34 [M4F] INTJ - Croatia / Europe - I want us to be the best part of each other’s day

I’m 34 and live in Zagreb, Croatia. I’m looking for a woman I can talk to every day, make plans with and eventually build a life with. I want us to be each other’s first call, make time for each other naturally and miss each other when we’re apart.

We don’t need to share every hobby or spend every minute together. Maybe we cook, play something, talk about our day or do our own things in the same room. I want to make your good days better and your hard days easier, and I want you to do the same for me.

I run my own company, and these days my schedule is fairly flexible.

Gaming is my main hobby. I play most days, and a completely free evening can easily turn into a four-to-six-hour session. I’d rather be upfront about that than call myself casual and surprise you with a raid schedule three months later.

Lately it’s been Marvel Rivals, Darktide, Rogue Trader and PoE 2, with the occasional inexplicable evening spent cleaning patios in PowerWash Simulator.

You don’t need to be a hardcore gamer or already play everything I do. If trying a few games together actually sounds fun, that works too. I just don’t want gaming to be a major part of my life that you quietly put up with.

I’m also into board games, especially Marvel Champions, Arkham Horror and Wingspan. If you have a favourite, there’s a good chance you can talk me into trying it.

Outside gaming, I read quite a bit. One article can easily turn into seventeen tabs about psychology, technology, science, finance or something I knew nothing about that morning. Films, TV shows, comics and anime are all in the rotation too. Steel Panther appears on my playlists often enough that I can no longer blame irony.

My humour is dry, dark and not particularly politically correct. Once I’m comfortable, there isn’t much of a filter, so expect plenty of teasing, terrible dad jokes and the occasional thought that probably should have stayed in my head. I usually click best with women who know when I’m joking, tease me back, speak their minds and don’t take every stupid comment too seriously.

I’m the kind of man you never have to second-guess. If I say I’ll do something, I do it. If something’s wrong, I’d rather talk it through than leave you wondering where you stand. I’m patient, loyal and protective of the people I love, and I want the woman I’m with to know I’m on her side. When life gets difficult, my instinct is to roll up my sleeves and deal with it, not look for the nearest exit.

I’m drawn to a woman with that same kind of strength. She doesn’t need to pretend she never struggles, but she takes responsibility for her life and keeps going when things get hard. I want us to carry the heavy things together, not leave one person carrying both.

I’m pretty low-key socially. I see friends, go out for dinner or grab a drink, but I’ll take a quiet evening over a packed bar or club any day.

I live on my own, cook, keep my place tidy and train regularly in a home gym I put together. I’m 173 cm / 5'8", lean and athletic.

I don’t smoke, vape or use drugs, and I’m looking for the same. Having a couple of good beers once or twice a week is about my speed, although I’ve become enough of a beer nerd to have opinions nobody asked for.

When I’m into someone, it shows. I’m affectionate and consistent, and I make time for you. I like regular messages, calls, making plans and sending each other stupid things during the day. I want to know what’s happening in your world, and I want you to be just as interested in mine. I remember the little things too, so if you mention some project you’re working on, I’ll probably ask how it went three days later.

I’m probably a better fit with a woman in her mid-twenties to mid-thirties who doesn’t have children, has interests of her own, makes an effort to stay in shape and genuinely has room in her life for a relationship.

Politically, I’m somewhere around the centre, and religiously I’m agnostic. We don’t need to agree on everything. Being able to talk openly about it matters more to me.

I’ve travelled quite a bit in Asia and parts of Africa, and living abroad for a while appeals to me. Europe would obviously be easiest, but my business doesn’t permanently tie me to Croatia. I’m fine starting online, and more distance can work if there’s a realistic path to eventually living in the same place.

Your first message doesn’t need to be an autobiography or come with a photo. Tell me what you’re playing, which game you keep reinstalling, what you’d be curious to try if gaming isn’t already your thing, or just say hello and tell me a little about yourself. A slightly inappropriate joke works too.

If the conversation flows, we can move to a call. I’m just as happy talking for hours as playing something together, though ideally we’ll end up doing both at once.

You can choose the game for the first date. We’ll save ranked for the second.

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u/NijeBugNegoKarakter — 7 days ago
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34 [M4F] Croatia/Europe | I want us to be the best part of each other’s day

I’m 34 and live in Zagreb, Croatia. I’m looking for a woman I can talk to every day, make plans with and eventually build a life with. I want us to be each other’s first call, make time for each other naturally and miss each other when we’re apart.

We don’t need to share every hobby or spend every minute together. Maybe we cook, play something, talk about our day or do our own things in the same room. I want to make your good days better and your hard days easier, and I want you to do the same for me.

I run my own company, and these days my schedule is fairly flexible.

Gaming is my main hobby. I play most days, and a completely free evening can easily turn into a four-to-six-hour session. I’d rather be upfront about that than call myself casual and surprise you with a raid schedule three months later.

Lately it’s been Marvel Rivals, Darktide, Rogue Trader and PoE 2, with the occasional inexplicable evening spent cleaning patios in PowerWash Simulator.

You don’t need to be a hardcore gamer or already play everything I do. If trying a few games together actually sounds fun, that works too. I just don’t want gaming to be a major part of my life that you quietly put up with.

I’m also into board games, especially Marvel Champions, Arkham Horror and Wingspan. If you have a favourite, there’s a good chance you can talk me into trying it.

Outside gaming, I read quite a bit. One article can easily turn into seventeen tabs about psychology, technology, science, finance or something I knew nothing about that morning. Films, TV shows, comics and anime are all in the rotation too. Steel Panther appears on my playlists often enough that I can no longer blame irony.

My humour is dry, dark and not particularly politically correct. Once I’m comfortable, there isn’t much of a filter, so expect plenty of teasing, terrible dad jokes and the occasional thought that probably should have stayed in my head. I usually click best with women who know when I’m joking, tease me back, speak their minds and don’t take every stupid comment too seriously.

I’m the kind of man you never have to second-guess. If I say I’ll do something, I do it. If something’s wrong, I’d rather talk it through than leave you wondering where you stand. I’m patient, loyal and protective of the people I love, and I want the woman I’m with to know I’m on her side. When life gets difficult, my instinct is to roll up my sleeves and deal with it, not look for the nearest exit.

I’m drawn to a woman with that same kind of strength. She doesn’t need to pretend she never struggles, but she takes responsibility for her life and keeps going when things get hard. I want us to carry the heavy things together, not leave one person carrying both.

I’m pretty low-key socially. I see friends, go out for dinner or grab a drink, but I’ll take a quiet evening over a packed bar or club any day.

I live on my own, cook, keep my place tidy and train regularly in a home gym I put together. I’m 173 cm / 5'8", lean and athletic.

I don’t smoke, vape or use drugs, and I’m looking for the same. Having a couple of good beers once or twice a week is about my speed, although I’ve become enough of a beer nerd to have opinions nobody asked for.

