u/NoPangolin5557

First post here.

I'm right on the edge of a depressive phase - not in one yet; and taking matters into my own hand, I know, with the right prophylaxis it won't become a full-blown depressive episode.

When I cancelled some plans and told my dear friends why, everyone was lovely about it. Daily check-ins. Lots of love. All meant well. It's only been a hear since my diagnose, so this is all new to us all.

But they hear "depressed" and think sad. They're treating it like something bad happened to me and I need comfort. That I am in am emotional state, that I am crying, etc.

But for me, personally, that's not it at all. I'm not sad. I'm depleted. Low energy, sleeping a lot, foggy, a bit jaded. Things I normally enjoy have turned into nuisances I have to push myself through - cooking a proper meal instead of ordering in, that kind of thing. I am still functioning, under duress, but not bed-ridden.

So I've started saying this instead:

"I've caught a cold and I don't want it to turn into the flu."

It maps almost perfectly to how I feel right now.

- Nobody asks how you feel about a cold

- Everyone already knows what you do: rest, sleep, eat properly, don't power throug

- It's genuinely unpleasant but not yet dramatic

- And what you do in the next few days decides which way it goes

Best part: Everyone has experienced a cold, everyone experienced how bad "powering through it" is, how dumb; how it makes things worse and how having a full-blown flu that makes you bed-ridden for 2 weeks and then you need more time to actually really feel "normal" again.

Does anyone else have language for this stage? The bit before the episode, where you're still functional but you can feel it coming - and you pull the ripcord and prevent it - which requires focusing on this right now and nothing else - on one's immediate health.

I don't think most people know there can be a stage before the actual episode

I had to come here, to this snarky little community of ours to see any of their lewks. none of the big online players featured them,

no body cares about the nipples anymore, or for the MET Gala frankly but that’s beside the point.

i live literally everyone is so over them

I have been wondering this for a long time - why hasn't Bravo, or Univisión for that matter, started a mostly Spanish speaking franchise of RH in Puerto Rico/San Juan?

Having lived many years in South America and fluent in both Portuguese and Spanish, I can say the antics and the drama of it all, right up Latin audiences's ally. Also it would aknowledge PR as part of the USA, but San Juan on the map and would feel like a real win of diversity of what the USA are - I know, ludacrious ideas in MAGA America, but I really do believe such a format could work?

What do you think? And please do not say RHOM is catering to the Latin community, it is not.