you are being told to conform, that your questions are not valid, that your trauma isn't that big of a deal or you are somehow lacking faith, that is NOT the voice of God.

God came to give us life and freedom in our spirits. He knows your heart is broken and wants to heal you. He is not asking you to do anything that doesn't give life to you.

Your questions, confusion and anger all matter to Him. He can handle your honesty and wants you to be authentic with Him.

I am praying this morning that God will meet us all exactly where we are at...with all our wounds and brokenness..and help us grasp just how meaningful we are to Him.

He has inscribed you on the palm of His hands (Isaiah 49:16)

In Him,

Mod