When I’m into someone, it shows. I’m affectionate and consistent, and I make time for you. I like regular messages, calls, making plans and sending each other stupid things during the day. I want to know what’s happening in your world, and I want you to be just as interested in mine. I remember the little things too, so if you mention some project you’re working on, I’ll probably ask how it went three days later.

I’m childfree and probably a better fit with a woman in her mid-twenties to mid-thirties who has her own interests, makes an effort to stay in shape and wants her partner to be a big part of her everyday life.

Politically, I’m somewhere around the centre, and religiously I’m agnostic. We don’t need to agree on everything. Being able to talk openly about it matters more to me.

I’ve travelled quite a bit in Asia and parts of Africa, and living abroad for a while appeals to me. Europe would obviously be easiest, but my business doesn’t permanently tie me to Croatia. I’m fine starting online, and more distance can work if there’s a realistic path to eventually living in the same place.

Your first message doesn’t need to be an autobiography or come with a photo. Tell me what you’re playing, which game you keep reinstalling, what you’d be curious to try if gaming isn’t already your thing, or just say hello and tell me a little about yourself. A slightly inappropriate joke works too.

If the conversation flows, we can move to a call. I’m just as happy talking for hours as playing something together, though ideally we’ll end up doing both at once.

You can choose the game for the first date. We’ll save ranked for the second.

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u/NijeBugNegoKarakter — 7 days ago

34 [M4F] Croatia/Europe | I want us to be the best part of each other’s day

I’m 34 and live in Zagreb, Croatia. I’m looking for a woman I can talk to every day, make plans with and eventually build a life with. I want us to be each other’s first call, make time for each other naturally and miss each other when we’re apart.

We don’t need to share every hobby or spend every minute together. Maybe we cook, play something, talk about our day or do our own things in the same room. I want to make your good days better and your hard days easier, and I want you to do the same for me.

I run my own company, and these days my schedule is fairly flexible.

Gaming is my main hobby. I play most days, and a completely free evening can easily turn into a four-to-six-hour session. I’d rather be upfront about that than call myself casual and surprise you with a raid schedule three months later.

Lately it’s been Marvel Rivals, Darktide, Rogue Trader and PoE 2, with the occasional inexplicable evening spent cleaning patios in PowerWash Simulator.

You don’t need to be a hardcore gamer or already play everything I do. If trying a few games together actually sounds fun, that works too. I just don’t want gaming to be a major part of my life that you quietly put up with.

I’m also into board games, especially Marvel Champions, Arkham Horror and Wingspan. If you have a favourite, there’s a good chance you can talk me into trying it.

Outside gaming, I read quite a bit. One article can easily turn into seventeen tabs about psychology, technology, science, finance or something I knew nothing about that morning. Films, TV shows, comics and anime are all in the rotation too. Steel Panther appears on my playlists often enough that I can no longer blame irony.

My humour is dry, dark and not particularly politically correct. Once I’m comfortable, there isn’t much of a filter, so expect plenty of teasing, terrible dad jokes and the occasional thought that probably should have stayed in my head. I usually click best with women who know when I’m joking, tease me back, speak their minds and don’t take every stupid comment too seriously.

I’m the kind of man you never have to second-guess. If I say I’ll do something, I do it. If something’s wrong, I’d rather talk it through than leave you wondering where you stand. I’m patient, loyal and protective of the people I love, and I want the woman I’m with to know I’m on her side. When life gets difficult, my instinct is to roll up my sleeves and deal with it, not look for the nearest exit.

I’m drawn to a woman with that same kind of strength. She doesn’t need to pretend she never struggles, but she takes responsibility for her life and keeps going when things get hard. I want us to carry the heavy things together, not leave one person carrying both.

I’m pretty low-key socially. I see friends, go out for dinner or grab a drink, but I’ll take a quiet evening over a packed bar or club any day.

I live on my own, cook, keep my place tidy and train regularly in a home gym I put together. I’m 173 cm / 5'8", lean and athletic.

I don’t smoke, vape or use drugs, and I’m looking for the same. Having a couple of good beers once or twice a week is about my speed, although I’ve become enough of a beer nerd to have opinions nobody asked for.

When I’m into someone, it shows. I’m affectionate and consistent, and I make time for you. I like regular messages, calls, making plans and sending each other stupid things during the day. I want to know what’s happening in your world, and I want you to be just as interested in mine. I remember the little things too, so if you mention some project you’re working on, I’ll probably ask how it went three days later.

I’m probably a better fit with a woman in her mid-twenties to mid-thirties who doesn’t have children, has interests of her own, makes an effort to stay in shape and genuinely has room in her life for a relationship.

Politically, I’m somewhere around the centre, and religiously I’m agnostic. We don’t need to agree on everything. Being able to talk openly about it matters more to me.

I’ve travelled quite a bit in Asia and parts of Africa, and living abroad for a while appeals to me. Europe would obviously be easiest, but my business doesn’t permanently tie me to Croatia. I’m fine starting online, and more distance can work if there’s a realistic path to eventually living in the same place.

Your first message doesn’t need to be an autobiography or come with a photo. Tell me what you’re playing, which game you keep reinstalling, what you’d be curious to try if gaming isn’t already your thing, or just say hello and tell me a little about yourself. A slightly inappropriate joke works too.

If the conversation flows, we can move to a call. I’m just as happy talking for hours as playing something together, though ideally we’ll end up doing both at once.

You can choose the game for the first date. We’ll save ranked for the second.

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u/NijeBugNegoKarakter — 7 days ago

34 [M4F] Croatia/Europe | I want us to be the best part of each other’s day

I’m 34 and live in Zagreb, Croatia. I’m looking for a woman I can talk to every day, make plans with and eventually build a life with. I want us to be each other’s first call, make time for each other naturally and miss each other when we’re apart.

We don’t need to share every hobby or spend every minute together. Maybe we cook, play something, talk about our day or do our own things in the same room. I want to make your good days better and your hard days easier, and I want you to do the same for me.

I run my own company, and these days my schedule is fairly flexible.

Gaming is my main hobby. I play most days, and a completely free evening can easily turn into a four-to-six-hour session. I’d rather be upfront about that than call myself casual and surprise you with a raid schedule three months later.

Lately it’s been Marvel Rivals, Darktide, Rogue Trader and PoE 2, with the occasional inexplicable evening spent cleaning patios in PowerWash Simulator.

You don’t need to be a hardcore gamer or already play everything I do. If trying a few games together actually sounds fun, that works too. I just don’t want gaming to be a major part of my life that you quietly put up with.

I’m also into board games, especially Marvel Champions, Arkham Horror and Wingspan. If you have a favourite, there’s a good chance you can talk me into trying it.

Outside gaming, I read quite a bit. One article can easily turn into seventeen tabs about psychology, technology, science, finance or something I knew nothing about that morning. Films, TV shows, comics and anime are all in the rotation too. Steel Panther appears on my playlists often enough that I can no longer blame irony.

