u/Novel_Suggestion_788

I've tried a bunch of different ways of tracking habits over the years, and I keep noticing the same thing: the first few days are easy, then the tracker itself starts becoming another thing to maintain.

I'm curious what other people experience.

What do you actually want from a habit tracker?

For example:

• Just a very simple daily checklist?
• Useful progress/stats?
• Streaks?
• Reminders?
• A calendar/year view?
• Routines rather than individual habits?
• Journaling or reflection alongside habits?
• Something that helps you understand why you're inconsistent?
• Learning/resources around habits and self-improvement?
• Cloud sync between phone and desktop?

And on the other side, what makes you stop using one?

I'd especially like to hear from people who have tried several apps. What did you like about the ones you kept, and what annoyed you enough to stop using them?

No I'm not asking this for what you've thought

Let's meet at the theatre.. if in dm your number ladies & gentlemen.. I was bored so I'm going to watch the movie as the reviews are good..

Not 2-3 days long but just few hours or a day?

Nothing excited here so thought why not meet new people.. i would like to go hikes or random friends meetup? .. anyone? I'm in 2nd year

So me and my gf broke up from almost a year long loving relationship, but I feel nothing, i dont miss her, even I'm enjoying it without her.. it was Idr, we never met

We broke up due to her family, they got to know about us and then for 7 days they snatched her phone and maybe that part made us mentally ready for this!

This is the first time i deleted someone's chat and photo and everything without even looking at them once.. I felt more heartbroken in situationships

Is it normal? Or we just lost our spark at the end?

And for 8 months we both felt a lott for eachother over small arguments and fights..

So i got rj (thinking about her past) in last 2-3 months, actually I saw a video of her which she sent to someone else (iykyk) and now I'm disgusted that how disgusting that feeling is of seeing your partner's such video.. and after seeing that, something changed inside me. I couldn't look at her the same way

And I'm feeling relief that I'm not with her anymore..

We were in 8 month of relationship.. I don't think that was "pyar" wala love, like srk movies kinda love because for me i always believed Idr is a waste of time and you can't love someone without meeting physically.. we both wanted to meet but unfortunately didn't meet, she even cried multiple times for this.

And i think she's also not missing me, because that's how it works and I know her enough..

I don't have any regrets from the relationship just 1 thought that we didn't get physically close, I don't know her fragrance, I don't know how she will react to my eye contacts, I don't know how her soft skin feels while kissing, I don't know how she cares in real... Just this but not as a feeling or fomo, but just a thought

Just wanted to rant here!

Did you also ever feel nothing for the person once you felt a lot?

This is what I wanted to feel but feeling nothing for her after breakup 😭 sorry for the heading but wanted you to read this rant :)

So me and my gf broke up from almost a year long loving relationship, but I feel nothing, i dont miss her, even I'm enjoying it without her.. it was Idr, we never met

We broke up due to her family, they got to know about us and then for 7 days they snatched her phone and maybe that part made us mentally ready for this!

This is the first time i deleted someone's chat and photo and everything without even looking at them once.. I felt more heartbroken in situationships

Is it normal? Or we just lost our spark at the end?

And for 8 months we both felt a lott for eachother over small arguments and fights..

So i got rj (thinking about her past) in last 2-3 months, actually I saw a video of her which she sent to someone else (iykyk) and now I'm disgusted that how disgusting that feeling is of seeing your partner's such video.. and after seeing that, something changed inside me. I couldn't look at her the same way

And I'm feeling relieved that I'm not with her anymore..

We were in 8 months of relationship.. I don't think that was "pyar" wala love, like srk movies kinda love because for me i always believed Idr is a waste of time and you can't love someone without meeting physically.. we both wanted to meet but unfortunately didn't meet, she even cried multiple times for this.

And i think she's also not missing me, because that's how it works and I know her enough..

I don't have any regrets from the relationship just 1 thought that we didn't get physically close, I don't know her fragrance, I don't know how she will react to my eye contacts, I don't know how her soft skin feels while kissing, I don't know how she cares in real... Just this but not as a feeling or fomo, but just a thought

Just wanted to rant here!

Did you also ever feel nothing for the person once you felt a lot?

