u/No-Plastic-5785

Assalam ua alaikum, I hope everyone is doing well, idk i just decided to give it a try... you never know you finding your comfort of eyes here

Height & Weight: 5’11 and 66 kgs

Location: Lahore

Residence: Rented

Education and Career: I’ve completed my Bachelors in Software Engineering and currently work as a software developer

Marital Status: Single - never married

Religious views: I strive to perform my mandatory prayers consistently and have a deep desire to learn more about my religion. My long-term goal is to truly understand who Allah is and to fulfill my true purpose in this life. I value continuous spiritual growth and self-reflection.

Hobbies & Interests: I consider myself a calm, composed, and self-aware person who avoids unnecessary conflict and doesn’t stress over trivial matters.I try so hard to be kind in every situation and build a forgiving heart. I respect boundaries and don’t interfere in others’ affairs. I’m a student of knowledge…always eager to learn, improve, and seek feedback so I can reflect and grow.
I’m generally quiet  but funny and light-hearted with people I’m comfortable with.
I’m a nature lover and enjoy long walks, especially during sunrise and sunset… sometimes i go for long drive tooo.
I love history, and poetry too, I am very much inspired by Iqbal and look upto him. I also watch anime, and read comics. I do journaling too, i am not regular but i do try to give my dumb thoughts so many words hehe
I’m also physically active. I enjoy playing table tennis a lot and football too 

Family Details: My father works abroad, my mother is a housewife. I have two sisters(elder is married, the younger one is in her undergrad) and I am their only brother. Family values and mutual respect are very important to me.

Requirements for a partner: I need someone who:  also is keen to learn and grow who is loyal and emotionally available, who understands her emotions and triggers and knows how to handle them maturely,values character development, humility, and honest communication(clearing things out, and pointing out where i am wrong too… so that i can reflect on myself too). Humbleness is also a trait of people with good character.
Is religiously aligned and willing to improve herself in deen, has a growth mindset and can support me through ups and downs, since I like taking risks. As for age: 27 or under 27 and above 20 is ok for me(it's flexible tho )

As a man, I understand the responsibilities that come with becoming the qawaam of a household, and I’m trying my best to prepare myself for that role. Recently, my father moved abroad and left the family affairs in my care. Since then, I’ve been managing responsibilities and taking care of my mother, Alhamdulillah. Of course, I make mistakes because it’s my first experience handling everything, but I learn from them and keep improving.

Alongside this, I’m fully focused on my career and growth. My field requires constant learning, so even after office hours, I spend my time learning new skills and exploring better opportunities. Financial freedom is very important to me, and I believe this is the phase of life where I should give my all, work hard, and build something meaningful. Alhamdulillah, my current job allows me to provide, but I still strive for bigger opportunities and long-term stability. For me financial freedom is key to get closer to Allah cuz you work hard, you take risks, you control your life you put the efforts and then leave everything to Allah, cuz he is the best of all planners, and known of unknown

I’m also very aware of my strengths and weaknesses. I hold myself accountable for my mistakes and always try my best not to hurt anyone through my words or actions. And if I ever do, I apologize as soon as I realize it. I know I’m not perfect and I’ll continue to make mistakes, but I’m mindful, self-aware, and always working on becoming a better man.

In difficult or stressful situations, I don’t lose control or give up easily. I stay calm, take responsibility, and focus on finding solutions, whether it’s related to work, family, or life in general.

The reason I’m sharing all of this is because, while I’m constantly working on improving and building myself, I would want the same mindset from my partner as well.

Deal Breakers: who are dishonest and lack integrity, who have lack of ambition or they are unwilling to grow, who dont communicate or clear things out like they keep things to themselves, who blame others instead of taking responsibility for their mistakes
(I have a huge respect for people who acknowledge  their mistakes and work on improving themselves)

Preferred Family Setup: Prefer Nuclear, but it depends since i am my parent's only son, so i would appreciate someone who is willing to have a daily meal with my parents too. I dont mind either

Do You Want Children?: Yes, but not immediately.

Timeframe for Marriage: I’d prefer within 1 year,  but I’m flexible about that. I would like to get to know the other person and involve families as early as possible

Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. If you feel we might be a good match, I’d be happy to hear from you. Wishing you the very best in your search :)

Assalam ua alaikum, I hope everyone is doing well, idk i just decided to give it a try... you never know you finding your comfort of eyes here

Height & Weight: 5’11 and 66 kgs

Location: Lahore

Residence: Rented

Education and Career: I’ve completed my Bachelors in Software Engineering and currently work as a software developer

Marital Status: Single - never married

Religious views: I strive to perform my mandatory prayers consistently and have a deep desire to learn more about my religion. My long-term goal is to truly understand who Allah is and to fulfill my true purpose in this life. I value continuous spiritual growth and self-reflection.