My humour is dry, dark and not particularly politically correct. Once I’m comfortable, there isn’t much of a filter, so expect plenty of teasing, terrible dad jokes and the occasional thought that probably should have stayed in my head. I usually click best with women who know when I’m joking, tease me back, speak their minds and don’t take every stupid comment too seriously.

I’m the kind of man you never have to second-guess. If I say I’ll do something, I do it. If something’s wrong, I’d rather talk it through than leave you wondering where you stand. I’m patient, loyal and protective of the people I love, and I want the woman I’m with to know I’m on her side. When life gets difficult, my instinct is to roll up my sleeves and deal with it, not look for the nearest exit.

I’m drawn to a woman with that same kind of strength. She doesn’t need to pretend she never struggles, but she takes responsibility for her life and keeps going when things get hard. I want us to carry the heavy things together, not leave one person carrying both.

I’m pretty low-key socially. I see friends, go out for dinner or grab a drink, but I’ll take a quiet evening over a packed bar or club any day.

I live on my own, cook, keep my place tidy and train regularly in a home gym I put together. I’m 173 cm / 5'8", lean and athletic.

I don’t smoke, vape or use drugs, and I’m looking for the same. Having a couple of good beers once or twice a week is about my speed, although I’ve become enough of a beer nerd to have opinions nobody asked for.

When I’m into someone, it shows. I’m affectionate and consistent, and I make time for you. I like regular messages, calls, making plans and sending each other stupid things during the day. I want to know what’s happening in your world, and I want you to be just as interested in mine. I remember the little things too, so if you mention some project you’re working on, I’ll probably ask how it went three days later.

I’m probably a better fit with a woman in her mid-twenties to mid-thirties who doesn’t have children, has interests of her own, makes an effort to stay in shape and genuinely has room in her life for a relationship.

Politically, I’m somewhere around the centre, and religiously I’m agnostic. We don’t need to agree on everything. Being able to talk openly about it matters more to me.

I’ve travelled quite a bit in Asia and parts of Africa, and living abroad for a while appeals to me. Europe would obviously be easiest, but my business doesn’t permanently tie me to Croatia. I’m fine starting online, and more distance can work if there’s a realistic path to eventually living in the same place.

Your first message doesn’t need to be an autobiography or come with a photo. Tell me what you’re playing, which game you keep reinstalling, what you’d be curious to try if gaming isn’t already your thing, or just say hello and tell me a little about yourself. A slightly inappropriate joke works too.

If the conversation flows, we can move to a call. I’m just as happy talking for hours as playing something together, though ideally we’ll end up doing both at once.

You can choose the game for the first date. We’ll save ranked for the second.

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u/NijeBugNegoKarakter — 7 days ago

34 [M4F] Croatia/Europe - Good food, bad jokes and one more game

If that sounds like your kind of Friday, we should probably talk.

I’m 34 and live in Zagreb, Croatia. I’m looking for a serious relationship with a woman who wants real closeness, plenty of time together and a quieter kind of life.

To me, that means an ordinary Tuesday together feels good. Maybe we cook, play something, talk about our day or do our own things in the same room. We don’t need every hobby in common or to be joined at the hip. I just want us to enjoy being part of each other’s lives, even when nothing exciting is happening.

I own and run a business. My schedule is fairly flexible these days. Work is important to me, but it isn’t my whole life.

Gaming is my main hobby. I play most days whenever I have the time, and a completely free evening can easily turn into a four-to-six-hour session. I’d rather be upfront about that than call myself casual and surprise you with a raid schedule three months later.

Lately it’s been Marvel Rivals, Darktide, Rogue Trader and PoE 2, with the occasional inexplicable evening spent cleaning patios in PowerWash Simulator.

You don’t need to be a hardcore gamer or already play everything I do. If trying a few games together actually sounds fun, that works too. I just don’t want gaming to be a major part of my life that you quietly put up with.

I’m also into board games, especially Marvel Champions, Arkham Horror and Wingspan. If you have a favourite, there’s a good chance you can talk me into trying it.

Outside gaming, I read quite a bit. One article can easily turn into seventeen tabs about psychology, technology, science, finance or something I knew nothing about that morning. Films, TV shows, comics and anime are all in the rotation too. Steel Panther appears on my playlists often enough that I can no longer blame irony.

My humour is dry, dark and not particularly politically correct. Once I’m comfortable, there isn’t much of a filter, so expect plenty of teasing, terrible dad jokes and the occasional thought that probably should have stayed in my head. I usually click best with women who know when I’m joking, tease me back and don’t take every stupid comment too seriously.

I’m pretty low-key socially. I see friends, go out for dinner or grab a drink, but I’ll take a quiet evening over a packed bar or club any day.

I live on my own, cook, keep my place tidy and train regularly in a home gym I put together. I’m 173 cm / 5'8", lean and athletic.

I don’t smoke, vape or use drugs, and I’m looking for the same. Having a couple of good beers once or twice a week is about my speed, although I’ve become enough of a beer nerd to have opinions nobody asked for.

When I’m into someone, it shows. I’m affectionate and consistent, and I make time for you. I like messages, calls, making plans and sending each other stupid things during the day. I remember the little things too, so if you mention some project you’re working on, I’ll probably ask how it went three days later.

I’m probably a better fit with a woman in her mid-twenties to mid-thirties who doesn’t have children, has interests of her own, makes an effort to stay in shape and genuinely has room in her life for a relationship.

Politically, I’m somewhere around the centre, and religiously I’m agnostic. We don’t need to agree on everything. Being able to talk openly about it matters more to me.

I’ve travelled quite a bit in Asia and parts of Africa, and living abroad for a while appeals to me. Europe would obviously be easiest, but my business doesn’t permanently tie me to Croatia. I’m fine starting online, and more distance can work if there’s a realistic path to eventually living in the same place.

Your first message doesn’t need to be an autobiography or come with a photo. Tell me what you’re playing, which game you keep reinstalling, what you’d be curious to try if gaming isn’t already your thing, or just say hello and tell me a little about yourself. A slightly inappropriate joke works too.

If the conversation flows, we can move to a call. I’m just as happy talking for hours as playing something together, though ideally we’ll end up doing both at once.

You can choose the game for the first date. We’ll save ranked for the second.

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u/NijeBugNegoKarakter — 11 days ago
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34 [M4F] Croatia/Europe - Looking for a serious relationship, preferably with co-op

If good food, bad jokes and “one more game” somehow turning into 2 a.m. sounds like your kind of Friday, we should probably talk.

I’m 34 and live in Zagreb, Croatia. I’m looking for a serious relationship with a woman who wants real closeness, plenty of time together and a quieter kind of life.

