8x3 Challenge... 😳

https://reddit.com/link/1unk65o/video/e5frvg4g1abh1/player

TW 🔫🩸

I have been trying my best to meet this challenge since the day it was posted....and I suck at building! I have a hard enough time with "regular" sized houses, but everyone posting their awesome 8x3 Challenge builds gave me so much hope! Well, that hope is gone and I have accepted that I cannot do it - so instead, I present to you...

"Down and Out by the Castle Wall" 😇

That's it, that's all I got. I leave here with my deep admiration for all those who came before me and absolutely slayed this challenge and many thanks to u/ParalivesEmmy for this awesome challenge! 💕

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u/NewInitiative9498 — 1 day ago

This is no ordinary green bean…

Well not to me anyway. Let me try and briefly explain…

I spent decades being afraid to live alone. Not for the reasons you would think…I was afraid to live alone because who would fix a broken pipe, a broken appliance, mend a fence or fix a car problem? Who would kill a spider or worse, remove a mouse or other creature not permitted to be inside?

I would convince myself that I didn’t really have enough income to live by myself, which wasn’t true, I just didn’t want to find myself alone and in need of someone to “take care” of issues I thought I couldn’t take care of myself.

Then one day, I woke up. Like fully, seriously woke up. I have the icome to live alone, I just needed to learn to live within my means. Period.

So this green bean plant, is the first time in my 55 years of life, that I planted something all by myself…no one there to dig the garden (I didn’t dig because I am renting 🤭), lift the heavy bags of soil, pull the weeds, run the tiller, decide what will be planted and when and where etc etc. I went to the store and bought the supplies, set them up, planted the seeds, took care of everything…I water it, I watch it, me….ALL ME!

I know to someone who doesn’t live alone this seems trivial, but for the first time since I moved out on my own (3 years ago) I am realizing, I CAN do it! ALL ALONE! 🏆💕

u/NewInitiative9498 — 19 days ago

Maple syrup, yes please! 😊

https://preview.redd.it/q2nx2m85fu7h1.png?width=1204&format=png&auto=webp&s=5c99f46c06a333ddd50c729be08a3ec302546e97

Sadly, nothing happens when I click harvest, but has this worked for anyone? I just happened upon this when I sent my Para to collect a crystal, I hovered over the tree just because it was close to the crystal, I noticed it had an "outline" to it so I clicked it and got this option. I can't wait for this to be functional 💜

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u/NewInitiative9498 — 19 days ago

When will I STOP being blown away?!?

https://reddit.com/link/1tzcfbf/video/geqvjvd95v5h1/player

In Sims 4 I was always so mad there was nothing I could do about the steps showing through the wall, I would spend forever finding ways to try and cover them as best I could. YA'LL! Just increase the wall thickness and problem solved! I used to spend hours in build mode in Sims 4 trying to get around road blocks, now I spend hours in Paralives because there is so many customizations that I can't decide! 💜

P.S. never mind the mish mash of colors and textures I have going on, it takes me a long time to settle on something so it's a free for all while I decide 😂

P.P.S I am always late the party so if this is old news whoops!

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u/NewInitiative9498 — 29 days ago
▲ 675 r/1970s

I used to think I was so cool 🫪

I had these and weirdly my parents kept them at my grandparents house, now I know why LOL I used to love clomping around on these, and today I learned they were actually for coordination and balance 🤣

u/NewInitiative9498 — 1 month ago
▲ 440 r/antitrump

What has trump taken from you?

I’ll go first…

TLDR: I lost a husband and a mother and a sister

My divorce was final July 2025…things were never the same after I found out my now ex husband voted for trump in 2016…nothing ever pointed to him supporting this kind of behavior…lesson learned: always have the conversation of political leanings before you marry someone even if you think you know them.

