u/Nervous_Term_2974

Is reaching out to a FA a good idea? Me 24M her 19F

Hello everyone, I'm currently in the dating phase with someone (5 dates in). Her texting style is always slow but energetic when she answers, and IRL she's very attentive.

Our last date was a dog walking date, and she even agreed to meet one of my family members. She thanked me afterward and said she had a great time. Since then, her texting has dropped off (ghost 2 texts). I asked her on IG DM if she wanted to go to a cafe; she said she can't this weekend, but later that day she still replied to my story.

What are the best next steps here? I want to keep things light and low-pressure, so I'm looking for advice on how to handle the communication over the next week.

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u/Nervous_Term_2974 — 20 hours ago

Is reaching out to a FA a good idea?

Hello everyone, we've been on our 5th dates, her texting style is always slow but energetic when she answer, but IRL she's very attentive. So last date was a dog walking date and she agrees to meet one of my family member. She even thanked me when the date is over saying that she had a great time. but after that she just went ghost. I asked her on IG DM if she wanted to go to this cafe, she said she can't this weekend, but later that day she still replied to my story. What to do now? should i break no contact? or shes just not interested in the first place? FYI we're still on dating phase

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u/Nervous_Term_2974 — 21 hours ago

Is reaching out to a fearful avoidant a good idea?

Hello everyone, we've been on our 5th dates, her texting style is always slow but energetic when she answer, but IRL she's very attentive. So last date was a dog walking date and she agrees to meet one of my family member. She even thanked me when the date is over saying that she had a great time. but after that she just went ghost. I asked her on IG DM if she wanted to go to this cafe, she said she can't this weekend, but later that day she still replied to my story. What to do now? should i break no contact? or shes just not interested in the first place? FYI we're still on dating phase

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u/Nervous_Term_2974 — 21 hours ago

Is reaching out to a FA a good idea?

Hello everyone, we've been on our 5th dates, her texting style is always slow but energetic when she answer, but IRL she's very attentive. So last date was a dog walking date and she agrees to meet one of my family member. She even thanked me when the date is over saying that she had a great time. but after that she just went ghost. I asked her on IG DM if she wanted to go to this cafe, she said she can't this weekend, but later that day she still replied to my story. What to do now? should i break no contact? or shes just not interested in the first place? FYI we're still on dating phase

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u/Nervous_Term_2974 — 21 hours ago
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Is reaching out to a fearful avoidant a good idea?

Hello everyone, we've been on our 5th dates, her texting style is always slow but energetic when she answer, but IRL she's very attentive. So last date was a dog walking date and she agrees to meet one of my family member. She even thanked me when the date is over saying that she had a great time. but after that she just went ghost. I asked her on IG DM if she wanted to go to this cafe, she said she can't this weekend, but later that day she still replied to my story. What to do now? should i break no contact? or shes just not interested in the first place? FYI we're still on dating phase

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u/Nervous_Term_2974 — 21 hours ago