To me, that means an ordinary Tuesday together feels good. Maybe we cook, play something, talk about our day or do our own things in the same room. We don’t need every hobby in common or to be joined at the hip. I just want us to enjoy being part of each other’s lives, even when nothing exciting is happening.

I run my own business. It took years to build, but these days it gives me a flexible schedule and no longer consumes my entire life.

Gaming is my main hobby. I play most days whenever I have the time, and a completely free evening can easily turn into a four-to-six-hour session. I’d rather be upfront about that than call myself casual and surprise you with a raid schedule three months later.

Lately it’s been Marvel Rivals, Darktide, Rogue Trader and PoE 2, with the occasional inexplicable evening spent cleaning patios in PowerWash Simulator.

You don’t need to be a hardcore gamer or play everything I do. If trying a few games together genuinely sounds fun, that works too. I just want gaming to become something we genuinely enjoy together, rather than a part of my life you tolerate.

I’m also into board games, especially Marvel Champions, Arkham Horror and Wingspan. If you have a favourite, there’s a good chance you can talk me into trying it.

Outside gaming, I read quite a bit. One article can easily turn into seventeen tabs about psychology, technology, science, finance or something I knew nothing about that morning. Films, TV shows, comics and anime are all in the rotation too. Steel Panther appears on my playlists often enough that I can no longer blame irony.

My humour is dry, dark and occasionally unhinged. Once I’m comfortable, expect inside jokes, terrible dad jokes and comments that land perfectly with the right person and terribly with everyone else. I tend to click best with someone who can laugh, tease me back and bring a little chaos of her own.

I’m pretty low-key socially. I see friends, go out for dinner or grab a drink, but I’ll take a quiet evening over a packed bar or club any day.

I cook, keep my place tidy and train regularly in a home gym I put together. I’m 173 cm / 5'8", lean and athletic.

I don’t smoke, vape or use drugs, and I’m looking for the same. A couple of good beers once or twice a week is about my speed, although I’ve become enough of a beer nerd to have opinions nobody asked for.

When I’m into someone, it shows. I like regular messages, calls, making plans and sending each other stupid things during the day. I tend to remember the little things too, so if you tell me about some project you’re working on, I’ll probably ask how it went three days later.

I’m childfree, and I’m probably a better fit with a woman in her mid-twenties to mid-thirties who feels the same, has her own interests and has room in her life for a relationship.

A flexible schedule helps if distance is involved, but consistency matters more.

Politically, I’m somewhere around the centre, and religiously I’m agnostic. I’d like us to agree on the important things and be able to talk normally about the rest.

I’ve travelled quite a bit in Asia and parts of Africa, and living abroad for a while appeals to me. Europe would obviously be easiest, but my business doesn’t permanently tie me to Croatia, so more distance can work if there’s a realistic path to eventually living in the same place. I’m fine starting online. I just wouldn’t want the relationship to stay there forever.

I don’t post photos publicly, but I’m happy to exchange one fairly early if we’re getting along.

Your first message doesn’t need to be an autobiography. Tell me what you’re playing, which game you keep reinstalling, what you’d be curious to try if gaming isn’t already your thing, or just say hello and tell me a little about yourself. A slightly inappropriate joke works too.

If we’re getting along, let’s play something. An hour of co-op is usually way more fun than spending a week asking each other twenty questions.

We’ll save ranked for the second date. You can choose the game for the first.

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u/NijeBugNegoKarakter — 13 days ago

34 [M4F] INTJ - Croatia / Europe - Looking for a serious relationship, preferably with co-op

If good food, bad jokes and “one more game” somehow turning into 2 a.m. sounds like your kind of Friday, we should probably talk.

I’m 34 and live in Zagreb, Croatia. I’m looking for a serious relationship with a woman who wants real closeness, plenty of time together and a quieter kind of life.

To me, that means an ordinary Tuesday together feels good. Maybe we cook, play something, talk about our day or do our own things in the same room. We don’t need every hobby in common or to be joined at the hip. I just want us to enjoy being part of each other’s lives, even when nothing exciting is happening.

I run my own business. It took years to build, but these days it gives me a flexible schedule and no longer consumes my entire life.

Gaming is my main hobby. I play most days whenever I have the time, and a completely free evening can easily turn into a four-to-six-hour session. I’d rather be upfront about that than call myself casual and surprise you with a raid schedule three months later.

Lately it’s been Marvel Rivals, Darktide, Rogue Trader and PoE 2, with the occasional inexplicable evening spent cleaning patios in PowerWash Simulator.

You don’t need to be a hardcore gamer or play everything I do. If trying a few games together genuinely sounds fun, that works too. I just want gaming to become something we genuinely enjoy together, rather than a part of my life you tolerate.

I’m also into board games, especially Marvel Champions, Arkham Horror and Wingspan. If you have a favourite, there’s a good chance you can talk me into trying it.

Outside gaming, I read quite a bit. One article can easily turn into seventeen tabs about psychology, technology, science, finance or something I knew nothing about that morning. Films, TV shows, comics and anime are all in the rotation too. Steel Panther appears on my playlists often enough that I can no longer blame irony.

My humour is dry, dark and occasionally unhinged. Once I’m comfortable, expect inside jokes, terrible dad jokes and comments that land perfectly with the right person and terribly with everyone else. I tend to click best with someone who can laugh, tease me back and bring a little chaos of her own.

I’m pretty low-key socially. I see friends, go out for dinner or grab a drink, but I’ll take a quiet evening over a packed bar or club any day.

I cook, keep my place tidy and train regularly in a home gym I put together. I’m 173 cm / 5'8", lean and athletic.

I don’t smoke, vape or use drugs, and I’m looking for the same. A couple of good beers once or twice a week is about my speed, although I’ve become enough of a beer nerd to have opinions nobody asked for.

When I’m into someone, it shows. I like regular messages, calls, making plans and sending each other stupid things during the day. I tend to remember the little things too, so if you tell me about some project you’re working on, I’ll probably ask how it went three days later.

I’m probably a better fit with a woman in her mid-twenties to mid-thirties who doesn’t have children, has her own interests and has room in her life for a relationship.

A flexible schedule helps if distance is involved, but consistency matters more.

Politically, I’m somewhere around the centre, and religiously I’m agnostic. I’d like us to agree on the important things and be able to talk normally about the rest.

I’ve travelled quite a bit in Asia and parts of Africa, and living abroad for a while appeals to me. Europe would obviously be easiest, but my business doesn’t permanently tie me to Croatia, so more distance can work if there’s a realistic path to eventually living in the same place. I’m fine starting online. I just wouldn’t want the relationship to stay there forever.

I don’t post photos publicly, but I’m happy to exchange one fairly early if we’re getting along.

Your first message doesn’t need to be an autobiography. Tell me what you’re playing, which game you keep reinstalling, what you’d be curious to try if gaming isn’t already your thing, or just say hello and tell me a little about yourself. A slightly inappropriate joke works too.

