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Hey guys,

Just placed in an game for delivery not too long ago but due to the arrival date, I might cancel it just because of me needing the game before the arrival date due to achievements that will become available after August 30th.

So just had a few questions:

Is there a way to cancel deliveries? Do I just fill out the query form about my order in the email?

Is there an cost to cancel it?

Can I cancel it 1 day before delivery and have no consequences + a full refund?

Thanks in advance guys!

Hey guys,

This is gonna be a short rant but basically for some context I'm a new grad in ED.

One thing that I've noticed is that whenever me and my partner (always a couple years senior than me) are getting handover from other nurses or the doctors asking us for something/updating us on the plan, they always speak directly to my partner and sort of ?unintentionally sideline me.

They are always looking at my partner, always directing all information to them and joking around with them even though I'm next to them. I'm fine with the handover part, since most of those nurses I get along with just fine and I think that they are just telling the senior nurse so that they can't retain all that information however when it comes to the doctors, sometimes it can be a bit of a different story.

Taking my last shift into example. One of our patients walked out without telling us to go somewhere and I was the one who tracked him down and convinced him to come back, I bring him back and the doctor looks at my partner (when I know damn well he saw me bring him back) and says "oh he's back, thanks for that" and I'm thinking like bro come on. After that doctor is done with the patient he comes straight to my partner and updates them of the plan and thanks them once again. Another doctor was speaking to me and updating me of the plan and what we desperately need for a patient, my partner comes and they direct all their attention to them and update them instead of me and thanks my partner for trying to get a urine sample before when it was ME that tried to get it. I spent 30 minutes after the patient had an accident to clean her up, slowly mobilise her out of bed and to the bathroom and get a sample but it's not me that gets the thanks?

However, I really did enjoy working with my partner that shift, I don't mind her getting all the attention, she was very fun. I also don't do nursing for the thanks, I don't do it for the recognition but sometimes, especially from other team members, it feels good to hear a thanks after the garbage that you experience during a shift.

Hey guys,

I know the servers of Blacklist shut-down in 2022 however people are saying that the office of the day trophy for completing a daily challenge is still available and I was wondering if that was true. It is the only online trophy I need for the game and I see some people still getting it this year on PlayStation so I was wondering if it's still possible?

I got all the multiplayer trophies back in 2023 so it seems that the servers were still online at that time but I can't seem to see any daily challenges unfortunately.

Thank you!

Hey guys,

I'm a new grad in ED and I've been there for 2 months however I still struggle with handover. It is embarrassing to say.

In my previous rotation, I was in a ward and I was pretty good at handover, I knew the entire plan for all of my patients, I knew them really well and I was pretty on top of it. Granted, the ward I was in was geriatrics and the MO's didn't do a whole lot for the patients plans beside wait for RACF. However in ED, where we don't have handover sheets with every patient details and with the amount of things we do for each patient during our shift, I find it extremely difficult to remember everything I've done. Sometimes after handover I'm like "oh no, I forgot to mention this". Meanwhile, all the other nurses speak of the patients and their plans like they've known them for years and I'm like how? Even the other new grads with me are really good at handover but I'm just garbage.

I do use the notepads on the computer to write everything down and use that for handover but I still do need to improve and I also kinda want to be like the nurses that can just spill information like it's nothing. From what I've realised, I go under pressure during handover and I stumble on my own words and then start to forget.

So, my question is, do you guys have tips or a format I can follow (of course beside ISBAR) that would help me to improve and remember? It would be much appreciated!

Can someone please tell me the best dua I can do for my parents?

Every night I dua for Allah (SWT) to bless them infinitely. My parents are the absolute best human beings. They have sacrificed, supported and asked nothing in return from us. Me and my siblings try to do our best for them but I feel like it's never enough. I want my parents to get the highest heaven, I want them to get heaven before even I do. I want them to be forgiven of any of their sins.

What is the best dua, what is the best deed I can do for them?

Since we are in Muharram, I will use the tragedy of Karbala as an example to explain what I mean.

This year, I have read some things about the events of Karbala that I haven't heard of yet. It came to me sort of as a shock but more so as a wave of confusion since I wasn't sure if I should believe it or not so I just left it as a maybe.

I'll mention a couple of the things that I have read.

1. Imam Hussain's (AS) severed head reciting Quran.

2. The Jinn talking with Imam Hussain (AS) about helping him during battle.

3. The sky opening up and the companions of Imam Hussain (AS) seeing Heaven.

There are a few more but these are ones that I can instantly remember.

My main question is, are these actually genuinely true, or are they added to make the events more emotional?

Taking the first point as an example, I completely understand that the Masumeen (PBUT) are extremely special people and they do have miracles of their own however, I'm surprised to hear that a person who has been decapitated, with severed vocal cords, is reciting Quran. I'm not saying it's not true, but I just find it very surprising.

Overall, can someone just explain these things to me and if they are true. I just feel that every Muharram I see a new thing added to the day of Ashura and I'm just not sure if it's true or for shock factor. I just want the authentic recollection. Sorry if my questions are possibly considered rude or inconsiderate, that is not my intention.