So me and my gf broke up from almost a year long loving relationship, but I feel nothing, i dont miss her, even I'm enjoying it without her.. it was Idr, we never met

We broke up due to her family, they got to know about us and then for 7 days they snatched her phone and maybe that part made us mentally ready for this!

This is the first time i deleted someone's chat and photo and everything without even looking at them once.. I felt more heartbroken in situationships

Is it normal? Or we just lost our spark at the end?

And for 8 months we both felt a lott for eachother over small arguments and fights..

So i got rj (thinking about her past) in last 2-3 months, actually I saw a video of her which she sent to someone else (iykyk) and now I'm disgusted that how disgusting that feeling is of seeing your partner's such video.. and after seeing that, something changed inside me. I couldn't look at her the same way

And I'm feeling relief that I'm not with her anymore..

We were in 8 month of relationship.. I don't think that was "pyar" wala love, like srk movies kinda love because for me i always believed Idr is a waste of time and you can't love someone without meeting physically.. we both wanted to meet but unfortunately didn't meet, she even cried multiple times for this.

And i think she's also not missing me, because that's how it works and I know her enough..

I don't have any regrets from the relationship just 1 thought that we didn't get physically close, I don't know her fragrance, I don't know how she will react to my eye contacts, I don't know how her soft skin feels while kissing, I don't know how she cares in real... Just this but not as a feeling or fomo, but just a thought

Just wanted to rant here!

Did you also ever feel nothing for the person once you felt a lot?

Summery of my post- she was ldr online relationship, they never met, guy came once but she refused, she did stuff like nudes and complet nude over video calls but never felt comfortable, and detached in the end, she says she never loved that guy and he made her believe that girls have to do this in relationship and it's completely normal and that's why she did.. she broke up 10s of times and he used to come back, even in our relationship he came and she abused him, he came again she again abused him "bkl, bhaiya, laude, I'm grossed by ur mssg, u were not even a situationship" she says she did all that because she moved to New city in hostel and was alone and then she got into this stuff and relationship so she had no one else..

You can share your thoughts now-

Reason behind this post is- want to accept the past, and that doesn't have a big deal.. she never did anything to make someone stop just thought that it all is normal...

Hi, i have rj, I felt completely consumed by rj few weeks back and then things went to normal.

That time- we broke up, she cried, got tired I got tired.. i was seeing 0 hope, then somehow I got recovered but not completely yet

I still get thoughts of her past, and yesterday I felt like I got an rj waves- 7/10 is I give it a number,

So she (F18) had been in an online Idr relationship for 8 months before meeting me, and she did online stuff, as the guy kept asking it and she said he convinced her and even her sister said "yeah it's normal guys want that" yk nudes and videos stuff.. that guy came to meet her but she refused as she always said that she came in relationship because guy said her this is what like or relationship is- he treated her well, they met over and game.. she said she never loved him and she just got attached as it was her first ever relationship, she don't like to have friends... And in that same year she shifted to a new city in the hostel and that's why she says she got attached because she had no friends there...

I saw a nu*e video of her (upper body) which she sent to that guy, video was completely normal, which triggered my peak rj few months back and she said about that - that it became normal after a time and from her side she never do anything, he used to ask multiple times then she sends or show.. and she said she never sexted, never asked for his pic or spicy once, she never liked that guy much, and brokeup multiple times but he used to come back.. he broke his phone. When she refused to completely nude stuff over video calls,

She never felt comfortable and she said over showing a lower body she only did 5-6 times and like for few seconds.. and said even upper body stuff she never felt much comfortable and he asked for marriage and she said I'm not sure in just 2-3 months..

Her sister also told me she was never serious and he used to come back and says my mother is I'll, my father this and that to talk to her again after she blocks him..