If we’re getting along, let’s play something. An hour of co-op is usually way more fun than spending a week asking each other twenty questions.

We’ll save ranked for the second date. You can choose the game for the first.

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u/NijeBugNegoKarakter — 14 days ago

34 [M4F] Croatia / Anywhere (CEST) - Looking for a serious relationship, preferably with co-op

If good food, bad jokes and “one more game” somehow turning into 2 a.m. sounds like your kind of Friday, we should probably talk.

I’m 34 and live in Zagreb, Croatia. I’m white, and ethnicity isn’t really a filter for me. I’m looking for a serious relationship with a woman who wants real closeness, plenty of time together and a quieter kind of life.

To me, that means an ordinary Tuesday together feels good. Maybe we cook, play something, talk about our day or do our own things in the same room. We don’t need every hobby in common or to be joined at the hip. I just want us to enjoy being part of each other’s lives, even when nothing exciting is happening.

I run my own business. It took years to build, but these days it gives me a flexible schedule and no longer consumes my entire life.

Gaming is my main hobby. I play most days whenever I have the time, and a completely free evening can easily turn into a four-to-six-hour session. I’d rather be upfront about that than call myself casual and surprise you with a raid schedule three months later.

Lately it’s been Marvel Rivals, Darktide, Rogue Trader and PoE 2, with the occasional inexplicable evening spent cleaning patios in PowerWash Simulator.

You don’t need to be a hardcore gamer or play everything I do. If trying a few games together genuinely sounds fun, that works too. I just want gaming to become something we genuinely enjoy together, rather than a part of my life you tolerate.

I’m also into board games, especially Marvel Champions, Arkham Horror and Wingspan. If you have a favourite, there’s a good chance you can talk me into trying it.

Outside gaming, I read quite a bit. One article can easily turn into seventeen tabs about psychology, technology, science, finance or something I knew nothing about that morning. Films, TV shows, comics and anime are all in the rotation too. Steel Panther appears on my playlists often enough that I can no longer blame irony.

My humour is dry, dark and occasionally unhinged. Once I’m comfortable, expect inside jokes, terrible dad jokes and comments that land perfectly with the right person and terribly with everyone else. I tend to click best with someone who can laugh, tease me back and bring a little chaos of her own.

I’m pretty low-key socially. I see friends, go out for dinner or grab a drink, but I’ll take a quiet evening over a packed bar or club any day.

I cook, keep my place tidy and train regularly in a home gym I put together. I’m 173 cm / 5'8", lean and athletic.

I don’t smoke, vape or use drugs, and I’m looking for the same. A couple of good beers once or twice a week is about my speed, although I’ve become enough of a beer nerd to have opinions nobody asked for.

When I’m into someone, it shows. I like regular messages, calls, making plans and sending each other stupid things during the day. I tend to remember the little things too, so if you tell me about some project you’re working on, I’ll probably ask how it went three days later.

I’m probably a better fit with a woman in her mid-twenties to mid-thirties who doesn’t have children, has her own interests and has room in her life for a relationship.

A flexible schedule helps if distance is involved, but consistency matters more.

Politically, I’m somewhere around the centre, and religiously I’m agnostic. I’d like us to agree on the important things and be able to talk normally about the rest.

I’ve travelled quite a bit in Asia and parts of Africa, and living abroad for a while appeals to me. Europe would obviously be easiest, but my business doesn’t permanently tie me to Croatia, so more distance can work if there’s a realistic path to eventually living in the same place. I’m fine starting online. I just wouldn’t want the relationship to stay there forever.

I don’t post photos publicly, but I’m happy to exchange one fairly early if we’re getting along.

Your first message doesn’t need to be an autobiography. Tell me what you’re playing, which game you keep reinstalling, what you’d be curious to try if gaming isn’t already your thing, or just say hello and tell me a little about yourself. A slightly inappropriate joke works too.

If we’re getting along, let’s play something. An hour of co-op is usually way more fun than spending a week asking each other twenty questions.

We’ll save ranked for the second date. You can choose the game for the first.

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u/NijeBugNegoKarakter — 14 days ago

34 [M4F] #Croatia #Europe - Serious relationship, preferably with co-op

If good food, bad jokes and “one more game” somehow turning into 2 a.m. sounds like your kind of Friday, we should probably talk.

I’m 34 and live in Zagreb, Croatia. I’m looking for a serious relationship with a woman who wants real closeness, plenty of time together and a quieter kind of life.

To me, that means an ordinary Tuesday together feels good. Maybe we cook, play something, talk about our day or do our own things in the same room. We don’t need every hobby in common or to be joined at the hip. I just want us to enjoy being part of each other’s lives, even when nothing exciting is happening.

I run my own business. It took years to build, but these days it gives me a flexible schedule and no longer consumes my entire life.

Gaming is my main hobby. I play most days, usually for a bit, though a completely free evening can easily turn into a four-to-six-hour session. I’d rather be upfront about that than call myself casual and surprise you with a raid schedule three months later.

Lately I’ve been playing Marvel Rivals, Darktide, Rogue Trader and PoE 2. When I want something less intense, I somehow end up cleaning patios in PowerWash Simulator.

You don’t need to already call yourself a gamer. If trying a few games together genuinely sounds fun, that works too. I don’t need you to share my entire library, but I would like gaming to become something we actually enjoy together, not a part of my life you simply tolerate.

I’m also into board games, especially Marvel Champions, Arkham Horror and Wingspan. If you have a favourite, tell me about it. There’s a good chance I’ll give it a try.

Outside gaming, I read quite a bit. One article can easily turn into seventeen tabs about psychology, technology, science, finance or something I knew nothing about that morning. Films, TV shows, comics and anime are all in the rotation too. Steel Panther appears on my playlists often enough that I can no longer blame irony.

My humour is dry, dark and occasionally unhinged. Once I’m comfortable, expect inside jokes, terrible dad jokes and comments that land perfectly with the right person and terribly with everyone else. I tend to click best with someone who can laugh, tease me back and bring a little chaos of her own.

When it comes to going out, I’m pretty low-key. I enjoy seeing friends, going out for dinner or grabbing a drink, but I’ll take a quiet evening over a packed bar or club any day.

I cook, keep my place tidy and train regularly in a home gym I put together myself. I’m 173 cm, around 5'8", with a lean, athletic build.

I don’t smoke or vape, drugs aren’t my thing, and I’m looking for the same. I enjoy a couple of good beers once or twice a week and have become a bit of a beer nerd along the way.

When I’m into someone, it shows. I like regular messages, calls, making plans and sending each other stupid things during the day. I show affection by noticing the little things and remembering what matters to you.

Tell me what’s been on your mind lately, whether it’s work, a project, a game or some topic you accidentally spent three hours researching. If it matters to you, I’ll want to know how it turned out.