The masjid.

My "local" (it's 30 mins away) masjid that my families have been going to for decades is somewhere that I'm starting not to enjoy as much the more I get older.

There are multiple reasons for this.

1. They speak in a different dialect of Dari/Farsi that I can only make a few words out from therefore I cannot connect with the words that they are saying.

2. The mic quality and the echo effect is terrible, it just sounds distorted to the point that sometimes it's unintelligible and then there is loud crying into the mic that just results in feedback from the speakers sometimes.

3. It gets very loud and crazy during chest beating.

4. It's small and it cannot hold a lot of people even though 500 people come there during Ashura.

I'll try and explain all the reasons in one paragraph.

I'm someone who loves very intimate sessions of something I am personal about. During Ashura, I love to listen to the stories of the events that happened, the tragedies and calamities that unfolded. That is what gets me to feel, to connect. I want poems recited in a calm manner, where you sit in the darkness of the masjid and imagine what you are hearing. I absolutely love that, it makes me feel so close with the Imam (AS).

I never enjoyed not understanding a language, paired with a low quality mic, loud wailing, screaming. I personally don't like the loud chest beating sessions, never resonated with me, that's why I never partook in it beside light chest tapping. Now, don't get me wrong, I am all for people connecting the way that they want to connect, I am more than happy for the people in my masjid to do whatever they want and there is nothing wrong with what they do.

It's just, it just doesn't resonate with me. I feel like a traitor to my masjid but I almost don't want to go anymore. I wish there was a Shia masjid near me that this everything that I wanted but there is none that I know of. I think I'm just a bad Muslim maybe.

This might be a very stupid question coming from someone my age but I just needed to ask this.

Why can nothing compare to Karbala?

As the Masumeen (PBUT) have said many times: "There is no day like your day Ya Aba Abdullah".

Now, is the tragedy of Karbala unable to compared to any other tragedy based on the quality or the quality aspect? By that, I mean the AMOUNT of holy people killed during that day or THE holy people killed on that day?

I see a lot of people speaking about the World Wars, the recent genocide in Gaza and so on but everyone says do not dare compare it to Karbala and that's something I get confused about and so I'm hoping I can get my confused rectified.

Some people also mention that the killing of Imam Ali (AS) or the imprisonment and poisoning of other Imams (AS) is also a terrible tragedy and the hardship that they went through, but still nothing can compare.

I want to say I understand Karbala and the impact of it but perhaps I don't since I'm making this post. Hopefully this post doesn't strike anyone the wrong way, I mean everything in total respect of Imam Hussain (AS) and his family.

Hey guys,

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I'm trying to get all the trophies in JC3 and I need someone to call me out on a feat. If anyone is able to, can you please comment your PSN name below. I'm more than happy to call you out as well!

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I'm on PlayStation only, sorry.

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Thanks guys!

It's currently Eid Al-Ghadeer for me and it sucks because of course I'm at work the whole day and now I'm gonna miss out on all the worship and aamal I could've done. Is there anything I can do to make up for it or can I do aamal after Eid? This sucks!

I'm currently typing this while on break.

To keep it short, I'm a new grad and today is my first day on the floor alone in ED. ED is a place that I always wanted to be because of how fast it was and just doing a lot for a patient made me feel good. We had 2 days of supernumerary, I was put in acute and subacute and today I'm in a completely different area, somewhere that I haven't been to. I'm so lost. I feel like I know nothing. The problem I'm having is I've been put into an area, I know barely anything about the patients beside the quick 30 second handover and now I'm expected to take on 3 patients, do documentation that I've barely done before and get used to a system I've never worked with. I hate to be a liability to the team, my biggest fear but today I am that. I've lost all my skills, I'm blanking, I'm stuttering. I feel like an actual failure here. Even the nurses said this a difficult area for my first day. I feel like a little kid in their first day of Kindergarten that just wants to go home to their mum haha!

I killed it in my last ward, my NUM, my colleagues praised me, the patients loved me and so I thought I was ready for ED but it has actually crushed me. I don't know if I can do this for another 4 months.

But, I told myself that I'm going crush ED and not let it get the best of me and I'm going to stick to that. I'm going back in 15 minutes and I'm going to try my best.

Thank you for listening to my mind! I would appreciate any and all advice.

Hey guys,

I'm renewing my APHRA registration and as you know one of the question is if I'm covered by PII.

My question is, are RN's in NSW automatically covered by PII from their employer, especially in public facilities? That's what I've read from the NSWNMA union website.

I'm currently not covered by a union, does that mean I can't practice? Or can I since I'm covered by my employer?

Hey guys,

Does anyone know how to sort/filter your library of games? As in, can you separate the actual games you bought from the games you claimed on PS Plus? It's getting really annoying and I wanna sort it out since I need to find which games I've finished, still have in progress or haven't even started. I totally forgot I own some games until looking at my library.

Thank you in advance!