u/No-Pretzel-2404

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Why cant i talk to ppl irl like i talk to in reddit?

Theres this someone i want to talk to.. (not sure, but been thinking if i should) classmate basically. I keep meeting (run into them) due to circumstances. Should i..? But im afraid if i will ruin it, and it will be awkward after, rather than this 'just someone you see, never rlly talked to'. I have tried to make ppl into friends before, but like forcing myself to go out there and say stuff idk, but i kind of came on too strong (or like forcing) doesnt stick after. So im afraid it wil be more awkward after than if i never did at all. Is this just an INTP thing? Are any of you guys like this too?

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u/No-Pretzel-2404 — 4 days ago

Why cant i talk to ppl irl like i talk to in reddit?

Theres this someone i want to talk to.. (not sure, i like them) classmate basically (to describe). I keep meeting (run into them) due to circumstances. Should i..? But im afraid if i will ruin it, and it will be awkward after, rather than this 'just someone you see, never rlly talked to'. I have tried to make ppl into friends before, but like forcing myself to go out there and say stuff idk, but i kind of came on too strong (or like forcing) doesnt stick after. So im afraid it wil be more awkward after than if i never did at all

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u/No-Pretzel-2404 — 4 days ago

2V is not an angel.

It just assumes everyone else is normal people and decent.

And 3V is not a demon. Its just insecure and doubts everyone and everything.

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u/No-Pretzel-2404 — 5 days ago

Its like there is an unwritten rule. You have to talk about this you cant talk about that. Its so bland or almost manufactured sometime i see like a factory. Follow the rules

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u/No-Pretzel-2404 — 25 days ago