I’ll probably click best with a woman in her late twenties to mid-thirties who doesn’t have children and, like me, tends to prefer quieter evenings at home. You don’t need to play all the same games or have your whole life perfectly figured out. I care more that you have your own interests, some direction and enough time in your life for a relationship.

A flexible schedule helps if distance is involved, but consistency matters more than what your workday looks like.

I’m open to having children if we both truly want them, and equally open to building a good life without them. “We’re at that age” has never seemed like a convincing reason to create an entire person.

Politically, I’m somewhere around the centre, and religiously I’m agnostic. I’d like us to agree on the important things and be able to talk normally about the rest.

I’ve travelled quite a bit in Asia and parts of Africa, and living abroad for a while appeals to me. My business doesn’t tie me permanently to Croatia, so longer stays elsewhere or an eventual move are both possible.

Croatia or elsewhere in Europe would be easiest, but I’m open to more distance if there’s a realistic path to living in the same place eventually. I’m fine starting online. I just wouldn’t want the relationship to stay there forever.

I don’t post photos publicly, but I’m happy to exchange one fairly early if we’re getting along.

Your first message doesn’t need to be an autobiography. Tell me what you’re playing, which game you keep reinstalling or what you’d be curious to try if gaming isn’t already your thing. A slightly inappropriate joke works too. So does a normal hello with a little about yourself.

After a few messages, we can play something together. An hour of relaxed co-op usually tells me more than a week of conversation that feels like a job interview.

We’ll save ranked for the second date. You can choose the game for the first.

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u/NijeBugNegoKarakter — 15 days ago

34 [M4F] Croatia/Europe | Looking for something serious, preferably with co-op

If good food, bad jokes and “one more game” somehow turning into 2 a.m. sounds like your kind of Friday, we should probably talk.

I’m 34 and live in Zagreb, Croatia. I’m looking for a serious relationship with a woman who wants real closeness, plenty of time together and a quieter kind of life.

To me, that means an ordinary Tuesday together feels good. Maybe we cook, play something, talk about our day or do our own things in the same room. We don’t need every hobby in common or to be joined at the hip. I just want us to enjoy being part of each other’s lives, even when nothing exciting is happening.

I run my own business. It took years to build, but these days it gives me a flexible schedule and no longer consumes my entire life.

Gaming is my main hobby. I play most days, usually for a bit, though a completely free evening can easily turn into a four-to-six-hour session. I’d rather be upfront about that than call myself casual and surprise you with a raid schedule three months later.

Lately I’ve been playing Marvel Rivals, Darktide, Rogue Trader and PoE 2. When I want something less intense, I somehow end up cleaning patios in PowerWash Simulator.

You don’t need to already call yourself a gamer. If trying a few games together genuinely sounds fun, that works too. I don’t need you to share my entire library, but I would like gaming to become something we genuinely enjoy together, not a part of my life you merely tolerate.

I’m also into board games, especially Marvel Champions, Arkham Horror and Wingspan. If you have a favourite, tell me about it. There’s a good chance I’ll give it a try.

Outside gaming, I read quite a bit. One article can easily turn into seventeen tabs about psychology, technology, science, finance or something I knew nothing about that morning. Films, TV shows, comics and anime are all in the rotation too. Steel Panther appears on my playlists often enough that I can no longer blame irony.

My humour is dry, dark and occasionally completely unhinged. Once I’m comfortable, expect inside jokes, terrible dad jokes and the occasional comment that lands perfectly with the right person and terribly with everyone else. I tend to get along best with someone who can laugh, tease me back and bring a little chaos of her own.

When it comes to going out, I’m pretty low-key. I enjoy seeing friends, going out for dinner or grabbing a drink, but I’ll take a quiet evening over a packed bar or club any day.

I cook, keep my place tidy and train regularly in a home gym I put together. I’m 173 cm, around 5'8", with a lean, athletic build.

I don’t smoke or vape, drugs aren’t my thing, and I’m looking for the same. I enjoy a couple of good beers once or twice a week and have become a bit of a beer nerd along the way.

When I’m into someone, it shows. I like regular messages, calls, making plans and sending each other stupid things during the day. I show affection by noticing the little things and remembering what matters to you.

Tell me what’s been on your mind lately, whether it’s work, a project, a game or some topic you accidentally spent three hours researching. If it matters to you, I’ll want to know how it turned out.

I’ll probably click best with a woman in her mid-twenties to mid-thirties who doesn’t have children and, like me, tends to prefer quieter evenings at home. You don’t need to play all the same games or have your whole life perfectly figured out. I care more that you have your own interests, some direction and actual space in your life for a relationship.

A flexible schedule helps if distance is involved, but consistency matters more than what your workday looks like.

I’m open to having children if we both truly want them, and equally open to building a good life without them. “We’re at that age” has never seemed like a convincing reason to create an entire person.

Politically, I’m somewhere around the centre, and religiously I’m agnostic. I’d like us to agree on the important things and be able to talk normally about the rest.

I’ve travelled quite a bit in Asia and parts of Africa, and living abroad for a while appeals to me. My business doesn’t tie me permanently to Croatia, so longer stays elsewhere or an eventual move are both possible.

Croatia or elsewhere in Europe would be easiest, but I’m open to more distance if there’s a realistic path to living in the same place eventually. I’m fine starting online. I just wouldn’t want the relationship to stay there forever.

I don’t post photos publicly, but I’m happy to exchange one fairly early if we’re getting along.

Your first message doesn’t need to be an autobiography. Tell me what you’re playing, which game you keep reinstalling or what you’d be curious to try if gaming isn’t already your thing. A slightly inappropriate joke works too. So does a normal hello with a little about yourself.

After a few messages, I prefer moving to Discord. We can chat, hop on voice or play something together there. An hour of relaxed co-op usually tells me more than a week of conversation that feels like a job interview.

We’ll save ranked for the second date. You can choose the game for the first.

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u/NijeBugNegoKarakter — 15 days ago

34 [M4F] #Croatia/#Europe - Looking for something serious, preferably with co-op

It’s Friday night. Dinner’s done, “one more game” has quietly become 2 a.m., and neither of us is in any hurry to stop.

I’m 34 and live in Zagreb, Croatia. I’m looking for a serious relationship with a woman who enjoys a quieter life and likes spending plenty of time with her partner.

I spent years building my business, but these days it no longer consumes my entire life. I have my own place, a flexible schedule and plenty of time and energy for life outside work.

What I want is fairly simple: a relationship where an ordinary Tuesday together feels good. Maybe we cook, play something, talk about our day or do our own things in the same room. We don’t need every hobby in common or to be joined at the hip. I just want us to enjoy being part of each other’s lives, even when nothing exciting is happening.

Gaming is my main hobby. I play most days, usually for a bit, though a completely free evening can easily turn into a four-to-six-hour session. I’d rather be upfront about that than call myself casual and surprise you with a raid schedule three months later.