And from the last 24 hours I'm again feeling rj a lil and after reading posts in this community about 5 body cou*ts, casual, 3some etc I'm feeling idiot to feel this way just bcs of an online relationship

That guy came again and again even after when she directly abused him, and when the last time he texted her she said things like -"dwarf, bk*, brother, you were not even a situation brother, I feel utterly grossed by your 1 mssg, i never even like you get lost"

But my problem is- why did you do that? Just to make him stay? How can someone manipulate you for doing such things?

my girlfriend never met a guy in her life irl, she had an online relationship where she did all the things online(nude video calls), she says she was never involved and guy made her believe that it's normal and she did and she broke up herself multiple times even before doing anything as she felt it was inappropriate and later got failed in 11th due to assignment issue & got depressed and he approached her again and literal haa 0 feelings for anyone,

She loves me like movies, she's the best girl a guy can find.. she literally broke up with her childhood female bestfriends for me.. she has 0 male following, she has 0 male friends, she blocks evry guy if I even feel a slightly anything.. she calls me "app (you but in Hindi it's a respect for elders) where as I call her tum (normal you for friends etc which 99% people use for their partner)

But I have rj... First it was okay I got 2 episodes of it and then things went normal but now from past 7 day I'm literally very anxious 24 hours and hyper rj..

I saw her a video where she was not wearing anything on upper and was doing stuff video was 20-25 seconds, and I saw this a month ego and things went alright then but now from a week it's been hell...

I've literally asked her evrything but questions ain't giving me any peace,

We broke up for 3-4 hours and I lost RJ completely but now again..

First i didn't know she did all this then I got to know as I was sure she didn't, I got to know on first 2 months and now I'm stuck from past week, it's been 7 months of us dating

I love her a lot but I'm unable to accept her past

Am i cooked? I want to be with her, i can't even see a tear in her eyes

my girlfriend never met a guy in her life, she has an online relationship where she did all the things online, she says she was never involved and guy made her believe that it's normal and she did and she broke up herself and literal haa 0 feelings for anyone,

She loves me like movies, she's the best girl a guy can find.. she literally broke up with her childhood female bestfriends for me.. she has 0 male following, she has 0 male friends, she blocks evry guy if I even feel a slightly anything.. she calls me "app (you but in Hindi it's a respect for elders) where as I call her tum(normal you for friends etc which 99% people use for their partner)

But I have rj... First it was okay I got 2 episodes of it and then things went normal but now from past 7 day I'm literally very anxious 24 hours and hyper rj..

I saw her a video where she was not wearing anything on upper and was doing stuff video was 20-25 seconds , and I saw this a month ego and things went alright then but now from a week it's been hell...

I've literally asked her evrything but questions ain't giving me any peace,

We broke up for 3-4 hours and I lost RJ completely but now again..

First i didn't know she did all this then I got to know as I was sure she didn't, I got to know on first 2 months and now I'm stuck from past week, it's been 7 months of us dating

I lover her a lot but I'm unable to accept her past

Recently worked on a cosmetic clinic website project and a few things stood out:

Mobile traffic was over 80%

Appointment forms mattered more than fancy animations

Treatment-specific pages performed better than generic service pages

Google Business integration improved trust

Faster loading pages reduced drop-offs

Anyone else working with local businesses seeing similar trends?

Disclosure: I build websites, so I'm biased, but these findings surprised me.

A surprising thing I've noticed:

Many local businesses will spend heavily on rent, interiors, staff, and equipment but treat their website as an afterthought.

Yet customers often:

Search Google first

Check reviews

Visit the website

Compare competitors

Do you think websites are still a major trust factor, or are social media pages enough now?

Hi I am M19, i found her nude video, talking to one friend while doing things- squeezing and talking. the video only covers the upper body but she has done everything on video calls

They never met in irl, that was only, and it was her first time, she was 17 that time..

And he forced her and manipulated, as ik her she's a very that kind of girl who will never do such things at first,

Story- he asked that bo**s showing etc and she broke up within 1-2 months of relationship and then she somehow failed due to an assignment problem in 11th, and got depressed, anyone will! And then she went back, and then she was ofc alone very upset, he asked for all that saying - it's completely normal, every good couple do this(he was 23, she was 17 and they met on a game and never met irl, he came in july 2025 but bahana banake voh kabhi nahi mili usse) but when he asked manipulated to many times eventually see end of doing all the things even see broke up and ask not to do and sad she was never comfortable etc,

She said she never even smiled while on such video calls , but of course if you are in a relationship things will get normal and you enjoy and all that she says she never enjoyed but Idk why I feel bad!

