u/Neither_Phase_5775

im just a one hell of a burned our daughter/tita/girlfriend and a leader.

I have to be the proactive one, to be the one who thinks ahead and direct them of what to execute and make sure they execute it well.

i have to be the one who buys the medicines, the chaperone on the college entrance exams, makes the doctors appointments and go with them, research for college scholarships, drives to ER, makes countless follow ups, plans the dates/where to go, initiate the hard conversations- all with little to no help.

im so tired of this life, with these responsibilities. i want to completely checkout from this life, if I cant even escape all these.

im just a one hell of a burned our daughter/tita/girlfriend and a leader.

I have to be the proactive one, to be the one who thinks ahead and direct them of what to execute and make sure they execute it well.

i have to be the one who buys the medicines, the chaperone on the college entrance exams, makes the doctors appointments and go with them, research for college scholarships, drives to ER, makes countless follow ups, plans the dates/where to go, initiate the hard conversations- all with little to no help.

im so tired of this life, with these responsibilities. i want to completely checkout from this life, if I cant even escape all these.

problem/goal: Cousins want to re-divide family land na walang existing sub divided titles

context:

I’m the youngest granddaughter. My late lolo owned a 350 sqm lot with 3 heirs (my dad and his 2 sisters). Long ago, verbally napagkasunduan na sa dad ko mapupunta yung largest portion at yung bahay, and his sisters agreed. While the extension of the house sa kanila mapupunta. May wall dividing portion each. Pero there’s no written contract, verbal lang.

What we have right now is the mother title lang, divided by 4 lots, 36% of that was given to my father by my lolo, while his sisters got 19% each. The remaining 24% is for the right of way ng compound namin.

Fast forward to today, patay na silang lahat. Now, my cousins (sons of my late aunts) are convincing my mom to remeasure and subdivide the land equally. Bale massakop yung portion ng bahay namin kung hahatiin nang pantay. Dito na kami sa ancestral lot lumaki and paid our RPTs from the existing lot divisions. They already hired a geodetic engineer para magpasukat, pero di ako pumayag. They responded emotionally, bringing up past hurts and how unfair the whole thing was, na kesyo tinakot lang daw noon ng dad ko ung moms nila, etc. now lang sila nagreklamo nung patay na lahat ng original heirs.

I already inquired on a legal firm to get this moving. I just want to ask if may laban ba kami or May similar case ba here?

I’m the youngest granddaughter. My late lolo owned a 350 sqm lot with 3 heirs (my dad and his 2 sisters). Long ago, verbally napagkasunduan na sa dad ko mapupunta yung largest portion at yung bahay, and his sisters agreed. While the extension of the house sa kanila mapupunta. May wall dividing portion each. Pero there’s no written contract, verbal lang.

What we have right now is the mother title lang, divided by 4 lots, 36% of that was given to my father by my lolo, while his sisters got 19% each. The remaining 24% is for the right of way ng compound namin.

Fast forward to today, patay na silang lahat. Now, my cousins (sons of my late aunts) are convincing my mom to remeasure and subdivide the land equally. Bale massakop yung portion ng bahay namin kung hahatiin nang pantay. Dito na kami sa ancestral lot lumaki and paid our RPTs from the existing lot divisions. They already hired a geodetic engineer para magpasukat, pero di ako pumayag. They responded emotionally, bringing up past hurts and how unfair the whole thing was, na kesyo tinakot lang daw noon ng dad ko ung moms nila, etc. now lang sila nagreklamo nung patay na lahat ng original heirs.

I already inquired on a legal firm to get this moving. I just want to ask if may laban ba kami or May similar case ba here?