Lately I’ve been playing Marvel Rivals, Darktide, Rogue Trader and PoE 2. When I want something less intense, I somehow end up cleaning patios in PowerWash Simulator.

I’m also into board games, especially Marvel Champions, Arkham Horror and Wingspan. If you have a favourite, tell me about it. There’s a good chance I’ll give it a try.

Outside gaming, I read quite a bit. One article can easily turn into seventeen tabs about psychology, technology, science, finance or something I knew nothing about that morning. Films, TV shows, comics and anime are all in the rotation too. Steel Panther appears on my playlists often enough that I can no longer blame irony.

My humour is mostly dry, sometimes dark and occasionally very stupid. Once I’m comfortable with someone, expect inside jokes, terrible dad jokes and the occasional sentence that should never reach the family group chat.

I’m an introvert and more of a homebody. I enjoy seeing friends, going out for dinner or grabbing a drink, but clubs and packed bars have never been my thing.

I cook, keep my place tidy and train regularly in a home gym I put together myself. I’m 173 cm, around 5'8", with a lean, athletic build.

I don’t smoke or vape, drugs aren’t my thing, and I’m looking for the same. I enjoy a couple of good beers once or twice a week and have become a bit of a beer nerd along the way.

When I’m into someone, it shows. I like regular messages, calls, making plans and sending each other stupid things during the day. Tell me what’s been on your mind lately, whether it’s work, a project, a game or some topic you accidentally spent three hours researching. If it matters to you, I’ll remember and ask how it turned out.

I’ll probably click best with a woman in her late twenties to mid-thirties who doesn’t have children and is also somewhat of a homebody. You don’t need to play all the same games or have your whole life perfectly figured out. I care more that you have your own interests, some direction and genuine room in your life for a relationship.

I’m open to having children if we both truly want them, and equally open to building a good life without them. “We’re at that age” has never seemed like a convincing reason to create an entire person.

Politically, I’m somewhere around the centre, and religiously I’m agnostic. I’d like us to agree on the important things and be able to talk normally about the rest.

I’ve travelled quite a bit in Asia and parts of Africa, and living abroad for a while appeals to me. My business doesn’t require me to stay in Croatia, so longer stays elsewhere or an eventual move are both realistic.

Croatia or elsewhere in Europe would be easiest, but I’m open to more distance if there’s a realistic path to ending up in the same place. I’m fine starting online. I just wouldn’t want the relationship to stay there forever.

I don’t post photos publicly, but I’m happy to exchange one fairly early if we’re getting along.

Your first message doesn’t need to be an autobiography. Tell me what you’re playing, which game you keep reinstalling or what hobby you could talk me into trying. A slightly inappropriate joke works too. So does a normal hello with a little about yourself.

After a few messages, we can play something together. An hour of relaxed co-op usually tells me more than a week of conversation that feels like a job interview.

We’ll save ranked for the second date. You can choose the game for the first.

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u/NijeBugNegoKarakter — 18 days ago

34 [M4F] Croatia/Europe - Looking for someone to blame for going to bed at 2 a.m.

Some people hear “one more game” and think twenty minutes. I’m looking for the woman who knows it means we’re going to bed at 2 a.m. and is at least partly responsible.

I’m 34 and live in Zagreb, Croatia. I’m looking for a serious relationship with a woman who loves gaming, prefers a quieter life and genuinely enjoys spending a lot of time with her partner.

Gaming is my main hobby. I play most days, and four to six hours can disappear very easily on a free evening. Sometimes more. I’m not going to call myself a casual gamer and then ambush you with a raid schedule three months into the relationship.

Lately, I’ve been rotating between Marvel Rivals, Darktide, Rogue Trader and PoE 2. When I’ve had enough of saving worlds, purging heretics and questioning every decision I made while building my character, I relax by cleaning virtual dirt in PowerWash Simulator.

For balance, apparently.

Board games get plenty of time too. Marvel Champions, Arkham Horror and Wingspan are my current favourites. If you play any of them, we’re already off to a good start. If you’re obsessed with something else, make your case. There’s a good chance you can talk me into it.

I run my own business, have my own place and enjoy a fairly flexible schedule. It took about a decade to build that life. Work used to consume almost everything I gave it. These days, I have actual free time and intend to keep it.

I still enjoy new ideas, side projects and seeing whether something slightly ridiculous might actually work. I’m also the kind of person who gets genuinely interested when someone talks about something they care about. I’ll ask questions, remember the details and probably check later to see how it went.

I read a lot, although “read” sometimes means opening one article and resurfacing three hours later with seventeen tabs about psychology, technology, science, finance or some social issue I knew nothing about that morning.

I like figuring out how people arrive at opinions completely different from mine. I may still think they’re wrong afterward, but at least I’ll know how they got there.

Movies, series, comics and anime all make regular appearances. My music taste is harder to defend. Steel Panther gets played more often than it probably should.

I’m an introvert and a homebody, not a hermit. Give me good food, games, a series, a couple of friends or a long evening with someone I like and I’m happy. Loud bars where everyone spends the night shouting “what?” at each other have never done much for me.

Cooking is something I genuinely enjoy, especially when there’s someone nearby stealing ingredients and claiming she was helping. I like trying new recipes, keep my place reasonably tidy and handle the boring everyday jobs without needing to be managed. I can notice that something needs cleaning without waiting for a quest marker to appear above it.

I also train regularly and built a home gym because working out at home suits me better. I’m 173 cm, around 5'8", and fairly fit.

I don’t smoke or vape, I’m not interested in drugs, and I’m looking for the same. I do enjoy a couple of good beers once or twice a week. Somewhere along the way, I became enough of a beer nerd to have opinions about details most people have wisely decided not to care about.

One thing I’m not good at is pretending not to care.

When I’m into someone, I like regular messages, voice calls, making plans and sending each other stupid things throughout the day. Tell me your meeting was painful. Send me the strange thing you saw at the supermarket. Complain about the teammate who went 2-14 and still blamed the healer.

I want to know the small parts of your day, not just the impressive ones.

The relationship I’m looking for is one where spending an evening together feels normal. Maybe we play the same game all night. Maybe you read beside me while I play. We could cook, watch a series, talk while doing our own things or spend half an hour choosing a game before launching the one we always play.

We don’t need to share every hobby or spend every waking minute attached to each other. I just want the kind of relationship where we naturally keep choosing each other’s company.

I’d probably click best with a woman in her mid-twenties to late thirties who doesn’t have children and is also more of a homebody. You don’t need to avoid sunlight or own five mechanical keyboards. We probably won’t suit each other, though, if your ideal week involves being out or surrounded by people most nights.

You don’t need to run a business, earn the same as me or have every part of life figured out. I care much more about whether you have some direction, something you genuinely care about and enough room in your life for a relationship.

When it comes to children, I’m open to either path. I can imagine having them if we both truly want them. I can also imagine us building a very good life without them. “It’s what people do at this age” has never seemed like a convincing reason to create an entire person.