Hobbies & Interests: I consider myself a calm, composed, and self-aware person who avoids unnecessary conflict and doesn’t stress over trivial matters.I try so hard to be kind in every situation and build a forgiving heart. I respect boundaries and don’t interfere in others’ affairs. I’m a student of knowledge…always eager to learn, improve, and seek feedback so I can reflect and grow.
I’m generally quiet  but funny and light-hearted with people I’m comfortable with.
I’m a nature lover and enjoy long walks, especially during sunrise and sunset… sometimes i go for long drive tooo.
I love history, and poetry too, I am very much inspired by Iqbal and look upto him. I also watch anime, and read comics. I do journaling too, i am not regular but i do try to give my dumb thoughts so many words hehe
I’m also physically active. I enjoy playing table tennis a lot and football too 

Family Details: My father works abroad, my mother is a housewife. I have two sisters(elder is married, the younger one is in her undergrad) and I am their only brother. Family values and mutual respect are very important to me.

Requirements for a partner: I need someone who:  also is keen to learn and grow who is loyal and emotionally available, who understands her emotions and triggers and knows how to handle them maturely,values character development, humility, and honest communication(clearing things out, and pointing out where i am wrong too… so that i can reflect on myself too). Humbleness is also a trait of people with good character.
Is religiously aligned and willing to improve herself in deen, has a growth mindset and can support me through ups and downs, since I like taking risks. As for age: 27 or under 27 and above 20 is ok for me(it's flexible tho )

As a man, I understand the responsibilities that come with becoming the qawaam of a household, and I’m trying my best to prepare myself for that role. Recently, my father moved abroad and left the family affairs in my care. Since then, I’ve been managing responsibilities and taking care of my mother, Alhamdulillah. Of course, I make mistakes because it’s my first experience handling everything, but I learn from them and keep improving.

Alongside this, I’m fully focused on my career and growth. My field requires constant learning, so even after office hours, I spend my time learning new skills and exploring better opportunities. Financial freedom is very important to me, and I believe this is the phase of life where I should give my all, work hard, and build something meaningful. Alhamdulillah, my current job allows me to provide, but I still strive for bigger opportunities and long-term stability. For me financial freedom is key to get closer to Allah cuz you work hard, you take risks, you control your life you put the efforts and then leave everything to Allah, cuz he is the best of all planners, and known of unknown

I’m also very aware of my strengths and weaknesses. I hold myself accountable for my mistakes and always try my best not to hurt anyone through my words or actions. And if I ever do, I apologize as soon as I realize it. I know I’m not perfect and I’ll continue to make mistakes, but I’m mindful, self-aware, and always working on becoming a better man.

In difficult or stressful situations, I don’t lose control or give up easily. I stay calm, take responsibility, and focus on finding solutions, whether it’s related to work, family, or life in general.

The reason I’m sharing all of this is because, while I’m constantly working on improving and building myself, I would want the same mindset from my partner as well.

Deal Breakers: who are dishonest and lack integrity, who have lack of ambition or they are unwilling to grow, who dont communicate or clear things out like they keep things to themselves, who blame others instead of taking responsibility for their mistakes
(I have a huge respect for people who acknowledge  their mistakes and work on improving themselves)

Preferred Family Setup: Prefer Nuclear, but it depends since i am my parent's only son, so i would appreciate someone who is willing to have a daily meal with my parents too. I dont mind either

Do You Want Children?: Yes, but not immediately.

Timeframe for Marriage: I’d prefer within 1 year,  but I’m flexible about that. I would like to get to know the other person and involve families as early as possible

Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. If you feel we might be a good match, I’d be happy to hear from you. Wishing you the very best in your search :)

Assalam ua alaikum, I hope everyone is doing well, idk i just decided to give it a try... you never know you finding your comfort of eyes here

Height & Weight: 5’11 and 66 kgs

Location: Lahore

Residence: Rented

Education and Career: I’ve completed my Bachelors in Software Engineering and currently work as a software developer

Marital Status: Single - never married

Religious views: I strive to perform my mandatory prayers consistently and have a deep desire to learn more about my religion. My long-term goal is to truly understand who Allah is and to fulfill my true purpose in this life. I value continuous spiritual growth and self-reflection.

Hobbies & Interests: I consider myself a calm, composed, and self-aware person who avoids unnecessary conflict and doesn’t stress over trivial matters.I try so hard to be kind in every situation and build a forgiving heart. I respect boundaries and don’t interfere in others’ affairs. I’m a student of knowledge…always eager to learn, improve, and seek feedback so I can reflect and grow.
I’m generally quiet  but funny and light-hearted with people I’m comfortable with.
I’m a nature lover and enjoy long walks, especially during sunrise and sunset… sometimes i go for long drive tooo.
I love history, and poetry too, I am very much inspired by Iqbal and look upto him. I also watch anime, and read comics. I do journaling too, i am not regular but i do try to give my dumb thoughts so many words hehe
I’m also physically active. I enjoy playing table tennis a lot and football too 

Family Details: My father works abroad, my mother is a housewife. I have two sisters(elder is married, the younger one is in her undergrad) and I am their only brother. Family values and mutual respect are very important to me.