And she knew from the moment that she's going to brokeup and leave him, she left him multiple times he used to come back, like every 2-3 weeks she used breakup and she said she only talked when she felt not when he wanted to talk, sometimes talking in a week only ,

She was depressed due to exam fail and she also doesn't talk to anyone even today, so she used to go back and then things became habitual doing all that,

But she said to me max she had done completely nude video call 5 times in 10 months of that relationship, idk about that but let it

I found her letter which she wrote for herself never sent- u just want f.. me, and all, and also found alot of crying videos of her like every months there's a crying video ,

And then i found her nude video where she's talking playing with hands saying, you wouldn't get the b....ies today and this video was about august, and also found some flirty videos asking for video call(context do video call naa so i can stare(admire), not on you but i Stare myself only)

And now i feel disgusted! This is my personal preference but i really feel i ... Can't explain that emotion, very strange frustrating tiring, hurtful, anxious, fuc* it

Now I saw these things 1 month back but recently on vc she flashed them and idk why suddenly i got triggered, I also forgot things before that but when i got triggered 2 days back I'm feeling this way! And now visualising that video literally kills!

Idk what to do, I talked to her, she explained everything, she talked gently, handled evrything very well but it's me I can register it now!

If things will go like this, every time I will remember her past and ruin my mood and my nervous system and the moment

She loves me more then anyone can love me, just perfectlyyyyy, she makes me sure I'm her first, and evrything, she always helped me in such situations but if things don't get resolved we can't have a happy future,

Ik the problem is not her but me! But i can't help it na!!! I got sweat and that chest heaviness when i remembered that moment

This is retroactive nealously, she helped me through this for 7 months to overcome

i love her

Help..

Hi, i found her nude video, talking to one friend while doing things- squeezing and talking. the video only covers the upper body but she has done everything on video calls

They never met in irl, that was only, and it was her first time, she was 17 that time..

And he forced her and manipulated, as ik her she's a very that kind of girl who will never do such things at first,

Story- he asked that bo**s showing etc and she broke up within 1-2 months of relationship and then she somehow failed due to an assignment problem in 11th, and got depressed, anyone will! And then she went back, and then she was ofc alone very upset, he asked for all that saying - it's completely normal, every good couple do this(he was 23, she was 17 and they met on a game and never met irl, he came in july 2025 but bahana banake voh kabhi nahi mili usse) but when he asked manipulated to many times eventually see end of doing all the things even see broke up and ask not to do and sad she was never comfortable etc,

She said she never even smiled while on such video calls , but of course if you are in a relationship things will get normal and you enjoy and all that she says she never enjoyed but Idk why I feel bad!

And she knew from the moment that she's going to brokeup and leave him, she left him multiple times he used to come back, like every 2-3 weeks she used breakup and she said she only talked when she felt not when he wanted to talk, sometimes talking in a week only ,

She was depressed due to exam fail and she also doesn't talk to anyone even today, so she used to go back and then things became habitual doing all that,

But she said to me max she had done completely nude video call 5 times in 10 months of that relationship, idk about that but let it

I found her letter which she wrote for herself never sent- u just want f.. me, and all, and also found alot of crying videos of her like every months there's a crying video ,

And then i found her nude video where she's talking playing with hands saying, you wouldn't get the b....ies today and this video was about august, and also found some flirty videos asking for video call(context do video call naa so i can stare(admire), not on you but i Stare myself only)

And now i feel disgusted! This is my personal preference but i really feel i ... Can't explain that emotion, very strange frustrating tiring, hurtful, anxious, fuc* it

Now I saw these things 1 month back but recently on vc she flashed them and idk why suddenly i got triggered, I also forgot things before that but when i got triggered 2 days back I'm feeling this way! And now visualising that video literally kills!

Idk what to do, I talked to her, she explained everything, she talked gently, handled evrything very well but it's me I can register it now!

If things will go like this, every time I will remember her past and ruin my mood and my nervous system and the moment

She loves me more then anyone can love me, just perfectlyyyyy, she makes me sure I'm her first, and evrything, she always helped me in such situations but if things don't get resolved we can't have a happy future,

Ik the problem is not her but me! But i can't help it na!!! I got sweat and that chest heaviness when i remembered that moment

This is retroactive nealously, she helped me through this for 7 months to overcome

i love her

Help..