Politically, I’m somewhere near the centre. I’m agnostic, though culturally Christian is probably still the fairest description. I’d want us to line up on the big things. For everything else, being able to admit when we’re wrong and move on goes a long way.

I’ve spent a fair amount of time travelling around Asia, as well as Mauritius. Living abroad for a while appeals to me too. My business doesn’t tie me to Croatia, so longer stays elsewhere are realistic, and moving eventually isn’t off the table.

Europe would obviously make things easier, but I wouldn’t rule out someone farther away if we had a strong connection. Distance at the beginning is fine. I just wouldn’t want the relationship to stay online forever.

I keep photos off public Reddit posts, but I’m happy to exchange one fairly early if we seem to click.

Your first message doesn’t need to be an autobiography. Tell me what you’re playing, which game you keep reinstalling after swearing you’re finally done with it, or what you’d try to talk me into playing with you.

You can also just say hello. I won’t make you carry the conversation alone.

After a few messages, we can move to voice or play something together. I usually learn more from an hour of relaxed co-op than from a week of interview-style small talk.

If you’re nearby, coffee works too. If you’re farther away, we can find out whether we actually like each other before worrying about geography.

We’ll save ranked for the second date.

P.S. If you made it this far, I promise my messages are shorter.

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u/NijeBugNegoKarakter — 25 days ago

M34, Zagreb: sređen život, nesređen Steam backlog

Bok. Imam 34 godine i živim u Zagrebu. Tražim ozbiljnu vezu sa ženom koja voli gaming i mirniji život te želi puno vremena provoditi s partnerom. Dosad nisam upoznao nekoga s kim bi se sve to poklopilo, pa pokušavam i ovdje.

S vremenom sam si život posložio tako da imam dosta mira i slobodnog vremena. Vodim vlastitu firmu i trebalo mi je nekoliko godina da dođem do toga da više ne provodim cijeli dan gaseći požare. Danas imam prilično slobodan raspored, živim u svom stanu i posao mi dobro ide. Najviše mi znači što posao više ne određuje kako će mi izgledati cijeli dan. I dalje me veseli smisliti nešto novo i vidjeti može li od toga nastati nešto što stvarno radi. Ako i ti imaš nešto svoje u glavi, vrlo vjerojatno ću se zainteresirati.

Gaming mi je glavni hobi i jedna od najvećih strasti. Igram gotovo svaki dan. Kad nemam drugih planova, nije mi neobično igrati četiri do šest sati, a ponekad i više.

Trenutačno najviše vrtim Marvel Rivals, Darktide, Rogue Trader, PoE 2 i WoW. Tu i tamo ubacim Deadlock, Marvel Snap ili Zephon, a kad mi je dosta spašavanja svijeta, završim u PowerWash Simulatoru. Od društvenih i kartaških igara najdraži su mi Marvel Champions, Arkham Horror i Wingspan.

Super bi mi bilo da imaš svoje favorite i pokažeš mi nešto što vjerojatno nikad ne bih probao sam. Nekad možemo igrati zajedno, a nekad svatko svoje pa usput pričamo i komentiramo.

Inače dosta čitam, online i offline. Lako završim u nekoj temi iz znanosti, psihologije, tehnologije, financija ili društvenih pitanja, pa nekoliko sati kasnije znam puno više o nečemu što mi ujutro nije bilo ni na kraj pameti. Zanimaju me tuđa iskustva i mišljenja, pogotovo kad se razlikuju od mojih. Volim razumjeti kako su ljudi došli do svojih stavova, iako to ne znači da ću se na kraju s njima složiti. Rado pogledam dobar film, seriju ili anime. Od glazbe slušam stvarno svašta, a Steel Panther mi je dovoljno često na playlisti da otprilike znaš s kakvim humorom imaš posla.

Kućni sam i introvertiran tip. Danas mi puno više odgovaraju dobra hrana, par ljudi doma, gaming ili društvene igre nego klubovi i stalni izlasci.

Često kuham i isprobavam nove recepte. Uredan sam i ne čekam da netko drugi primijeti što treba napraviti. U zajedničkom životu mi je normalno da oboje napravimo što treba, bez brojanja tko je zadnji oprao tanjure.

Ne pušim ni ne vejpam, droge me ne zanimaju, a isto tražim i od partnerice. Uživam u dobrom pivu i obično jednom ili dvaput tjedno popijem dvije-tri. S vremenom sam postao pivski nerd i skupio više znanja o pivu nego što mi realno treba.

Redovito vježbam i s vremenom sam si složio kućnu teretanu jer mi više odgovara trenirati doma. Visok sam 173 cm. Najčešće me privlače sitnije i vitke žene, ali nemam baš strogo zadan tip.

Vjerojatno bih se najbolje poklopio sa ženom između 25 i 35 godina koja nema djece i također je dosta kućni tip. Teško bih funkcionirao s nekim tko gotovo svaki dan ima neki izlazak ili druženje. Tražim vezu u kojoj smo partneri i najbolji prijatelji, često smo zajedno i obična večer lako završi uz kuhanje, dobro pivo i co-op koji se protegne dulje nego što smo planirali.

Ne očekujem da imaš firmu ili da zarađujemo isto. U redu mi je i ako završavaš studij ili se tek poslovno gradiš, dok god ideš prema financijskoj samostalnosti i za vezu stvarno imaš vremena.

Što se djece tiče, otvoren sam za obje opcije. Mogu zamisliti da ih imamo ako ih oboje stvarno želimo, ali ne mislim da ih moramo imati samo zato što smo došli u određene godine.

Politički sam otprilike u centru, a vjerski najbliže agnostiku. Različita mišljenja mi nisu problem dok možemo normalno razgovarati i ne moramo pobijediti u svakoj raspravi.

Udaljenost mi na početku nije prepreka ako se stvarno poklopimo. Dugoročno ipak ne tražim vezu koja će ostati na porukama i povremenim vikendima.

Povremeno putujem, a najviše su mi u sjećanju ostali Japan, Tajland, Vijetnam, Singapur, Kambodža i Mauricijus. Razmišljam i o tome da neko vrijeme živim i poslujem u inozemstvu, ali zasad je to više ideja nego plan.

Mislim da je to dovoljno o meni za jednu objavu. Ako si se u nečemu ovdje prepoznala, javi se s par riječi o sebi i reci što trenutačno igraš. Možeš spomenuti i igru koju već dugo želiš odigrati s nekim. Dobra je šansa da je već imam instaliranu.

Nakon nekoliko poruka možemo otići na kavu ili se čuti na Discordu i nešto odigrati. Kroz sat opuštenog co-opa obično se vidi pašu li nam humor i energija. Ranked ostavljamo za drugi dejt.

P.S. Ako si stigla do kraja, obećavam da su mi poruke kraće.

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