My mother went full maga in 2016…and it’s even more ironic for me because she is the reason, in a mostly conservative family, that I am liberal/independent/libetarian in my beliefs—she’s the classic 60s/70s flower child hippie. She was a surgical RN and went to other countries frequently with Doctors Without Borders, she spent her time befriending others down on their luck and sympathizing with those downtrodden by the man…I grew up watching this and that shaped who I am today. I still can’t wrap my head around why she would go full blown maga…we haven’t talked in about 3-4 years now.

My sister…she doesn’t come straight out and openly support trump when we talk, but she does when her and my mother talk etc…she is maga but tries to hide it from me, but still, we don’t talk much these days. I have no other siblings, it was just the two of us.

The most ironic twist in all of this…my dad voted from trump in 2016 because he’s a Republican and was simply not going to ever vote outside of party lines. He gave him a chance, and we all know how that turned out. He openly speaks out against trump and maga and is now a Republican without a home basically. Also, my parents have been divorced over 40 years now so this isn’t happening in the same house.

What or who has trump/maga taken from you?

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u/NewInitiative9498 — 1 month ago
▲ 225 r/torties

Pippa pooped on the couch! 🫪

My tortie Pippa pooped on the couch two days in a row…if popular opinion is that she has a medical issue I have no problem getting her in right away to be checked, BUT please hear me out, because I am also wondering if she’s punishing me…

The ONLY thing different in her life, is that Saturday and Sunday (today) morning I slept in and she didn’t get her morning wet food at 4AM! THE ONLY THING!

The litter box is clean, and is scooped the minute she uses it (I work from home and I am always home pretty much). There are no obstructions to her getting to the litter box…she is the only cat and always has been…her food hasn’t changed…she is peeing in the litter box…she has dry food down and it’s full 24/7 so she can eat whenever she wants, no starving cat here!

So, yesterday morning I slept in, I got up about 5am and as I am getting up I smell her poop, it stinks as usual…so I immediately go to the litter box to scoop it, only it’s not there, great…I immediately hunt it down, and it’s on the couch, in my spot! She literally pooped in my spot….it’s just me and her and I sit on the same side of the couch every time. So, that’s where she left it…and she did it just as I was getting up, so I immediately thought it was strange.

This morning….same thing! I slept in again…she pooped in my spot on the couch again 😭

The reason I think it’s punishment is because she made it a point to poop in my spot on the couch again…not on the floor somewhere…yes, I know to clean it using enzymes so she won’t go there again but I need to get out to the store today to deal with that, otherwise I sanitized the area with disinfectant that I have on hand. I also found out about the cat attract or whatever it’s called you put in the litter box to make sure they use it, which I’m happy to buy if I have to, but still….am I literally being punished for sleeping in?

Our normal routine…I wake up at 4am and start work at 5…I feed her wet food when I get up and twice more in the day (brekkie lunch and dinner basically).

Am I literally never allowed to sleep in again?

u/NewInitiative9498 — 1 month ago

Anyone else using fast food containers?

I thought these would make perfect seedling starters, complete with their own transparent lid. And yes, I washed them thoroughly 😇

One is from pancakes and one is from a rotisserie chicken.

Has this worked for anyone? I’m hoping it will work…happy gardening 🌱💚

u/NewInitiative9498 — 1 month ago
▲ 13 r/Sims4

left vs right handed...

https://reddit.com/link/1tbdr9a/video/w59nizw4mr0h1/player

So, this whole time I thought I was lucky when one of my Sims turned out to be a lefty - cuz I'm a lefty and it's so "rare"...anyway, I discovered she was a lefty when she was studying a plant and was taking notes left handed (I started her life as a YA so no school was in play).

Fast forward to many Sims years later, and I am playing a family with triplets - so one day I follow them to school, and all the seats are full so they stand, and proceed to take notes...left handed.

I was confused because when they do their homework it is right handed. So, the experiment ensued, and as you can see...apparently when Sims stand (like to paint!) they are lefties, and when they sit they are right handed. 🤯

I repeated the process twice with other Sims and it's the same, who knew? Well, I am sure everyone but me did 😆

(special shout out to her sister for ensuring the obligatory push ups made the cut)

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u/NewInitiative9498 — 2 months ago