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Hi, I immediately need a 1bhk flat near Koramangala,Bellandur, Marathahalli stretch, please dm if you have any leads. Need urgently !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi, I immediately need a 1bhk flat near Koramangala,Bellandur, Marathahalli stretch, please dm if you have any leads. Need urgently !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Looking for a 1bhk near indirangar.. dm me leads

Me and my boyfriend met in our first year of college , and had been together for now the last 8 years. In these 8 years we even had a short breakup period of 9 months where we separated because of prolonged stress regarding placements and which resulted us becoming victims to our own frustrations

When we reconciled, it felt as if this time things would be better , we didn’t have any relations be it physical or emotional during that 9 months period with anyone else and all we wanted was to maybe give it one more chance , fast forward 3 years , we were planning marriage , kids , our parents had met twice , our families even the external one knew about each other , everything was good , fairy like,, I was marrying my first love, the love of my life ,,,, it was so beautiful.

I was happy … very happy … until things came down to RESPONSIBILITIES AND ADJUSTMENTS

Now to give you some things that made me to breakup with the love of my life :

1. We had been mostly long distance in these 8 years … I wanted to just be with this man asap … that’s why the marriage … but I had to shift to his place which is from bnglr to Gurgaon.

2. The guys mom, has a problem with working woman I feel… she kept posting across all social channels about how women in today’s world our independent but still dependant on house help etc … even tho she never told me anything directly but it just felt some sort of resentment towards me.

3. He wanted to be with his family who live in a very small place … I was ready to come down to Gurgaon because I wanted a standard for myself but not to live with his parents … he kind of didn’t like it.

4. I wanted us to have court marriage so that we can just shift together asap and not explain anyone anything when living together even tho we are two 28 years old earning well adults … he didn’t agree on that because his parents didn’t

5. There were other things like travelling together …within India and his parents had a big problem with that …
   So in these 8 years I have never been with him anywhere

6. The marriage discussions had been very stressful as his parents kept insisting on having the marriage in their hometown which was not at all feasible for my family since all of us live in different parts of India. Again lot of stress here as well

And with this . The stress occupied us both , I started seeing him not very interested to even live with me or discuss future . I lost my excitement my thrill in this relationship and I broke up with him just a week ago.

Honestly it’s the worst feeling ever as I really thought things could have been solved … but idk .. idk why we came back together when things had to turn this way . I still sometimes pray that maybe he might take a stand and not ruin but nothing is in my hands .. I had multiple calls and meetings for like hours with him and he just couldn’t understand why I wanted what I wanted.

So, we are in a LDR for last 7 years now and he is the first man I have gotten intimate with. He is my first kiss , my first handjob, my first everything and we are probably planning to get married soon but this thing has been troubling me a lot .

He says I don’t smell good and he just can’t give me the blow job although I am very horny person and I just feel neglected even tho I keep the utmost hygiene . He feels girls should smell like nothing although again even I am his first everything except the fact that we are still virgins …sometime I feel because of the smell he doesn’t want to have sex

I even told him one instance why don’t u just try hooking up with others and you might understand how do girls actually smell down there … but obviously he won’t agree lol .

I don’t know how to solve this ?

So my mom who is 51 years old has been having pain on her mid face near the sinuses that radiates towards the brain and sometimes near lower lips and teeth. It’s very sharp and doesn’t go away.

We had blood tests done , MRI done , nothing cams except some mild sinusitis. Don’t know what’s the cause , trigeminal nueraligia and TMJ are already ruled out by the doctor.

The doctor just gave a pain killer but it hasn’t gone even after 2 weeks now , need really good advice on what it can be , mostly feels on the nerves .

Please help.