Requirements for a partner: I need someone who:  also is keen to learn and grow who is loyal and emotionally available, who understands her emotions and triggers and knows how to handle them maturely,values character development, humility, and honest communication(clearing things out, and pointing out where i am wrong too… so that i can reflect on myself too). Humbleness is also a trait of people with good character.
Is religiously aligned and willing to improve herself in deen, has a growth mindset and can support me through ups and downs, since I like taking risks. As for age: 27 or under 27 and above 20 is ok for me(it's flexible tho )

As a man, I understand the responsibilities that come with becoming the qawaam of a household, and I’m trying my best to prepare myself for that role. Recently, my father moved abroad and left the family affairs in my care. Since then, I’ve been managing responsibilities and taking care of my mother, Alhamdulillah. Of course, I make mistakes because it’s my first experience handling everything, but I learn from them and keep improving.

Alongside this, I’m fully focused on my career and growth. My field requires constant learning, so even after office hours, I spend my time learning new skills and exploring better opportunities. Financial freedom is very important to me, and I believe this is the phase of life where I should give my all, work hard, and build something meaningful. Alhamdulillah, my current job allows me to provide, but I still strive for bigger opportunities and long-term stability. For me financial freedom is key to get closer to Allah cuz you work hard, you take risks, you control your life you put the efforts and then leave everything to Allah, cuz he is the best of all planners, and known of unknown

I’m also very aware of my strengths and weaknesses. I hold myself accountable for my mistakes and always try my best not to hurt anyone through my words or actions. And if I ever do, I apologize as soon as I realize it. I know I’m not perfect and I’ll continue to make mistakes, but I’m mindful, self-aware, and always working on becoming a better man.

In difficult or stressful situations, I don’t lose control or give up easily. I stay calm, take responsibility, and focus on finding solutions, whether it’s related to work, family, or life in general.

The reason I’m sharing all of this is because, while I’m constantly working on improving and building myself, I would want the same mindset from my partner as well.

Deal Breakers: who are dishonest and lack integrity, who have lack of ambition or they are unwilling to grow, who dont communicate or clear things out like they keep things to themselves, who blame others instead of taking responsibility for their mistakes
(I have a huge respect for people who acknowledge  their mistakes and work on improving themselves)

Preferred Family Setup: Prefer Nuclear, but it depends since i am my parent's only son, so i would appreciate someone who is willing to have a daily meal with my parents too. I dont mind either

Do You Want Children?: Yes, but not immediately.

Timeframe for Marriage: I’d prefer within 1 year,  but I’m flexible about that. I would like to get to know the other person and involve families as early as possible

Lastly I would like to share one ayah from Quran:

"Invite ˹all˺ to the Way of your Lord with wisdom and kind advice, and only debate with them in the best manner. Surely your Lord ˹alone˺ knows best who has strayed from His Way and who is ˹rightly˺ guided."(16:125)

Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. If you feel we might be a good match, I’d be happy to hear from you. Wishing you the very best in your search :)

i met someone not long ago, things were progressing smoothly and i started thinking maybe they are the one i was looking for.....and then as always their time to leave came and they left hehe.... i did learnt a lesson tho, they also gave me some very good peace of advice while leaving

someone very close to me once told me"every person comes to your life for teaching u something n when their role completes Allah place someone else at their place" i have saved it in my notes, these words are so comfortting mashaAllah

if it was not for these words i would have kept wondering, why does people enter our life, affect us mentaly, and then leave, its not their fault either.... i learned my lessons too, i also knew they would have never been happy with me, so it was best for them to leave.....still my heart keeps bothering me

hmmm, life really is strange tbh it forces peopel in and then let them leave to teach us that everything here is temporary.... so ig its true everything happens for a reason......

and whatever happens..... happens so its ok ig

i hope life keeps teaching me lessons like this, and i keep humbling myself and the ego inside my vanishes as a result calmness overshadows me completely hehee

sorry for ranting :)

i met someone not long ago, things were progressing smoothly and i started thinking maybe they are the one i was looking for.....and then as always their time to leave came and they left hehe.... i did learnt a lesson tho, they also gave me some very good peace of advice while leaving

someone very close to me once told me"every person comes to your life for teaching u something n when their role completes Allah place someone else at their place" i have saved it in my notes, these words are so comfortting mashaAllah

if it was not for these words i would have kept wondering, why does people enter our life, affect us mentaly, and then leave, its not their fault either.... i learned my lessons too, i also knew they would have never been happy with me, so it was best for them to leave.....still my heart keeps bothering me

hmmm, life really is strange tbh it forces peopel in and then let them leave to teach us that everything here is temporary.... so ig its true everything happens for a reason......

and whatever happens..... happens so its ok ig

i hope life keeps teaching me lessons like this, and i keep humbling myself and the ego inside my vanishes as a result calmness overshadows me completely hehee

sorry for ranting :)