Me '19M' and my gf '20F' are having trouble finding time to see each other, because of her young son. What can we do?
Me and my gf have been seeing each other for 4 months and everything has been good, we were making dates and my gf's mom would normally watch her son when we went out. But her mom says she doesn't want to raise my gf son, so she stopped a couple weeks ago. Now we haven't had a date in 2 weeks and im worried she's pulling away. I want to be there, even if her son is there. But my gf is nervous about the kid getting attached. If we break up, and thats making me feel worse because maybe she's thinking we wont work out.
Im not trying to be selfish, I know her son will always be the number one priority. I just want to be there. Can I have any advice, and I being selfish am I overthinking, any advice is welcome.