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Lala—Hilo side

For those like me who don’t have Facebook or Instagram sharing Rainbow Falls and Wailuku. Most everybody I know in the Hilo area has power restored I know Puna Volcano and Kau side has not been. Spectrum is still down.

I ventured out around 8am Sunday morning and Hilo was just getting up. Did the whole Rainbow Falls run and then headed to look for coffee. Only area with power was near the police station and only K’s Drive Inn was open. Headed to Target/Safeway side and they were the only ones open. Safeway was putting there cold stuff back out as they had taken them all out of the chills. Got my coffee at Starbucks and then went to top off my gas. Long lines everywhere. Got premium only at 76 by KTA. All lights were out so every one was a 4 way. Tons of people blasting right through. By then power was being restored in many areas and you could see the town slowly start to open up. Born and raised here and this one was major. Been in touch with my brother who got held at rescue the past 2 days and they had some crazy calls.

Please be kind to anyone you come in contact with from those working in the stores, or gas stations or Starbucks and definitely first responders and county workers as well as HELCO Spectrum and Hawaiian Telcom.

u/NoProfessor6700 — 4 days ago

QDRO rollover to Roth

Was given my ex husbands 401k via a QDRO as my buyout in the divorce. I need to move it out of his companies plan administrator who is NWPS. I’ve done my due diligence and chosen Fidelity. My question is if anyone has experience with Fidelity Go or if I should just invest the money in a targeted date index fund on the self directed side (I have about 20 more years before retirement)? Thank you in advance for your response.

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u/NoProfessor6700 — 12 days ago

Avoidant? Narcissist?

I’ve been reading this sub for awhile and I don’t even really know if my ex is an avoidant. He has heavy narcissistic behavior as well. To add to that he used heavy anabolic steroids that ended up giving him extreme depression and anhedonia. Lots of push pull behavior. Blocking me and then unblocking me and sending whole ass novels about how happy he is and how I deserve better thanking me for the years we were together and then ending with I love you all while telling me I don’t deserve our dog who he has possession of.

Where I’m struggling is he is the complete opposite of who I knew him to be. He met someone 3 months ago who he is now marrying. They wear rings. They have taken trips every other week. Forced meetings with both sides of the families. He works for her now. Basically integrated into each other’s lives full time. He doesn’t like to travel. He likes his alone time. He didn’t like social media and now they record everything and post everything! We’re in our mid 40’s if that context matters. It just spins my mind to see this newly invented person. Is this normal?

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u/NoProfessor6700 — 1 month ago

California Dreamin’ (F45)

Inspired by the post today in this sub at Disneyland. My visit over the Juneteenth holiday last month. Take me back! 🎡

u/NoProfessor6700 — 2 months ago
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2025 Hybrid Sport L

Who knew you could “love” a car so much! I’ve owned an F150, an Expedition, three Explorers and a Maxima in my lifetime and this car is hands done my favorite. Perfect everything! Her name is STORM 🤍🖤

u/NoProfessor6700 — 2 months ago